I stated that 98 percent of women are freelancing or working in a bar of those online. This is the same if you use Thai Friendly or Tinder to meet women. Of course, your mileage may vary, but not by much.  I leave out physically going to bars or whorehouses. I don't enjoy getting drunk or the constant smoking I encounter at a bar. For me, it is disgusting. 

 

While there is a small percentage of women on online services who do not wish to be a freelancer, there is a small number of that subset of women who also want good sex but don't want the stigma of being a prostitute. Over the years, I have found quite a few who want to hook up for sex. 

 

I have had sex with a few women without paying for it.  This is the holy grail. Yet, there will be ankle biters who will claim that I am lying, which is up to them.  I can say that women who are freelancing or working in a bar are 100 percent prostitutes.  My girlfriend is not a prostitute nor a freelancer, but she costs money.  So, when you take on a real girlfriend, you must expect to care for her.  

 

In retrospect, it takes on the hue of paying for sex no matter how you get it. Which is more fulfilling? Which is easier? I say paid sex is less fulfilling, but it is so easy.  It's easier but less fulfilling. 

Guys with girlfriends and wives are paying for sex, same same

4 hours ago, Gobbler said:

I stated that 98 percent of women are freelancing

 

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Where does the 98% number come from ?

Just now, Ralf001 said:

 

Where does the 98% number come from ?

Several years using Tinder and TF.  

Just now, Gobbler said:

Several years using Tinder and TF.  

And that equates to 98% of women how exactly ?

That has been my experience. 

 

You can take it or leave it. 

34 minutes ago, Gobbler said:

That has been my experience. 

 

You can take it or leave it. 

 Ahh right... so the small handful you have met of dating apps.... 98% of them are on the game.

5 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Guys with girlfriends and wives are paying for sex, same same

 

Guys who lay with hoes love to say that. What's up with that? You trying to cover cos you got no game?

Have some respect for your mom. 

5 hours ago, Gobbler said:

Several years using Tinder and TF.  

Don't you think there might be some sample bias here? They matched with you on tinder because they were looking for old farangs.

6 hours ago, Ralf001 said:

 Ahh right... so the small handful you have met of dating apps.... 98% of them are on the game.

 

What % would you suggest?

I talked to just ONE girl there who likely wasn't on the game. She even bought something for me without even meeting me beforehand.

ALL of the rest were looking for some kind of financial arrangement.

Respectable women don't stand around at Central Pattaya beach, as they know what people will assume.

Same with Tinder and TF. They are mainly for hook ups. Maybe some just for the fun of it if you are hot. If you are not, you are paying.

I wouldn't be looking for a relationship from anyone there.

 

8 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Guys with girlfriends and wives are paying for sex, same same

My mates GF works in a local 7/11 and she gives him 10k per month....

1 hour ago, petermik said:

My mates GF works in a local 7/11 and she gives him 10k per month....

Peter ,there is no need to spin 

Please be truthful and stop exaggeration dear 

13 hours ago, Gobbler said:

I stated that 98 percent of women are freelancing or working in a bar of those online.

 

9 hours ago, Gobbler said:

Several years using Tinder and TF.  

So what you meant to say is 98% of those women on Tinder or TF. Which is probably 5% at most of Thai women. Living as a horndog with horndogs tends to skew your view of things.  

4 hours ago, mokwit said:

Don't you think there might be some sample bias here? They matched with you on tinder because they were looking for old farangs.

 

I have gold for both platforms. I match them all then sort out the fat ones. If I see a comment about I love money, I drop them too. Those are the very stupid women.

3 hours ago, petermik said:

My mates GF works in a local 7/11 and she gives him 10k per month....

A little sad when 7 Eleven staff don't earn much

4 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

A little sad when 7 Eleven staff don't earn much

 

And also quite unbelievable, when a 711 girl earns 18000. If she gave 10000 to a guy she'd be left with 8000 to live on.

 

His mate is selling him a porker.

 

never paid for sex wherever i am. i can confidently say i've slept with well over 100 thai women, and haven't paid for a single one. none of my mates pay women for sex.

 

if you want to pay, then pay. but 100% you don't have to pay. up to you.

Just now, it is what it is said:

 

never paid for sex wherever i am. i can confidently say i've slept with well over 100 thai women, and haven't paid for a single one. none of my mates pay women for sex.

 

if you want to pay, then pay. but 100% you don't have to pay. up to you.

 

Well, you didn't specifically pay for sex, but you paid for their meals, drinks, etc presumably?

9 minutes ago, it is what it is said:

 

never paid for sex wherever i am. i can confidently say i've slept with well over 100 thai women, and haven't paid for a single one. none of my mates pay women for sex.

 

if you want to pay, then pay. but 100% you don't have to pay. up to you.

When you get older that will change, everyone should know that

8 minutes ago, it is what it is said:

 

never paid for sex wherever i am. i can confidently say i've slept with well over 100 thai women, and haven't paid for a single one. none of my mates pay women for sex.

 

if you want to pay, then pay. but 100% you don't have to pay. up to you.

So you think that most of the fat bellied big boob's brigade are getting sex for free????

Guys are terrible social scientists.

A 4/10 guy messages young 8/10 girls and when they all want money he extrapolates his experience to "all Thai women"

 

Under 45 I got a lot of interest from girls online, no money involved at all.

45 to 50 less each year.

50 plus the young attractive girls I talk to all have financial problems they're hoping I will fix.

 

Here's the thing. It's not the same type of girl that replies to me. Under 45 I got the love hungry and over 50 I got the money hungry.

39 minutes ago, it is what it is said:

 

never paid for sex wherever i am. i can confidently say i've slept with well over 100 thai women, and haven't paid for a single one. none of my mates pay women for sex.

 

if you want to pay, then pay. but 100% you don't have to pay. up to you.

please post your photo. then we know if you are lying or not. thanks

49 minutes ago, it is what it is said:

 

never paid for sex wherever i am. i can confidently say i've slept with well over 100 thai women, and haven't paid for a single one. none of my mates pay women for sex.

 

if you want to pay, then pay. but 100% you don't have to pay. up to you.

I call bull*$&.

55 minutes ago, NoshowJones said:

So you think that most of the fat bellied big boob's brigade are getting sex for free????

 

He's gaslighting.

In many upscale brothels in Bangkok, there is a large generation of wealthy elderly Thai female executives, who go for paid sex with male gigolos. And this was bought back to me before the COVID even, by quite a few taxi drivers. Those lads do know about quite a few social patterns going around.

 

It's not only about men paying,. It about not wanting to waste time in the seducing game and having to end up in shelling out more during the process before getting into the serious stuff back at the hotel.

 

A bit like sexual harassment on the workplace. Nothing to do with a man woman thing. It's plainly about power that one has against the other and with more an more women getting in power, the trends now are shifting.

 

But the dark linining in this scene is all the STD's people catch in flaunting around with male or female prostitutes or with people having an over liberal sex life. Condom's do not protect you from everything and hardly anybody uses them during the oral foreplay which is where the infections pass on and spread.

Oh look, another monger paying a monthly salary just to be touched lumping all Thai women in the same basket.

7 minutes ago, SingAPorn said:

Condom's do not protect you from everything and hardly anybody uses them during the oral foreplay which is where the infections pass on and spread.

100 HPV strains, difficult to avoid unless don't have sex 

2 hours ago, Gobbler said:

 

I have gold for both platforms. I match them all then sort out the fat ones. If I see a comment about I love money, I drop them too. Those are the very stupid women.

Yes but you still only see those that 'liked' you.

2 minutes ago, mokwit said:

Yes but you still only see those that 'liked' you.

A very high percentage chat. 

 

Most of them are liars.  64 kilos with 43 kilo photos. 

 

Or 11 pictures from 6 years ago and 1 photo hidden amongst the porkies that show what they look like now. Most of them I will ask if the photos are current and most will lie.  

 

Or they ignore you after that question.  I ask them to show me a current photo. Then comes the big ignore. 

17 hours ago, Gobbler said:

Which is more fulfilling? Which is easier? I say paid sex is less fulfilling, but it is so easy.  It's easier but less fulfilling.

 

If you're talking one night stands, and not a committed relationship, is there much of a difference between the two?