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Just now, NowNow said:

 

Okay, come clean. Sociopath or Troll?

 

Everything on this thread is 100% true.

 

Sadly.

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Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Everything on this thread is 100% true.

 

Sadly.

I believe you. So Option 1.

17 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Sadly, no, Snoopy is not my girlfriend, by a cruel twiste of fate,

 

I doubt it. Offer 15,000 baht a month with your next message and see if it gets ignored,

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25 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

I doubt it. Offer 15,000 baht a month with your next message and see if it gets ignored,

 

Poor Snoopy, nobody understands you. You're a PIM university graduate, you paid your studies yourself. You work so hard at 711, for a mere 18000 Baht and took on all this debt for a tiny condo. All you want is love, and a guy who helps you pay the bills. And they think you're a common sex worker.

 

If only I had at least admitted lying when she sent a photo of the deposit letter. She might still read my messages at least. 

 

You really don't get her. I offered her a Michelin starred restaurant, a Siam Paragon shopping trip. She was not interested, because she wants a long term relationship. Just not with a liar.

 

Money can't buy her. I dispatched a secret agent to approach her with a freelance offer, just to confirm she won't take it.

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Meanwhile I'm stuck with this sex freak who sleeps all day and got sloshed on beer yesterday night, crying at me that she can't pay her bills.

 

I'm driving in the car with music on the radio and she starts playing music on her phone. Do you have any idea how annoying this is?

 

Snoopy would never have done that. She had class.

 

Why am I so punished in life?

8 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Poor Snoopy, nobody understands you. You're a PIM university graduate, you paid your studies yourself. You work so hard at 711, for a mere 18000 Baht and took on all this debt for a tiny condo. All you want is love, and a guy who helps you pay the bills. And they think you're a common sex worker.

 

If only I had at least admitted lying when she sent a photo of the deposit letter. She might still read my messages at least. 

 

You really don't get her. I offered her a Michelin starred restaurant, a Siam Paragon shopping trip. She was not interested, because she wants a long term relationship. Just not with a liar.

 

Money can't buy her. I dispatched a secret agent to approach her with a freelance offer, just to confirm she won't take it.

 

Michelin starred 😊 Jay Fai most likely 😊 Creepy...

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12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Why am I so punished in life?

You can deny it all you want but the reason is you are an aging sex monger with very little class at all. 

Get them to cook a meal for you and wash the dishes.  It's time for them to prove themselves.  Are they worth your time?

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Snoopy would never have done that. She had class

 

A shame that you don't have any.

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4 hours ago, Chris Daley said:

Get them to cook a meal for you and wash the dishes.  It's time for them to prove themselves.  Are they worth your time?

 

I actually have that as a test. I leave a lot of dishes before they arrive. If one gets to work and cleans them out of herself, she gets exta points for the potential prize.

 

Needless to say Pang, the current one, though very imaginative when it comes to selecting earrings, buying clothes, getting hair treatments, never once thought of cleaning the dishes.

 

An only child. 

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4 hours ago, marin said:

You can deny it all you want but the reason is you are an aging sex monger with very little class at all. 

 

Mongering is not something I like to do, simply because you don't get the commitment which a girl who thinks she can nail a prize in terms of long term relationship brings to the bedroom.

 

When Snoopy brought it over ten times that day and night, I am not so deluded to think it's because of my pretty face or body, obviously she thought she has a connection with someone who is a potential life time partner. That brings out the best in the bedroom in a way 2000 or 3000 Baht just can't.

 

Barring unforeseen hiccups, like that infernal hotel deposit receipt, the girls invariably have a wonderful time and leave with a bright smile on their faces. Most can't wait to meet again. I have a virgin from Pathum Thani hitting me up now for a second meet. In the first one she slept in a separate bedroom and did not want to engage physically. I respected that. See? Class. Now she wants another go, and already said she is ready to sleep in my bedroom.   Patience and understanding, plus endless fun and shopping, these are as classy as they need it to be.

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Mongering is not something I like to do, simply because you don't get the commitment which a girl who thinks she can nail a prize in terms of long term relationship brings to the bedroom.

 

When Snoopy brought it over ten times that day and night, I am not so deluded to think it's because of my pretty face or body, obviously she thought she has a connection with someone who is a potential life time partner. That brings out the best in the bedroom in a way 2000 or 3000 Baht just can't.

 

Barring unforeseen hiccups, like that infernal hotel deposit receipt, the girls invariably have a wonderful time and leave with a bright smile on their faces. Most can't wait to meet again. I have a virgin from Pathum Thani hitting me up now for a second meet. In the first one she slept in a separate bedroom and did not want to engage physically. I respected that. See? Class. Now she wants another go, and already said she is ready to sleep in my bedroom.   Patience and understanding, plus endless fun and shopping, these are as classy as they need it to be.

Beginning to sound a bit Bob Smith-esque.

 

 

 

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12 minutes ago, chickenslegs said:

Beginning to sound a bit Bob Smith-esque.

 

 

 

No, Bob was fantasy. Everything on this thread is 100% true.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

No, Bob was fantasy. Everything on this thread is 100% true.

 

..and cheap and exploitative.

2 hours ago, chickenslegs said:

Beginning to sound a bit Bob Smith-esque.

 

 

 

 

More like Teacher Luke.

 

Gotta be careful, especially with those virgins. These women have private Facebook pages dedicated to Farang mongers and if you do them wrong (like giving genital herpes to a virgin) you may expect  family and police at the door 💰

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26 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

More like Teacher Luke.

 

Gotta be careful, especially with those virgins. These women have private Facebook pages dedicated to Farang mongers and if you do them wrong (like giving genital herpes to a virgin) you may expect  family and police at the door 💰

 

Though she is keen to come, I will not take her up on her on her offer. The company of women is beautiful, and these last few days I have learnt how much I love women around. However, I have had enough for this month. Three different women for several days, I am looking forward to when Pang leaves tomorrow. She has been very polite, sweet and ultimately very accomodating in bed, but, her listening to tik tok music while I'm driving, trashing my bathroom, dragging my towels all over the place, needing earrings, clothes, this that and the other, it's becoming annoying. I need some time to myself.

 

Besides, I think about Snoopy too much. She started reading my Instagram posts again. But she is not repyling, and probably never will. It is odd how the mere fact of rejection can make you want a person so. I mean Snoopy is an exceptional lady, but if she had not sent me to  hell, I probably would not be thinking of her so much. 

 

Anyway, the first girl, Miki, I forgot to mention one small detail. She is my Ex whom I threw out. She is coming back at the end of the month. My revenge is now complete, and I should prepare to start fresh with her.

32 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Anyway, the first girl, Miki, I forgot to mention one small detail. She is my Ex whom I threw out. She is coming back at the end of the month. My revenge is now complete, and I should prepare to start fresh with her.

 

Why at the end of the month? She busy with a Uki doing threesomes?

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13 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Why at the end of the month? She busy with a Uki doing threesomes?

 

Apart from working in the restaurant of her mother she is also working making clothes in her aunt's clothes factory. The story I was told is that she wants to again learn how to design and make clothes, because that is  a business she wants to start when she gets back. Her aunt knows how to do it, so she wants to learn for 4 weeks again with her, because she forgot most of it.

 

However, I think it's more likely she's afraid of me. The way I threw her out was traumatic for her. I was very angry. She cheated, and she told me she thinks I'm still angry. I suspect she thinks it will be safer for her at the end of the month as I will be less angry.

 

Though who knows what the real reason is.

12 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Apart from working in the restaurant of her mother she is also working making clothes in her aunt's clothes factory.

 

Too funny. 

 

Suddenly she became a good girl and got the job..... while she is away from you. And then also suddenly she will quit 2 jobs to come and be with you at the end of the mont🤣 

 

A much more likely scenario is that she is banging that 50 year old sex tourist and getting allowance.

 

You used to tell me here how employed women are more likely to cheat, yet she did it to you in front of your mug while you kept telling everyone how you have access to her phone and she's with you 24/7 

 

Probably one of the guys that was ogling her on TikTok arrived to Thailand 

 

ROFL

 

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17 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Too funny. 

 

Suddenly she became a good girl and got the job..... while she is away from you. And then also suddenly she will quit 2 jobs to come and be with you at the end of the mont🤣 

 

A much more likely scenario is that she is banging that 50 year old sex tourist and getting allowance.

 

You used to tell me here how employed women are more likely to cheat, yet she did it to you in front of your mug while you kept telling everyone how you have access to her phone and she's with you 24/7 

 

Probably one of the guys that was ogling her on TikTok arrived to Thailand 

 

ROFL

 

 

These are not proper jobs, she's just being used by the family for labour. I actually asked her if her mother paid her. She said "No". Same with the aunt, she gave her once 500 baht, and she's working every day all day. She's trying to make up for breaching trust, so she sends photos and videos all morning, during day and night when she's at the food stall. When she goes to visit relatives or goes to a temple fair with the mother, it's all videos and photos and constant texts all day long. She's trying to make up. Because she knows my trust is now low and fragile.

 

I pressed her yesterday what the real reason is she doesn't want to come home earlier. She said she just wants to spend time with family. So when I challenger her, saying the story you had to learn dress making again was just made up, she says "noooo, I still do that every day". Bottom line, she's enjoying spending time with family. The aunt and mother have two kids in the house, so she's always playing with them, buying them toys. She works very hard in the food stall, and in the day helping the aunt. So she feels very useful and appreciated.

 

When she was with me I didn't want to be controlling, or tell her what to do. Net result was she was watching Youtube and playing on her phone all day. I think that got boring for her, she did not feel useful. I have to work during the day, I work from home, so we were in the same house all day every day. It's not a good situation. When she comes back I will make sure she is kept busy with things other than Youtube and Tik Tok. I am pretty sure her boredom contributed to what happened.

 

Indeed she was on her phone literally in front of me. I would check the phone at the beginning, there was nothing. I would always step up to the phone and check what she was doing ,never caught her doing anything. But with online dating and modern phones, you can't be sure they won't secretly be texting guys. If they want to cheat, they will cheat, one way or the other, I was just saying you can minimize opportunity. But if they're determined, you can't stop it. She actually said that she only texted this guy one day before meeting in Bangkok when she was in Roi Et. But I don't believe that. To plan something like that, she had to have been in contact several days, possibly weeks prior to the meeting.

 

 

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Day 1 Pang Arrives

 

After that video call when Pang picked up in bed and said she had 3 days holidays to kill and then agreed to fly over I was expecting a fun and quirky girl, like her pictures and her huge smile seemed to portray. When I saw her at the airport, with no luggage at all, she was smiling, but dressed conservatively and I could tell there was something wrong beneath her smile. It was a huge smile, but it was not genuine.

 

In the car she asked about my marital status and then blurted out she was married before and had a 5 year old kid. Nothing in the profile about it, and she never mentioned it in text or phone conversations previously. Mostly annoyed at myself for not asking her directly before the meet about this I realised this was going to be purely a fun 3 days, and a long term rel would never happen. Lesson learned.

 

We went straight to Central, as she flew in straight after our first phone call and stayed at a girlfriend and had no clothes. I said, fly without anything I'll buy you a dress. She had nothing in fact. So off we went to buy a tooth brush, toiletries and also 3 items of clothes from H&M. After some food and drink we drove back. Already 1900 Baht down, excluding flight.

 

Because the flight was 9 am we are both extremely tired. We decide to nap. And literally nap is all that's on the menu. Disappointing, but I was too tired myself. Hunger woke us up. I took her to a Japanese restaurant. She ordered an extra dish, squid stir-fried in butter, which she did not eat. Still an excellent meal, 800 baht down but feeling a lot better she has a desire to see more of the city. So I take her to Nimman. It's evening by now, so all the markets are in full swing. She loves the vibe and we walk around a while taking it all in. 

 

Finally I take her to Saruda pastry, for some high class patisserie.  Now the smile starts to seem more genuine. 700 Baht, but superb desserts and cocktails. Inadvertently we stumble onto a little wonderland, a glitzy pink craft fair, food stall and bar set up. She wants to have beers there, not at the rooftop bar she wanted to go earlier. So she orders a beer and we sit down. She is on her phone literally all the time, it's starting to look embarassing. But I don't really care, this girl is not for a long rel, let her have fun. Finally we decide to go back.

 

In bed I notice Pang has a strange body composition. Not the lean build of Miki with hardly an ounce of body fat, or the athletic build of Snoopy again with almost no body fat. This girl, Pang, seems slim, but she has curves, breasts and booty and when you press her arm, you notice a definite layer of fat, bouncy skin. Her skin is not as firm and does not feel as young as the other girls, though she is the same age. Must be motherhood. Coupled with an unusually hideous Caesarian scar, the attractive Pang is getting somewhat less attractive. Still, she's finally friendly in bed and things go as nature demands. Afterwards we try to catch up on sleep. No 10 times here.

59 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

She's trying to make up for breaching trust, so she sends photos and videos all morning, during day and night when she's at the food stall. When she goes to visit relatives or goes to a temple fair with the mother, it's all videos and photos and constant texts all day long. She's trying to make up.

 

 

It seems like you are doing an excellent job of posting excuses for her..... really she doesn't even have to make an effort as you are doing an excellent job for her.

 

I was going to post a laughing emoji, but then I remembered I'm chatting with a man in his mid 50's.

 

I mean this all thread has to be a wind up, no?

 

 

 

 

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Day 2 Noodles , market and Vietnamese

 

Morning comes and there is no sex on the menu again. I go do down for my morning run and make St Etoile roll with scrambled eggs and Chinese sausage. At 1 pm Pang emerges and is ravenous with hunger. She wants noodles. So there's only place, Je Hua. They have not only the best noodles and gyoza in town but the added benefit of being extremely cheap. Yesterday's outlay was monstrous, considering the returns.

 

We arrive at Je Hua and she orders not just noodles but a plate of shrimp gyoza she can never finish on her own. I noticed this with Snoopy too, when they give it up, they make sure to order as much as they want, they want something in return. It's fine though, because the gyoza are in fact delicious and the bill is only 300 baht, one can hardly complain.

 

Next stop, Caramellow for coffee and cake. The espresso con panna is so bad it's undrinkable. The Basque cheese cake on brownie base is fresh but unremarkable. Nice atmossphere though. She only has an expensive drink, nothing to eat. We had back home. Time to nap again. However, this time Pang goes into full carnal desire mode and things do get better at least on this front. 

 

She wants to see a night market so I take there, but there's too much food for her liking, she wanted fashion and clothes, her idea was shopping and it's not  satisfied, though she did get some underwear. So instead she wants to go to a restaurant. I take her to a Vietnamese place. She ordered, of course, the most expensive dish, Snakefish. Again, it's fine, the fish is delicious, the vibes are good and there's a Tops nearby so I can stock up on supplies. She makes sure to get a beer.

 

After we head home I just want to relax, but Pang is buzzed up on beer. She says she wants to go to 711 to get more beer. So that's what we do. Needles to say the night is eventful, 3 times I think. At the end Pang starts talking and I understand why her big smile seems so sad. She got pregnant at 19. So she had to give up her univsersity studies.  Father had a great job but too much work and was never around, so she divorced him. She met an American lawyer of 32 years old. He gave her 250,000 baht and asked her to come to the US. She refused as she did not want to  raise the baby outside Thailand and offered to give some of the money back. The American refused.

 

She then hooked up with a French waiter. He was a pothead and smoked all the time, which she did not like and discouraged. After he left to Melbourne he sent her 25000 for three months. Then cheated on her, she found out 2 months ago. She says she works so hard now for 600 baht a day, she gets about 14000 baht a month. But because she always gives money to the parents for her childcare, and to friends, she has not enough left to pay her 5000 baht room fee at the end of the month. She owes 2500 this month. She starts crying. I feel very sorry for her and her life, but have no intention to pay her 2500 for her room.

25 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

 

It seems like you are doing an excellent job of posting excuses for her..... really she doesn't even have to make an effort as you are doing an excellent job for her.

 

I was going to post a laughing emoji, but then I remembered I'm chatting with a man in his mid 50's.

 

I mean this all thread has to be a wind up, no?

 

 

 

 

 

Sociopathic with narcissistic tendencies. Fits like a glove.

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Day 3 Jing Jai, Waterfalls and High Drama

 

So Pang again sleeps until 12, though I told her to get up on time. I wanted to take her to Jing Jai market. So I have to go wake her up at 12. We make it to Jing Jai and unbelievable a car leaves just in front of the market so I actually get parking. Good start. Pang is starving so we hit the food court. I get thai coconut pancakes and she gets delicious egg noodles. Round two is the best Pizza in Chiang Mai, from Pizza Station. Bizarrely she doesn't like it. Pizza Station is in Mae Rim, google it, oustanding Pizza, Thai guy who learnt his craft in Australia. Anyway, so we walk around a bit, the vibes are superb. Pang does not want or buy anything.

 

However, she did want to see a waterfall. So I take her to the nearest one. Again, unbelievably I get excellent parking. The waterfall is beautiful and we lie down and look at the sky and trees, just relaxing. Pang is happy and relaxed. At the end we jump over the waterfalls together, laugh and high five.

 

Pang is hungry again. So I drive to the nearby Maya mall and hit the food court. To my dismay the Chinese hamburger stand moved. I take beef bulgogi instead. When I ask for soy sauce, there is none. I see the stall next door has some. I am about to take some as the lady loudly comes at me "No, no, have to buy here". Wow. That's a first. Anyway, the bulgogi is delicious, mango sticky rice after, the world is fine again. Pang gets the most expensive shrimp salad in the whole food court.

 

We decide to walk around Maya mall a bit. Pang says she wants some earrings. I head for the 39 baht earring stall, but it's not Pang's first rodeo, "no, these make problems on my ears, I can only use silver". We find a stand that sells real silver earings. 150 baht, okay why not. She wants to get two, I say one. She wants to get the most expensive one at double the price, I baulk. So 150 baht, we're both happy. We go down to look for the Chinese hamburger lady, get two Chinese hamburgers and Pang has to pay as my phone dies and I forgot the powerbank at home. She does so with no issues.

 

We get back home and chill with Netflix. Well, I do, Pang is no fan of K drama. She says she wants to go to 711 to get some beer. We do that. She buys four beers. Drinks beer after beer. I realise Pang has a real drinking issue. She goes to the bedroom. I think she is waiting for me, but I don't want to go. I watch My Mister on Netflix. Then Miki texts we could do a phone call later. Until now I was able to pull it off by going to another room. I have a huge house, so it's fine to take a call clandestinely at times, neither the caller nor the house guest would even know of the other. However, with Pang in my bedroom I am concerned she will come down in the middle of the call and Miki will be unpleasantly surprised.

 

At this point I've written Pang off. I've even booked her return flight already. She would never, EVER, be rel material. She was very pleasant and understanding though. I know she will be upset, but I want to make sure the call with Miki does not lead to a break up due to Pang walking down. So I go to Pang, I told her my Ex wants to do a phone call, if she could be so kind to not make sounds and not come down for 30 minutes. She is visibly emotionally crushed. She starts crying quietly. She says "I can leave to a hotel". I said don't be silly, just stay here, I hug her and  try to calm her down. She says "Ok". I go down.

 

Sure enough, Pang starts stomping around loudly upstairs. She comes down the stairs, when I told her not to and I'd be on a call. Good thing the call did not take place. Pang asks if she can talk to me. I say "sure". She says she wants to go to a hotel. I ask why. She says crying "Look, I have a child", circling her hand around her uterus and vagina "I need something real too". I implore her not to leave, that it's midnight and I will drive her to the airport in the morning. She called a Bolt and bolts out of my house in the middle of the night.

 

After thinking it through, I walk after her. This girl is drunk and leaving at midnight, I  have no idea where she's going. I feel responsible. I catch up with her at the guard house of the mooban. The three security guards are there. She is talking to them. I ask her to come to me, to talk, a bit further away from the security guards. She doesn't come at first, but talks to the guard. Then she finally comes to me. I ask her where she intends to go. She says "I tell you everything, but you not get mad". "I have friend, he help me, I go there". I ask "A Farang?". She looks at me guilty and says nothing. I am now disgusted and just walk home.

 

While she was in my bedroom, she'd hit up one of her 5000 farang friends on Facebook, one of whom must have been in Chiang Mai. After I told her my ex would call and if she could be quiet, she understood I'm not interested long term. So she decided to leave and spend the night with another guy. As I walk away she screams "You make me feel bad" in her drunken stupor. I am so embarassed, I have a good relationship with the guards, now they think I don't treat Thai women right. A very poor end to Pang's visit. I get a text where she says I should take care. I reply, enjoy fornicating with your new Farang. 

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32 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

 

It seems like you are doing an excellent job of posting excuses for her..... really she doesn't even have to make an effort as you are doing an excellent job for her.

 

I was going to post a laughing emoji, but then I remembered I'm chatting with a man in his mid 50's.

 

I mean this all thread has to be a wind up, no?

 

 

 

 

 

My problem is I caught serious feels for her. Obviously she's not pefect. But she is a 9. She is fun, sweet and very cute. Unfortunately, because she is a 9 and sees herself as a bit of a superstar, in her eyes I'm not a top choice. Hence my first thread back then, when I noticed she was not physicalyl affectionate. My instincts were correct, she really was not into me. I was making excuses for her back then too, saying it was her upbringing, being raised by her grandmother. That played a part no doubt, but a much great one was that she did no see me as a top choice for her. I was good, but she thought she could do better.

 

The tragedy was, when I found a girl that was really into me, absolutely keen on a long term rel with me, and physically affectionate way off the charts, Snoopy really was above and beyond in physical affection, I had spent the previous day making up with Miki. She agreed to come back. So I was careless with Snoopy and not on my best because I thought Snoopy was not as good a choice as Miki. This may have been a mistake, looking back.  I should have met with Snoopy first. 

 

However, Snoopy was also not perfect. Apart from not being a 9, a good 7, her skin issue, her demand for 10000 at the start was a massive red flag. Her snooping through my papers and her intransigent and direct demands did not fill me with good thoughts.  Before she found the deposit receipt I merely wanted to have fun with Snoopy as I thought Miki was a better option. However, given what happened with her, and how Snoopy was way more attracted to me, in hindsight, this may have been a mistake.

 

No windup, sadly. All true.

46 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

But she is a 9.

 

Maybe to you.

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1 minute ago, Celsius said:

 

Maybe to you.

 

To anybody. She's a bona fide 9. I showed her pic to another forum member, and they agreed.

 

It's not just that she's almost 1.70m tall, she's got that slim build and an unusually pleasing face.

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