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I had that experience last a few months in Bkk but bank return me money because at ATM machines there are cameras, then bank can check who withdraw the money out. I guess the scammers stick on the camera at the ATM machine and you not closed when you pressed your 4 digits code then easy for them to get money .You should keep all ATM receipts and informed to the bank and then informed to the police that is all. You should ask Bank to check for you and ask your money return from them.

That situation ever happened on me last 5 yrs and that is why I do all myself and employ suppliers no employees now.

Sorry to hear that. Well, Can you please answer me my questions ?

1. How old is your daugther now ?

2. Your ex-wife still working as bar girl now ? >>If she still working as bar girl the court will not allow kid to live with her.

3. She not yet re-married with that rich guy ?>> The court still not accept to allow your kid to live with her.

4. As you said you divorced for 5 yrs ? And Since that time your ex-wife has been keep contacting or supporting you and your daugther ?>> If she disappeared sinced you dicorced and suddently contacted you and your daugther, it is non sense that the court will listen her. But this you must proove to the court how:

Cheer !

My daughter is 12 years now.

My ex-wife was working as a bar girl in February 2014.

I have the proof and the name of the bar for that.

But I don't know what she is doing now.

We have already 5 years no contact.

Also, for the same reason, I don't know if she married that other "rich" guy.

Since we divorced, my ex-wife did not tried to contact me or our daughter,

She also never supported me or our daughter since we divorced.

If she would claim that she did supported me or our daughter, or that she contacted me or our daughter, would the burden of proof not be on her side?

Thanks for your information.

As you know you & Ex have right 50/50 custody your child. But the important thing : The day when you divorced at the amphur did you made any agreement btw you & ex, about custdy of your child ? Such as you will be only one to look after or take care your child on that day ? Or you not wrote anythings about custody ? if did , you have right 100% to your child , mother can't take her from you but she will have right only visiting her.

But if you not, the court will consideration on the financial security and the court will ask your child too that she would live with father or mother.

One more , did you write down some reason at amphur why you divorced your ex like: because your ex addicted on gamble and had more debt on that ?

And the reason that for 5 yrs she never contacted you and child, she can says that because she didn't know your address or you not allow her to visit or contact the child. Then you must be sure with your child that when the court asks her she can answer the real situation and she insists to live with you.

Careful for mother will convince child to live with her and don't let her away with her mother without you , you should not away when her mother come visit because if your child go with your ex, it will be more complicated.

Don't worry you will be the winner finallny!

I am not sure of your claims about 50/50 custody.

At the divorce 5 years ago, she "sold" our daughter to me for 40,000 baht.

This agreement was written at the Amphur and signed by Officials at the Amphur.

This agreement was signed separately from the divorce papers which state very clearly that "I get the SOLE parenthood about our child."

There was nothing written about her gambling debts in the divorce papers, but I have a signed and stamped document from my lawyer (who made an inquiry about her gambling debts about 1 month before the divorce) stating that my ex-wife had an accumulated debt of +800 KBaht.

This inquiry did not count with the little debts from personal loans.

"Not knowing my address" would be the most flawed excuse she could think off.

I still live in the same house as when we were married and she found the way to my house when I had a new GF and she came make a scene at my house that my GF should pay her 50,000 Baht because she was my "mia noy".

Finally, I not force the child to stay with me.

She is 12 year old and she can go to the mother if that is what she wants.

But I explained to her what she have now and what is awaiting her in the village of my wife.

I don't think that my child will chose to go with the mother, although she may chose (require) that the mother would her visit her if the mother wants to see the child.

That might look like fun for a month or two, but I guess that the mother (and her new bf) will lose interest after that time.

Thanks

You can say to the court that you are the father then as her mom works at bar and now your daugther is getting teenager so you can't let your child to live with her mother with the new bf because how can you trust the bf of her mother will not hurt or sexual problem. This reason 100% absolutely the court will close the case for you.

Good luck !

Sorry to hear that. Well, Can you please answer me my questions ?

1. How old is your daugther now ?

2. Your ex-wife still working as bar girl now ? >>If she still working as bar girl the court will not allow kid to live with her.

3. She not yet re-married with that rich guy ?>> The court still not accept to allow your kid to live with her.

4. As you said you divorced for 5 yrs ? And Since that time your ex-wife has been keep contacting or supporting you and your daugther ?>> If she disappeared sinced you dicorced and suddently contacted you and your daugther, it is non sense that the court will listen her. But this you must proove to the court how:

Cheer !

My daughter is 12 years now.

My ex-wife was working as a bar girl in February 2014.

I have the proof and the name of the bar for that.

But I don't know what she is doing now.

We have already 5 years no contact.

Also, for the same reason, I don't know if she married that other "rich" guy.

Since we divorced, my ex-wife did not tried to contact me or our daughter,

She also never supported me or our daughter since we divorced.

If she would claim that she did supported me or our daughter, or that she contacted me or our daughter, would the burden of proof not be on her side?

Thanks for your information.

As you know you & Ex have right 50/50 custody your child. But the important thing : The day when you divorced at the amphur did you made any agreement btw you & ex, about custdy of your child ? Such as you will be only one to look after or take care your child on that day ? Or you not wrote anythings about custody ? if did , you have right 100% to your child , mother can't take her from you but she will have right only visiting her.

But if you not, the court will consideration on the financial security and the court will ask your child too that she would live with father or mother.

One more , did you write down some reason at amphur why you divorced your ex like: because your ex addicted on gamble and had more debt on that ?

And the reason that for 5 yrs she never contacted you and child, she can says that because she didn't know your address or you not allow her to visit or contact the child. Then you must be sure with your child that when the court asks her she can answer the real situation and she insists to live with you.

Careful for mother will convince child to live with her and don't let her away with her mother without you , you should not away when her mother come visit because if your child go with your ex, it will be more complicated.

Don't worry you will be the winner finallny!

Sorry to hear that. Well, Can you please answer me my questions ?

1. How old is your daugther now ?

2. Your ex-wife still working as bar girl now ? >>If she still working as bar girl the court will not allow kid to live with her.

3. She not yet re-married with that rich guy ?>> The court still not accept to allow your kid to live with her.

4. As you said you divorced for 5 yrs ? And Since that time your ex-wife has been keep contacting or supporting you and your daugther ?>> If she disappeared sinced you dicorced and suddently contacted you and your daugther, it is non sense that the court will listen her. But this you must proove to the court how:

Cheer !

Surely no secrete in village all people know each other and i think after you go on with the 100 y/o laday, she will hint to you wife that you are also her husband then finally you will have big trouble. If you read the newspapers in daily , so many couple killed their partners because of affair.

Goodluck ! I think wherever to live , if not expecting much , understnad the nature of that places, adjust , will be happy and sastisfy, i believe that this world nothing is perfect.

The name is Jija belong to Silly Fools band , i also l ike them ,so pity on the singer (Toh) of this band was quit last 8 yrs now new one replace him. But i prefer like Toh. Here is the links of the song i like , actually many songs good.

Hua Hin because there are good hospitals, nice condo close beach, there are many nice restaurants.

I'd rather buy the new car than used car because can't trust the used car would be slolen even though the used car shops will show the car papers but can't turst them . How can be sure that engine is still good, i think you will spend more money for fixing it later.

I think USA's government is afriad to lost their piece of big cake because now the current govenment of Thailand just had signed MOU for rice, rubber and also signed contract for speed trains with China then how the USA's government not do something.

Do do know how old is the property ? How many m2? As i know some property near that place now advertise to sell of townhouse , 25 sqare wah, 3 bed rooms, 2 baht rooms want to sell 3.2 million baht, not included the transfering fee and also another taxes.

OP do you have something to hide? I'm not one for saying if you have nothing to hide you have nothing to fear, but why the paranoia?

I'm not trying to pick a fight with you, just asking the question, why are you so fearful of a gift.

OK what would I do.........If I was guilty of concealing my activities from my other half, I would get the phone 'stripped' buy a trench coat, wear a dark pair of glasses and duck in and out of doorway.....and revel in the fact that my GF thinks I am a player!!

If I was innocent of any wrong doing..........I would not give a rats ass and carry on doing what I'm doing, put up with the GF for as long as it suits me.....Until any spying get too much then move on.

Bottom line......The issue here for me is not whether the phone is tapped.......it's the relationship you two have with each other.

55555++ 100 % i agree with you

Why don't you talk or discuss with your future wife and meet the mid way ? If you ask the social strangers, they not know your situation more than you and your future wife.

Honesty, dowry or Sinsod is depend on you and your girl agreement, actually you are both can marriy without any money involve i saw many couples no Sinsod but just change rings and some wedding ceremory that is all.

I would recommend you to inform your wife or kids or relatives to bring your ash back to your homeland much more cheaper than body. Your kids or wife can contact the local temple where is nearest place you die at to burn your body , you just pay for temple for burning service such 10k or 20k or not sure how much or maybe free of charge.

Sad to hear this case , much more sad is a kid , this reason why i am still single and happy for my status. Although sometimes i am lonely.