Dont be offended Bob. The real women grab at men sometimes if they think he looks lonely enough. Just stick to the side of the road with the ladyboys so when they grab you, you won't be offended. The real women will not cross over to the ladyboy territory. 

16 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

 

Yes, please mess with Bob, someone has to do it.

Apart from that I am not interested on druggies, and I don't collect such pictures.

 

 

I think he was referring the the fact that some of the females in those area's are clearly 'strung out' on something... 

 

.... I don't disagree... sometimes there are some sorry souls around and lift is tough in such environments.... 

... I've no interest in getting involved, but I can sometimes spot such individuals and feel a little sympathetic.... Who wouldn't want to dull out all the noise of that life ?...

 

Heck..  I have to get drunk enough to drown out the noise of conscience when visiting such areas with friends... 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10 minutes ago, thesetat said:

Dont be offended Bob. The real women grab at men sometimes if they think he looks lonely enough. Just stick to the side of the road with the ladyboys so when they grab you, you won't be offended. The real women will not cross over to the ladyboy territory. 

do you think that any form of groping, by any gender, is acceptable in 2025?

 

Regards,

bob.

20 minutes ago, Robert_Smith said:

All I write, In fact all I have ever written, is purely my subjective experiences whilst living in Thailand.

 

Nothing more, nothing less..

 

Regards,

Bob.

 

And that is fair enough bob....  Just stories and experiences...   

 

So far... (in this thread anyway) you don't make negative sweeping generalisations against all Thai's...   which is what I think upsets a of lot folk.... 

 

 

 

 

 

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

I think he was referring the the fact that some of the females in those area's are clearly 'strung out' on something... 

 

.... I don't disagree... sometimes there are some sorry souls around and lift is tough in such environments.... 

... I've no interest in getting involved, but I can sometimes spot such individuals and feel a little sympathetic.... Who wouldn't want to dull out all the noise of that life ?...

 

Heck..  I have to get drunk enough to drown out the noise of conscience when visiting such areas with friends... 

 

As far as I see there are basically two group of addicts.

There are the girls who "dance" all night and who "play" with drugs. They use the Thai word "len", play.

If they are young and strong enough then they their body can still handle those drugs.

 

And then there are the women who started like above and never stopped. They get older and uglier and have no power and no customers and not much money anymore, and then it goes only down from there.

 

As far as I know there is no good way to get people out of the drug world. Most important they really need the desire that they absolutely want to stop because they see that they ruin their lives. And it seems very few are at that stage where they really want to stop.

 

 

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

And that is fair enough bob....  Just stories and experiences...   

 

So far... (in this thread anyway) you don't make negative sweeping generalisations against all Thai's...   which is what I think upsets a of lot folk.... 

 

 

 

 

 

Fair enough.

 

I will try and work on that.

 

Regards,

Bob.

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Just stories and experiences...   

Sure, made up stories and made up crap.

And it's inconsistent, fake, just a lot of BS.

And then it's not even written in a funny way.

Why would anybody would want to read any of that? 

6 minutes ago, Robert_Smith said:

do you think that any form of groping, by any gender, is acceptable in 2025?

 

Regards,

bob.

 

You mentioned subjectivity.....    so, in line with your own concept of opinions on subjective experiences... 

 

Some might argue that 'subjectively' an attractive female brushing a potentail customers man parts in an area such as Soi-Cowboy might be tolerable, even welcomed and likely a viable marketing option. 

 

Conversely, having an member of the staff in Villa Supermarket doing the same thing would not only be quite a surprise, it would be considered offensive. 

 

Thus... as already mentioned, you have to remove yourself from this binary dichotomy and understand that the colour of life varies and is dependent on individual merit, given the the area, the gender, the context and even the timing...     

 

We can't shoehorn the spectrum of such experiences in to two boxes of 'right and wrong'... 

Legally yes... but we live well beyond the legal contexts of simple right and wrong.

 

 

 

8 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

You mentioned subjectivity.....    so, in line with your own concept of opinions on subjective experiences... 

 

Some might argue that 'subjectively' an attractive female brushing a potentail customers man parts in an area such as Soi-Cowboy might be tolerable, even welcomed and likely a viable marketing option. 

 

Conversely, having an member of the staff in Villa Supermarket doing the same thing would not only be quite a surprise, it would be considered offensive. 

 

Thus... as already mentioned, you have to remove yourself from this binary dichotomy and understand that the colour of life varies and is dependent on individual merit, given the the area, the gender, the context and even the timing...     

 

We can't shoehorn the spectrum of such experiences in to two boxes of 'right and wrong'... 

Legally yes... but we live well beyond the legal contexts of simple right and wrong.

 

 

 

So if for whatever reason I was walking down a tourist soi with my kid at around 9/10pm because he is sick and there is a pharmacy at the top of the soi who knows me well, and all of a sudden, in front of my child, a woman/LB grabs me by the balls and flashes her bristols and backside at me??

 

Is that OK or not?

 

Regards,

Bob.

7 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Sure, made up stories and made up crap.

And it's inconsistent, fake, just a lot of BS.

And then it's not even written in a funny way.

Why would anybody would want to read any of that? 

 

Perhaps...  all taken with a pinch of salt, the rolex, the steeling the sleeping guys girl and taking her to Koh chang, getting in trouble with the brothers etc...

 

You ask a valid question and have answered it yourself - Why would anyone want to read any of that...

 

You don't and have him on Ingnore....   I read when I can be bothered...

 

Just like GammaGlob....   mostly can't be bothered... and Georgia Georgia.... 

 

then there are the outright tools who I just know will post some offensive bigoted generalisation and I get involved in a slanging match...  

 

Bobs, harmless....   some of the other characters show their true colours and they are vindictive nasty ayholes who seem to take enjoyment out of someone loosing their hands etc... 

 

 

7 minutes ago, Robert_Smith said:

So if for whatever reason I was walking down a tourist soi with my kid at around 9/10pm because he is sick and there is a pharmacy at the top of the soi who knows me well, and all of a sudden, in front of my child, a woman/LB grabs me by the balls and flashes her bristols and backside at me??

 

Is that OK or not?

 

Regards,

Bob.

 

I think you can come up with a lot more scenarios than that... 

 

More importantly in this scenerio Bob... Is your kid wearing a Rolex... because I'd be more worried about them getting mugged if it's real... 

 

.... now, to handle your scenario... What are you doing living in such an area with a family, Bob ???

(sorry, gaslighting).

 

But... a holidayer who's chosen their location wrongly and catches such a situation, yes, of course its wrong.

 

But do you really believe a woman/LB would walk up to a father and child, and 'grab the fathers balls, flash her bristols and backside' at them ??....

....    live outside your head for change - thats not going to happen....

 

But, in the extremities of your distorted imagination, if it were to happen - yes, of course its wrong,

 

What else are you looking for with such a question ?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

But do you really believe a woman/LB would walk up to a father and child, and 'grab the fathers balls, flash her bristols and backside' at them ??....

This exact scenario has happened to me before...

 

Regards,

Bob.

IF the story is true then I'm very happy Bob actually got out of his room. And I'm sorry he had to endure this terrible experience. Guess Bob won't go out again for a long long time. 

1 minute ago, Robert_Smith said:

5 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

But do you really believe a woman/LB would walk up to a father and child, and 'grab the fathers balls, flash her bristols and backside' at them ??....

This exact scenario has happened to me before...

 

Regards,

Bob.

 

'Then lock your bedroom door' so your child cannot walk in on you and your missus getting the nookie vibe on !!!.... .

 

Otherwise, the question really should be asked.... 'what on earth are doing with a child in such an area' ????

 

If you are so concerned with your child witnessing such actions, then you are clearly complicit in exposing them to an area where such behavior may not only be expected, but also widely tolerated.... 

 

Now for sure... IF this 'really' did happen and is not another 'Bob fabrication' then it didn't happen in Central Shopping Mall did it ???....  you were in a sleazy area, a sleazy street.... 

 

.... Hardly parent of the year stuff Bob... 

 

 

 

54 minutes ago, Robert_Smith said:

do you think that any form of groping, by any gender, is acceptable in 2025?

 

Regards,

bob.

personally no.. but for you, maybe you would like better the Trans doing it... hmm

33 minutes ago, thesetat said:

personally no.. but for you, maybe you would like better the Trans doing it... hmm

...You are so funny I forgot to laugh!

 

Regards,

Bob.

On 2/18/2025 at 4:06 PM, Robert_Smith said:

It happens all the time.

 

I walk down a soi in a tourist hotspot and I end up being groped by a hyena prozzie looking to make a few quid, totally without my consent...

 

It got me thinking.. Remember the farang who slapped a woman's backside in a 7/11 - what's the difference?

 

Is it ok for females to grab men by the balls whilst walking down the street but when the opposite happens all hell breaks loose?

 

I just don't get the logic here at times.

 

Best regards,

Bob.

I have never in 24 years been grabed by my balls , could you please please give me the location and name of the Soi Bob , asking for a friend 

Sad but true, just doesn’t work both ways, even if it was on camera as the 7/11 mentioned you would be hard pressed to get anywhere. Besides it could have been a male groper.