I think we have a superb group of females here in Bedlam.

They can join in the banter without getting upset and we are lucky to have them

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Well said Tetty! ..Well said.

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Heartlity agreed! What's the current TV ratio anyone? 1000-1 or???

The TV ladies are brilliant, funny, articulate, add a sorely needed point of view, can def hold their own and the more the merrier!

The TV ladies are brilliant, funny, articulate, add a sorely needed point of view, can def hold their own and the more the merrier! smile.gif

Magnificanty put Barty! ..See you soon.

Kat left because she didn't like what was said on similar topics as appears here.

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She made a return recently

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Now and then I get the odd member giving me a hard time for being A) Female or B ) Farang female or C) Younger.

Ok.

I have been out to the pubs in Fraserbough tonight to give my mates Val and Karl some time alone' date=' and I have had quite a lot to drink, guinness, whicskry, and cole and vodka ands cola and wkd and some wine, not goos wine butb wine all the same and I miust say that Sxcotland is fulof ######ing alcoholic teebnagers and haggard old women , anyway,....... what was I fggggoing to say?

If anybodygives u a hsrd timne 4 being femakle or a farang female or a fcking young, jesus yioung??? - anyway - if any ###### gives you shit for being on here and standing your ground then justnpm me or anybody you feel you can trust and we willmseee to it that thay get what for, savvy?

goooodnight

scampeexx

we luv all u ladiess on tv

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Just got there and you're already speaking fluent Scottish.

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Kat left because she didn't like what was said on similar topics as appears here.

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She made a return recently

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Good, I miss her.

cv

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This thread needs some tits pics

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let's see yours

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counting

kat

sbk

Boo

lce maiden

Girl from Bar

Lovely Cutie

khall64au

me..

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You forgot Honeyen, Siamesekitty, Nat and probably a few others. But these are the 3 that spring to mind. Have been lucky to meet a few of these members. Everyone of them has been lovely, funny and very strong minded. Not scared to say it how it is. Thats the way people should be. More women i have no problem with. As what has been mentioned before. We can get an opinion that may be different from the boys.

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TM, I certainly expected something a bit more intelligent than this thread from you, unless of course, it us just a post to get the misogynistic fellas posting more of their crap. In which case, I don't really want to hear it. Enough already. Must we fan flames that don't need to exist in the first place?

TM, I think, perhaps, you are just a stirrer 

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Sbk,

There is a function in all threads.

Even those that just help increase one's "ignore" user list.

It dose make for a much more efficient Thaivisa.

That is, unless you are attracted to the misogynist type.

In that case the old mates can expose themselves, shake hands (or whatever body part they use for greetings) and stumble through their one-line attempts at the English language.

On the other hand, maybe - just maybe, someone might write an intelligent point of view.

What have you got to lose?

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I missed all of you, as well. It looks like sometimes I need to storm out of here, and reassess why I'm spending a lot of time on this site. I realize that there are a lot of decent people here whom I've grown to like and respect. Of course, there are a lot of the others ....... but, I just got back, so I won't go there

Anwyay, I think that I've proven that I can hold my own, so that's not the reason for leaving. This has always been a male-dominated site, with more than its fair share of misogynist and male chauvinist values. I first started coming onto to this site to explore that dynamic a bit more closely, and let me tell you, I wasn't disappointed.

However, I am surprised at how many people that I've met whom I like, and even more so that I've managed to find friends on this site. There are good people here.

Sometimes I get a bit weary because there are blatant double-standards among many of the men, but it's a lot better than when I first started posting here. At that time, there was a lot of baiting and most wouldn't even acknowledge me at all. But nevermind, I sure fixed them - I stayed

And also, for the record, I didn't leave because of a discussion on bedlam. Just ask Boon Mee, Spee or Butterfly (Hi guys!)

Scampy, you're adorable when you're drunk.

Nice to see you're still checking in Kat.

Thanks Prof And some of the comments about me on thread where I announced I was leaving were well-taken, especially the one by Moog about burn-out and starting a blog.

Anyway, thanks.

Welcome back Kat!

Great to have you back again, I missed your posts.

Yes Scampy is adorable when drunk

Do we want more men?

Man or woman, does it really matter? The more the merrier!

Disclaimer: As long as the people agree with everything I say. They must also do what I say and not as I do.

Welcome back Kat !!!

We need your articulate thinking to demystify all those silly arguments from Boon Me and Spee

I hope you didn't leave because of the tits thread or "bush" shots some of us were posting (You should know by now that all men are pigs, I told you so before, how much more evidence do you need)

Hey Butterfly! No, I didn't leave because of the tits thread. I've come to accept that men enjoy ogling women When I mentioned misogynist or chauvinst values, I was talking more about derogatory or condscending attitudes.

And like you said, you already "schooled" me on the "men as perverts" theory

Sorry for the delayed response, but I don't check in as often.

Hey Butterfly!  No, I didn't leave because of the tits thread.  I've come to accept that men enjoy ogling women    When I mentioned misogynist or chauvinst values, I was talking more about derogatory or condscending attitudes.

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Some long words there for a woman.

Hey Butterfly!  No, I didn't leave because of the tits thread.  I've come to accept that men enjoy ogling women    When I mentioned misogynist or chauvinst values, I was talking more about derogatory or condscending attitudes.

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Some long words there for a woman.

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Kat - I'd agree better simply it for Butterfly - he might not understand otherwise!!

All Alone

This looks like a good spot. No one can see me here.