sounds like a bad situation with not alot of respect on either side. stay well out of it matt, it will only end in you being the bad guy somewhere along the way

To Catch A Cheater, Whay would you do ?

after read your post ... i feel sorry about your friend ..

but but ... if u ask me, if i was in that situation, i could not stand with gambler and cheater indeed

anyhow ..if i was that guy .. i 'd go to a wife's friend 's home and prove it

I dont understand why he hasn't been over there to check the situation out, not gonna be hard to catch her out is it.

I dont understand why he hasn't been over there to check the situation out, not gonna be hard to catch her out is it.

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I don't know how he doesn't mind her going out all night gambling anyway.. if it was me, she'd be out the door

totster

I had a chat to him and his biggest problem is the unprotected sex, and secondly the "indifferent attitude". Interesting he said that if she wants to go and have some fun, that is fine, just as long as a condom is involved.

I don't think I would be that liberal in my attitude.

IMO if he doesn't care if she cheats as long as she uses a condem, then he's gonna end up with exactly what he doesn't want - someone elses kid.