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Who decided that men should always pay for sex? In Thailand this is assumed. Why?

Have you paid for sex? 36 members have voted

  1. 1. Have you paid for sex?

    • Yes
      73%
      22
    • No
      26%
      8
  2. 2. If you pay for sex, is the reason that it is much easier and the money outlay is less than having a girlfriend?

    • No
      46%
      14
    • Yes
      53%
      16

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2 minutes ago, Gobbler said:

A very high percentage chat. 

 

Most of them are liars.  64 kilos with 43 kilo photos. 

 

Or 11 pictures from 6 years ago and 1 photo hidden amongst the porkies that show what they look like now. Most of them I will ask if the photos are current and most will lie.  

 

Or they ignore you after that question.  I ask them to show me a current photo. Then comes the big ignore. 

 

Most of them are liars.  64 kilos with 43 kilo photos. 

 

Or 11 pictures from 6 years ago and 1 photo hidden amongst the porkies that show what they look like now. Most of them I will ask if the photos are current and most will lie.

 

is this really a surprise? i've used dating apps in western countries and this is true there too. don;t single out women, men are equally economic with various truths about themselves. it's how the game is played.

 

i love the way posters here criticise the weight of females, from what i see many of the foreigners could well do with losing a few kilos. there's none so blind as those who don;t want to see.

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  • scubascuba3
    scubascuba3

    Guys with girlfriends and wives are paying for sex, same same

  • AlwaysThere
    AlwaysThere

    Guys who lay with hoes love to say that. What's up with that? You trying to cover cos you got no game? Have some respect for your mom. 

  • Ahh right... so the small handful you have met of dating apps.... 98% of them are on the game.

8 hours ago, AlwaysThere said:

Guys who lay with hoes love to say that. What's up with that? You trying to cover cos you got no game?

Have some respect for your mom. 

 

I think more people say it than that.  It's kind of a rebuttal to the "You're a loser because you have to pay women to have sex with you" jibe, since, generally speaking, if a man is either unwilling or unable to spend money on a romantic partner, he will not be able to access sex.  Obviously it doesn't apply to everyone, but probably most.

18 hours ago, Gobbler said:

I have had sex with a few women without paying for it.  This is the holy grail. Yet, there will be ankle biters who will claim that I am lying, which is up to them. 

"...there will be ankle biters who will claim..."

Why would young children have any interest in whether you're lying or not about your alleged sexual conquests?

5 hours ago, petermik said:

My mates GF works in a local 7/11 and she gives him 10k per month....

 

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

A little sad when 7 Eleven staff don't earn much

 

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

And also quite unbelievable, when a 711 girl earns 18000. If she gave 10000 to a guy she'd be left with 8000 to live on.

 

His mate is selling him a porker.

Fact..they have been together 12 years now...she has no dependents he is an English teacher here in Pattaya living over in Huay Yai....please yourselves whether you believe it or not.

 

2 hours ago, it is what it is said:

if you want to pay, then pay. but 100% you don't have to pay. up to you.

 

Absolutely. It's your decision. Your right hand never asks payment.

Just now, petermik said:

 

 

Fact..they have been together 12 years now...she has no dependents he is an English teacher here in Pattaya living over in Huay Yai....please yourselves whether you believe it or not.

 

Oh please we believe you Peter ,I do anyway, thankyou for telling us 

13 hours ago, Gobbler said:

Several years using Tinder and TF.  

Maybe 98% of those you manage to get in contact with, and it says something about you either way! 

 

Christ sake some of you guys do have a crippled mind! 

2 hours ago, it is what it is said:

 

never paid for sex wherever i am. i can confidently say i've slept with well over 100 thai women, and haven't paid for a single one. none of my mates pay women for sex.

 

if you want to pay, then pay. but 100% you don't have to pay. up to you.

I can't wait to see the testimonials from these women.

18 hours ago, Gobbler said:

Who decided that men should always pay for sex? In Thailand 

Strange question. 

 

Why would a beautiful young Thai woman want to have sex with an elderly/middle aged foreigner and not get money. 

These women are not stupid, they have a brain. 

 

 

BTW, there's plenty of ugly, old fat smelly Thai women who you can have free sex with. 

I'm not into fat stinky old woman. I couldn't get an erection. 

 

UPTO YOU 

 

4 hours ago, marin said:

 

So what you meant to say is 98% of those women on Tinder or TF. Which is probably 5% at most of Thai women. Living as a horndog with horndogs tends to skew your view of things.  

 

There is approx 20million women in Thailand in the age group 18 to 50.

I doubt 5% are on tinder or TF.

IMO it's easier to have a permanent GF when one is older. You take care of them, they will care for you.

 

While variety may be exciting here at first, sitting on a bar stool, buying lady drinks, and sizing up the talent available reaches a use - by date.

14 minutes ago, petermik said:

 

 

he is an English teacher here in Pattaya l

 

 

so she earns more than him then !

I pay women to leave. As fast as possible when Im done so I can fart and watch football.

2 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

I pay women to leave. As fast as possible when Im done so I can fart and watch football.

My wife laughs when I fart

2 minutes ago, novacova said:

My wife laughs when I fart

Try a modified Dutch Oven. That usually halts ridicule

12 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Why would a beautiful young Thai woman want to have sex with an elderly/middle aged foreigner and not get money.

Ask my wife, she can answer that question for you when she gets home from work.

3 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Try a modified Dutch Oven. That usually halts ridicule

I blame it on her cooking, she not quite sure if it’s a joke or a subversive inverse joke insult 

I tried TF and Tinder. I kept getting hookers. They wanted me to pay for it. Feels like there are thousands of them on there doing it for a living. They appear to meet anybody who responds. I wonder how many guys they are having sex with. Hundreds?

3 hours ago, it is what it is said:

never paid for sex wherever i am. i can confidently say i've slept with well over 100 thai women, and haven't paid for a single one. none of my mates pay women for sex.

Well, someone has to do the fat and ugly ones.

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1 hour ago, Liverpool Lou said:

"...there will be ankle biters who will claim..."

Why would young children have any interest in whether you're lying or not about your alleged sexual conquests?

I was sure I put you on my ignore list. Not. Now you will be in fine company. 

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1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Strange question. 

 

Why would a beautiful young Thai woman want to have sex with an elderly/middle aged foreigner and not get money. 

These women are not stupid, they have a brain. 

 

 

BTW, there's plenty of ugly, old fat smelly Thai women who you can have free sex with. 

I'm not into fat stinky old woman. I couldn't get an erection. 

 

UPTO YOU 

 

Strange assumptions. 

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1 hour ago, Hummin said:

 it says something about you either way! 

 

What does it say? 

  • Author
1 hour ago, it is what it is said:

 

Most of them are liars.  64 kilos with 43 kilo photos. 

 

Or 11 pictures from 6 years ago and 1 photo hidden amongst the porkies that show what they look like now. Most of them I will ask if the photos are current and most will lie.

 

is this really a surprise? i've used dating apps in western countries and this is true there too. don;t single out women, men are equally economic with various truths about themselves. it's how the game is played.

 

i love the way posters here criticise the weight of females, from what i see many of the foreigners could well do with losing a few kilos. there's none so blind as those who don;t want to see.

You have a huge chip on your shoulder. 

 

You have also justified lying for both men and women.  Have you no shame or morals?

8 hours ago, JimTripper said:

I tried TF and Tinder. I kept getting hookers. They wanted me to pay for it. Feels like there are thousands of them on there doing it for a living. They appear to meet anybody who responds. I wonder how many guys they are having sex with. Hundreds?

TF 95% are freelancers in Pattaya, I tried Thaicupid years ago and majority were looking for relationships, downside was not much choice

8 hours ago, Gobbler said:
9 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Strange question. 

 

Why would a beautiful young Thai woman want to have sex with an elderly/middle aged foreigner and not get money. 

These women are not stupid, they have a brain. 

 

 

BTW, there's plenty of ugly, old fat smelly Thai women who you can have free sex with. 

I'm not into fat stinky old woman. I couldn't get an erection. 

 

UPTO YOU 

 

Strange assumptions

I'm confused, I don't understand.

Are you paying to have sex with a fat, old ugly woman?

 

I bet you're the guy who calls a young attractive woman going with an older rich guy a Gold Digger. 

 

Please explain.

 

Simply ...Attitude is everything, and your perception of the transactional meeting may not be the same as the other person, and don't forget the underlying contractual arrangements is governed by ..OFFER and ACCEPTANCE  .ie ..the consideration$$ being offered in return for the goods & or services being provided. 

This my friends is advice that governs every arrangement, regardless of who you are & whatever spin you want to put on it...

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

TF 95% are freelancers in Pattaya, I tried Thaicupid years ago and majority were looking for relationships, downside was not much choice

It's a hooker, not a freelancer.

13 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, you didn't specifically pay for sex, but you paid for their meals, drinks, etc presumably?

no, he didnt even pay for meals it sounds like. 

 

I used to get it for free, pinup agogo girl moved in etc, but these days it's easier and simpler just to pay.

 

Also non sex workers with proper jobs, but quite rightly they all want long term relationships so house, marriage, children etc, of course guys can string girls along but just not a good thing to do

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

I used to get it for free, pinup agogo girl moved in etc, but these days it's easier and simpler just to pay

it does happen when there's no money and no expectations whatsoever involved, but that's rare.

most girls want a commitment.

they're usually not just giving it up for free. only temporarily, but the goal is to lock you in long term.

so it has more integrity to pay a working girl than to sleep with a girl and lead her on and then dump her, in my opinion. 

 

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