Afternoon All
I have a few questions regarding getting married in Thailand and would appreciate your thoughts.
OK so I have gone through all the necessary procedures required and have my CNI etc meaning all good to go.
I have been with my girl for 6 years and after 2 failed (western) marriages had never really given it a thought as if I fail at something twice then that is enough and move on.
It was brought up by her and in a way that sounded reasonable.
We have 2 homes paid for by me and she said that in the event of her passing before me if married would mean I would have HALF or one house.
No mum or dad just a <deleted> son 19 that does not like farangs meaning no effort to talk to me etc even know his whole lazy existence is paid for by me.
1. The first thing that came to my mind was I would not live in this village anymore if she had passed.
2. The second reason not to go along with her is she may be thinking of me but I know with an Aunty both sides of us and her son it would be difficult for me to end up with anything.
I also doubt it would be sellable as they are penniless and doubt anyone would want to live in the middle of their <deleted>.
3. I have read many posts where it is possible for me to own the house and a Thai the land. With all the Lawyers fee’s etc in having all this drawn up only to end up with nothing seems pointless.
4. I also don’t have the money to live out my retirement here and will probably have to go back home and work for a while to build up the bank account which we have talked about.
5. SO, I believe I would be marrying to just make her happy which is fine (BUT)
6. I do not know if there are benefits, she is thinking of or been told about and that there may be downfalls I don’t know about.
7. If you men out there married could give me some advice that would be appreciated.
+/- to being Married
1. Are there benefits to being married and I am already on a retirement VISA..
2. What are the downfalls
3. Am I liable, accountable for anything if I’m no longer in Thailand but still married to her.
Appreciate your comments
Regards, Jack