Most of these reply posts are male. Here’s a female Ex-Pat perspective.
I’m sure that, among the Expat (farang) males, there are many who treat women as equals - in intellect, capability, etc. And, that must mean that Thai women are not treated as chattels, in those cases.
However, when I read posts in “ASEAN Now” about Thai women (as wives, girlfriends, etc.), I rarely see respect for women. I see comments about Thai women as manipulative. I have to ask myself where the manipulation originates.
Does it start with farangs’ promises of an easier life? What were you thinking? You were truly noble, while securing a guaranteed root and servility? And, all of this, on your pension?
You eschewed women from your home country for a reason. They challenged your machismo!