2 hours ago, hopelessthailover said:

3 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

Is this you Cameroni ????

who is this person obviously had a similar story?

A concurrently running thread (over 200 pages) - he's being taken for a mug by a bar-girl he refuses to accept is a bar girl....

7 hours ago, hopelessthailover said:

Do people think this story is made up, it's actually so true I couldn't even make it up
Basically just no more relationships with girls from patong (if it's even considered a relationship)
I just got caught up in the whole moment and thought she is doing it tough she must be looking up to me but all along she did the same thing over and over no doubt
maybe glimpses of affection but perhaps I read way too much into it and that's exactly how the whole thing goes right?

Okay. I think I understand what's going on. You are a nice guy, she actually doesn't want to hurt you. What ever her reason ( needs a partner who is physically around, wants a part time therapist, needs the direct emotional support and encouragement, or has a distorted vision for future from watching all the social media nonsense)

Maybe it's protective for her to not go through the drama, fighting, and theatrics that some go through when separating. Also Thai women are taught quiet is better.

4 hours ago, hopelessthailover said:

who is this person obviously had a similar story?

This simple post from you confirms that this entire topic is nothing more than an obvious windup. Pretending you are unaware of that long running topic or that person, when it is hard to miss and his endlessly running sob story mirrors your drivel almost identically, is straight out of the Bob Smith windup playbook and something he employs every time he reappears on the site with a newly fangled identity.

This type of narrative seems to have recently become a very successful windup theme on the site. Get raked over the coals by a bar girl, keep acting naive as if you believe she is not a bar girl, then prostrate yourself before all the condescending blowback. Phase 2 of the windup is then to act as the emotionally battered victim who needs endless good advice, counseling, and a big shoulder to cry on. It is good for at least 20 pages of replies, maybe 100 if you are lucky. Go Bob!

I cannot wait until the OP takes this windup to the next stage and posts that she has now suddenly returned from Singapore, unblocked him, that he is now considering sending her more money, continuing to insist that she is from "Patong" and not a bar girl, and asking for more advice from other members, which then results in another 10 to 20 pages of wasted responses. I give it another day or two before that happens, or as a way to reignite the topic whenever it starts losing focus, interest and popularity.

11 hours ago, 123Stodg said:

I cannot wait until the OP takes this windup to the next stage and posts that she has now suddenly returned from Singapore, unblocked him, that he is now considering sending her more money, continuing to insist that she is from "Patong" and not a bar girl, and asking for more advice from other members, which then results in another 10 to 20 pages of wasted responses. I give it another day or two before that happens, or as a way to reignite the topic whenever it starts losing focus, interest and popularity.

That would be the classic story according to what you all have seen from previous experiences.
Hopefully I'm strong enough to not let that happen and because I truly believe that possibility won't even happen to begin with

I'll definitely update this chat if that ever did happen, nothing to hide as I said

11 hours ago, 123Stodg said:

This simple post from you confirms that this entire topic is nothing more than an obvious windup. Pretending you are unaware of that long running topic or that person, when it is hard to miss and his endlessly running sob story mirrors your drivel almost identically, is straight out of the Bob Smith windup playbook and something he employs every time he reappears on the site with a newly fangled identity.

This type of narrative seems to have recently become a very successful windup theme on the site. Get raked over the coals by a bar girl, keep acting naive as if you believe she is not a bar girl, then prostrate yourself before all the condescending blowback. Phase 2 of the windup is then to act as the emotionally battered victim who needs endless good advice, counseling, and a big shoulder to cry on. It is good for at least 20 pages of replies, maybe 100 if you are lucky. Go Bob!

I really don't know any of this, I only joined a few days ago, they only reason I found the site to be honest was when I summarised my experience using AI it suggested this site believe it or not

17 hours ago, norfolkandchance said:

I missed out the sarcasm alert.

A lousy attempt, too, as it was mispelled. If you want to be sarcastic, get it right.

7 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

A lousy attempt, too, as it was mispelled. If you want to be sarcastic, get it right.

sarcasm

/ˈsɑːkaz(ə)m/

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noun

1. the use of irony to mock or convey contempt.

   "she didn't like the note of sarcasm

9 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

A lousy attempt, too, as it was mispelled. If you want to be sarcastic, get it right.

she wasn't a bar girl when I met her

On 1/30/2026 at 9:30 AM, hopelessthailover said:

You are right but she wasn't a bar girl when I met her, maybe just don't fall in love in general

Every TG I have spoken to in Pattaya where the streets are paved with gold has said every TG here wants to try a farang.... Draw your own conclusion

On 1/30/2026 at 11:08 PM, J Branche said:

Okay. I think I understand what's going on. You are a nice guy, she actually doesn't want to hurt you. What ever her reason ( needs a partner who is physically around, wants a part time therapist, needs the direct emotional support and encouragement, or has a distorted vision for future from watching all the social media nonsense)

Maybe it's protective for her to not go through the drama, fighting, and theatrics that some go through when separating. Also Thai women are taught quiet is better.

That's a reasonable assumption, I guess easier to go without explanation

Just a minor update...

She finally unblocked me 2 weeks later, but it's at a stalemate. Silently unblocked but didn't message
I haven't said a word since all this happened I've remained quiet...

The ironic thing is that I might heading back to thailand in March, I'll decide when I'm there if I'll reach and say if she wants to meet up but undecided yet.