IsmeUno

I'm less interested in what you say and more interested in seeing how you behave for myself. I then compare that to what you say. There is a huge gap.

I have no idea as to how my words sound. Indeed, I am just tapping on a keyboard. Everyone has the choice to not read my posts if reading them has a negative effect on their thinking. My perspective is going to differ from yours. I am not so intolerant in that I cannot accept that. Of course you are welcome to give any woman your money, but personally my relationships aren't dependent on that. The fact that you selected women that you have to support, falls in with your controlling character. My women are free. Free to choose whomever they want. It's nice that they choose me. No money. No coercion. But you two sound trapped and unhappy. Trapped by your own choices.

Why are you so obsessed with me? You joined up with @fredwiggy why? Did you feel the need for support in your lonely room? What's happening in your world? Why are you so upset?

Why would you assert that it's such a silly topic? 250 pages say it isn't.

Fred... I know you and @Hummin think of me as the enemy, but you completely glossed over what Richard wrote. No one is stating that you are lying. We are stating that you refuse to acknowledge what seem to be very obvious behaviours. Because you take it as an affront, someone merely mentioning that you might not be perfect, you get into arguments about it. So how could anyone close to you deal with such a situation? You don't even consider that.

It meant that after I clicked Submit Reply, they button went grey, but it didn't submit the reply. I think we might be getting off topic, as we aren't discussing the shameless girl nor anything around that.

@JiuJitsu

Button stating 'saving' for perhaps 30 seconds.

Hey @KannikaP, don't be like that 😊

Forum or Internet glitch 😊

You think it's my back against the wall? You have a wild imagination. Were you on the phone or not?

...and you joined the 'bickering' because you are above it all?

I can guarantee that you cannot find any post where I have written what you have suggested. That is just your imagination extrapolating something completely different. The fact is that whatever you write and however you behave is noted. I don't need to keep files on non-entities. You are simply a name on a forum. Not at all important in my life. If you disappeared tomorrow, it would make no difference to my life at all. So why on earth do you think that I would spend any time collecting information about you? You think too much of yourself. Both you and your 'friend'. There's a name for such people. 😊 Both becoming abusive, but then attempting to gaslight that the abuse is coming from the other person. Perhaps just nasty manipulative men who need to pay for their company. Birds of a feather, eh?

I can barely even understand what you write. Yes, I am expressing my perspective, that's how it works on a forum with more than one person on it. You get perspectives other than your own. How you deal with that says everything about you.

You haven't proved anything other than demonstrating that you were hurt by something that I wrote. Where did it hurt? What hurt you? Tell me. Was it the paying for companionship?

I haven't seen any evidence of what you tell us. I see evidence of your actual behaviour.

Having another meltdown, my friend? It's a discussion forum. We discussed the shameless girl, topics on ex- girlfriends. Everything on topic. So do your contributions to this topic qualify as I mean to me you write garbled nonsense, but I try to make sense of what you are trying to impart. So when you tell @Cameroni how you see it from your perspective, are you saying that it's okay because it's your perspective and not mine? Is that not stating that your perspective is valid and that mine is not? Which one of us thinks he is superior again? I don't see you taking umbrage at your fellow mental weaklings abuse aimed at me. I know that you have some issues of your own, but remember, you cannot control the opinions of others. You might seek to censor them, but they still exist. If you don't like my opinions, simply utilise the Ignore function. I have my opinions about you, but they would be off-topic on this thread. If an appropriate thread arises, we might talk about it there. Take your own advice, rather than being unable to control yourself and jumping in with all guns blazing. Otherwise I might feel inclined to put you in your place. You know what happens.

Do you feel that you have 'won' this argument? I have family. They are family. Enough said. So what have you been doing all this time? There's no one there, you are responding to writing on a page. Why not just ignore it? That's nice...but you seem to have turned out to be a bit of a narcissist. I cannot control how others see me. That's okay with me. Correct, it is his thread.

Wow....😊 All I can add is that it's easy to find out the kind of person underneath, if you aren't just an arrogant, vain narcissist. I don't do stupid things like create children due to 'attraction', without understanding how we might move forward as a unit, nor break up with 90 women and then claim that I didn't hurt any of their feelings. You are only digging a bigger hole for yourself, post by post.

You seem to be 'losing it'. pretending that this discussion is for a higher cause of your part. No, it isn't. It's to protect your ego 😊 No, I haven't noticed "how 7 people have always answered" me. That's to do with them, isn't it? I'm responsible for my behaviour and they are responsible for theirs. The 'crazies' get apoplectic because they try to control other people, whilst giving themselves a free ride. How's that working out for you?

So you say. TBH the more you write, the more you come over as a bit of a psychopath.

So now it's the other 5? Meaning that you now include @atpeace as a troll, including him in your abuse. Nice. A few minutes ago, you stated that he was not. Are you okay? You seem to lack stability. It's okay, I can be the first. I suggest that you do, even if inadvertently, due to aspects of your behaviour that you cannot acknowledge. The fact that you had children with them and then took their children away, doesn't seem like 'treating them well'. If men and women are equals in your book, then why do you have to provide and give them money? Why don't they give you money? Of course you aren't equals. You seem abusive to me. What happens if your wife or children have another perspective? Do you acknowledge and respect that like you do here? By what you have written and how you behave. You think that because you write something, it is interpreted in the way that you want it to be interpreted. That's not how it works. As an adult, you should understand that. In my world, you are.

My troupe? Who are they? 😊 I guess that why you have invented your phone 'friends', so you can have your own 'troupe' 😊 There's always a chance that I could be wrong. But the evidence of your behaviour is plain for all to see. If someone doesn't agree with you, you become abusive and bear a grudge. Chances are that behaviour pervaded your close relationships. How could it not? The fact that you cannot acknowledge what for everyone else is plain to see, only serves to confirm my educated guess. You cannot fix what you don't even acknowledge. So you likely have been behaving that way the whole time. Poor women and poor your family.

If you are doing the same thing, does that mean it's your problem? Laughing whilst ranting and abusing? Sounds...insane. Yes, when nearly 50% of what you write are attempts at abusive insults, that would appear to be abnormal, somewhat extreme behaviour. Maybe it's normal for you. More attempts at abusive insults... A few have suggested it, but you just become defensive and abusive. You mention what you think makes you look good and sympathetic. It's not truth, only your perception of what happens. When anyone asks about your specific behaviour, you get mad and start throwing out abuse. Really? Your record shows otherwise. Unlike yourself, I am not concerned about what you say that other people are doing. So your abuse isn't abuse, but 'necessary' 😊 So your disgusting behaviour here is just an amusement for yourself?

Kewpie's potato salad? Haven't seen those myself.