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We can only assume this is a real case! This happens every day all over the world.

Long distance relationships? Investing in a long distance relationship?

Living in Patong?

Good luck

1 hour ago, hopelessthailover said:

I'm a hopeless "nice" guy

Indeed you are. You just lost your place in the queue.

1 hour ago, Pouatchee said:

Bob resurrected?

Nah,it is Cameroni all over again.

18 minutes ago, blaze master said:

I got a great idea save you lots of trouble and heartache....

Give me the remainder of the surgery money....ill kick you in the balls and we'll call it a day.

Brilliant reply.

2 minutes ago, theshu25 said:

Brilliant reply.

But I loved her.

5 minutes ago, blaze master said:

But I loved her.

And she told me she loved me.

1 hour ago, hopelessthailover said:

Hi everyone, I’m looking for some perspective on my current situation.

Background:
I’ve been with my Thai girlfriend (from Patong) for 2 years. I’ve supported her significantly and we’ve been very close—I was with her in Jan, and she even asked when I’m returning (planned for Sept). I’ve been her emotional rock, often staying on video calls while she sleeps. She met my friends and my friends family.

I've met her friends, she used to say I love you even in front of friends, there was no real fight to cause the trigger

Last weds she told me she hurt her foot video called me and we chatted I helped her out, we messaged a bit more everything was normal. On thursday I reached out and said good morning but never got a reply by friday she blocked me for no reason. There was no argument or a trigger to cause the block

The Situation:
She recently told me while I was in phuket 2 weeks ago she needed 60,000 THB for surgery (doctor coming from BKK to Phuket). I gave her 20,000 THB to start.
Shortly after I can see she went to singapore. Last time I went she claimed she’s staying at a "friend's condo" for a holiday, I even gave her money last time and she was so appreciative almost cried etc.

The Red Flags:

• My assumption is that she arrived in Singapore, she blocked me on everything.

• She is still posting on social media, her latest shows a love heart emoji in the distance.

• She is still wearing the jewelry I gave her in her posts.

• I sent her 5,000 THB last Friday while blocked; she accepted the money.

• A mutual friend messaged her; she didn't block him, but she didn't reply either.

• The surgery is supposedly scheduled for Jan 31st (this Saturday).

My Conflict:
I haven’t reached out since last Saturday (5 days of total silence). I’m worried she’s found someone else or has multiple sponsors, but I also wonder if she’s just in "work mode" to raise the remaining 40,000 THB for her surgery and blocked me to avoid the "guilt" or drama of me seeing her in that environment.

I’m struggling with the urge to reach out.
Does this sound like a standard "Singapore working holiday"

15 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Ive never been duped. Where do you find the bad ones?

The latest one just approached me.

She was always with "her sister".

So I had to pay for the sister too, but I will never even know for sure if it was her real sister.

Better than a brother, I guess.

45 minutes ago, blaze master said:

I got a great idea save you lots of trouble and heartache....

Give me the remainder of the surgery money....ill kick you in the balls and we'll call it a day.

Masterful requote from the comedy genius that was National Lampoon vacation, Las Vegas

Why not date somebody older who has her own money?

I mean, I know why, but I want to hear your version of it.

Is she 24 and looks like a guy?

The first time I send money - meant for one month, it was "my good man!".

Two weeks later, more money requested, and I ignored it.

When I called later - it was "what you want!".

Part of my learning curve.

HopelessThaiWindup is a brand new user, just registered on AN within the last 24 hours, many parts of the OP clearly written by AI, surely none of this is pure fiction. You do the math. #NEVER-HAPPENED.

1 minute ago, Alpha84 said:

HopelessThaiWindup is a brand new user, just registered on AN within the last 24 hours, many parts of the OP clearly written by AI, surely none of this is pure fiction. You do the math. #NEVER-HAPPENED.

Happens all the time, classic plot!

Go with it, or just do not bother

7 minutes ago, Alpha84 said:

HopelessThaiWindup is a brand new user, just registered on AN within the last 24 hours, many parts of the OP clearly written by AI, surely none of this is pure fiction. You do the math. #NEVER-HAPPENED.

Nahh it is a true story, I actually did put in AI so it could write it out a bit more, but what I said actually has happened

She is from patong not far from patong beach. I just wanted to get insight from you guys because believe it or not the AI referenced stories from this forum so I decided to post my story to understand what has happened.

41 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Masterful requote from the comedy genius that was National Lampoon vacation, Las Vegas

Why not date somebody older who has her own money?

I mean, I know why, but I want to hear your version of it.

Well I guess she made me feel good and she was of course very beautiful

1 hour ago, theshu25 said:

Nah,it is Cameroni all over again.

Sounds like this is a class repeated story, the same situation happened? Anything come of it?

4 minutes ago, hopelessthailover said:

Sounds like this is a class repeated story, the same situation happened? Anything come of it?

over 200 pages of non stops lies in the lounge segment.

3 hours ago, Pouatchee said:

Bob resurrected?

I thought Bob went for ladyboys.

28 minutes ago, hopelessthailover said:

Sounds like this is a class repeated story, the same situation happened? Anything come of it?

Hopefully you'll learn that you pay to get rid of them, love the "Sister" gets free meals/drinks too, bed the pair or tell the sister to go away.

Your 40, FFS grow up.

"Women can drag you further than dynamite can blow you"

4 hours ago, hopelessthailover said:

I’ve been her emotional rock, often staying on video calls while she sleeps.

That's effing weird!! This story has to be farce, right?🤣

Send me her contacts and pictures, and I will go to see her to find out what happened. After that, I will report to you what is different for her.

1 hour ago, hopelessthailover said:

Nahh it is a true story, I actually did put in AI so it could write it out a bit more, but what I said actually has happened

She is from patong not far from patong beach. I just wanted to get insight from you guys because believe it or not the AI referenced stories from this forum so I decided to post my story to understand what has happened.

Well, as you are quite sure she will never unblock you, your story is finished. I am surprised this can sill happen in 2026. Really ? Trolling maybe ...
Post a picture ! You have nothing to loose now. Some guys in Phuket or Singapore maybe can help ... ;-)
PS : and yes, she will answer back..one day. Have you ever closed a bank account that still had money in it? NO !

subbed to see the end of the tale

So much of the OP screams fictional, but taking it at face value, there is no surgery required, and no specialist doctor is going to travel from Bangkok to Phuket to perform one for someone who is not well connected or of a high social strata. If surgery were genuinely necessary, the patient would need to travel to the doctor, not the other way around. Her story does not hold up. This follows a familiar pattern of fabricated medical issues, similar to the sick buffalo fable.

They are always looking for a bigger and better deal, and it appears she has found one in Singapore. In fact, she may not even be in Singapore and could simply still be in Phuket with another regular, well paying punter who is in town. You have been blocked so you cannot interfere while she is earning money from someone else. When that situation ends and she finds herself alone again or short on money again, you will likely be unblocked so she can request more payments. In the meantime, she is focused on securing funds to cover her ongoing expenses, including gambling losses and substance abuse. But the good news or bad news, depending on how you look at it, is that in Thailand you normally do not completely lose the girl, you usually only lose your turn.

4 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Oh goodie, another Dear Abby posting.

You're in the right place.

The Pub forum and it's knowledgeable members are here to help.

4 hours ago, wil iam not said:

Are you saying that Mr Lonely Farang is happier to know that the GF he is paying, is also getting it from others?

The sponsors are happy paying as it makes them warm and fuzzy they have a girlfriend, of course he isn't aware she has others to ST, LT or LLT

47 minutes ago, SABloke said:

That's effing weird!! This story has to be farce, right?🤣

I'm telling you it's true, she would often wan me to stay on a video call so she fell asleep
She isn't the most emotionally stable girl

The whole story is true that's why I can't believe myself it had such an abrupt ending

14 minutes ago, Terrance8812 said:

So much of the OP screams fictional, but taking it at face value, there is no surgery required, and no specialist doctor is going to travel from Bangkok to Phuket to perform one for someone who is not well connected or of a high social strata. If surgery were genuinely necessary, the patient would need to travel to the doctor, not the other way around. Her story does not hold up. This follows a familiar pattern of fabricated medical issues, similar to the sick buffalo fable. She is always looking for a bigger and better deal, and it appears she has found one in Singapore. You have been blocked so you cannot interfere while she is earning money from someone else. When she returns to Thailand and finds herself alone again or short on money again, you will likely be unblocked so she can request more payments. In the meantime, she is focused on securing funds to cover her ongoing expenses, including gambling losses and substance abuse. But the good news is, in Thailand, you normally don't completely lose the girl, you usually only lose your turn.

I'm telling you the truth, this isn't made up she wanted to do sexyline... there is a clinic in phuket maybe someone can confirm it it's called "The klinqiue"
I probably shouldn't got AI to write my story

Now she is in singapore sounds like with a new guy showing love hearts, roses well at least painting a picture like that the love heart in one post was so distant so not sure if she is just pleasing the guy. Either way I don't think she will ever unblock me now that she has found a new source of income

I’ve supported her significantly

...and there you have it, no need to wonder or question further. you were not in a loving, romantic relationship, you were in a business relationship. go home, lick your wounds, realise and learn from your mistakes/experience, and get back in the saddle in a genuine loving relationship, not business relationship.