Bangel72

I was having some beers in banter with a few new guys in thailand recently and this sort came up in the discussion under the any advice you can offer topics. Beer banter consensus seemed to be either accept it and get on with the job at hand or pay them to go away in exchange for a lesson learned and a funny story. Its generally okay to ask here in the same way you might ask if they are expecting compensation which some other cultures are less okay with. Its that simple, coming to thailand with phobia's and potential aggression when someone different triggers your phobia, your coming to the wrong place. Yes they should have been up front from the start, perhaps desperation lead them to take that risk, perhaps its the hustle and there is no doubt they are putting themselves at risk in doing so.

COD aside. If there were rules that all online payments go to a holding account pending satisfaction so they can be reversed easily this may reduce a lot of fraud. Needs involvement of banks and likely could create problems however so increased cost needs to go somewhere but maybe worth it to get rid of the base scams going around.

The owners being charged with the dogs crimes would be a good starting point. That's a risk good dog owners would likely accept as they would look to train their dog well, it may also put off casual ownership.

Ha ha, being called out for fallacy of arguments on thaivisa. I applaud the call out, I suspect you will be very busy though, its about 80% of responses and I'm just blending in.

Despite having a number of vices including smoking I am not entirely against a total ban, it is though a bit nanny state approach protecting people from themselves or isolating them from society. The future path and direction though could be a concern. Consider a few similar potentially harmful vices, caffeine, sugar, fatty foods, alcohol, loud music, hey might as well throw religion in there so lets say we ban them all. Without vices is it really beneficial to society, keeping people calm, people finding a release in some way doing some things they enjoy and give them a level of pleasure, to take that all away, a lot of the things that make us who we are, would we be in a worse state, perhaps with people seeking other vices to fill the gaps. I would never want my kid to start smoking for example so I can see why some countries are using that as a future ban based on age. However if we go down the complete ban route then we'd need to be okay with all those other ones going shortly after and at this point its not something I'd be keen on being part of.

A lot of people seem to underestimate the value of banter, to laugh, joke and be happy in the company of other idiots who also like being happy. Beneath a lot of the miserable old gits there is usually wit, laughter and humor, yes sometimes even in the face of tough times and adversity. People usually have done a good innings and deserve to be happy, let them be. So you have beach, sun, cheap beer and some entertainment if you can be bothered alongside the banter and humor to keep you just that bit happier. There's definitely worse places.

Interesting I wonder if she had any connection to the space. We have a gated house entrance, its often blocked by school mums, this is illegal as it blocks a houses exit so we use cones now and again, police just look at me like crazy farang with his cones. The cones are only required though because the law on parking is not followed. Very different to initial posted case, but bit of side info. Would you cone if it was your house?

Far too much misinformation going around on this and law abiding citizens getting dragged in, particularly with mob mentality. Camera's are everywhere, one video of 20 people looting a sausage roll each from Greggs yesterday with high chance of criminal record and maybe jail time if they had any room, for a snack. Accessorial liability is also something to be aware of, pick up a brick and whether you throw it or not if the guy beside you does, he could drag you down with him. Prior London riots, months of painstakingly going through footage and prosecuting pretty much everyone seems to be a common view of what happened. If you have kids out on the street there, at least tell not to be stupid and stay aware of and within the law.

Is that how you take your coffee in the morning? Maybe lets just get a wee blow torch under that spoonful of sugar to go with it.

Oh and then there's that projection thingy. projection refers to unconsciously taking unwanted emotions or traits you don't like about yourself and attributing them to someone else.

Haha, yep I opted for the actual maid/nanny option. Much cheaper, less naggy than the ex and works a lot harder, even though ex had her own business. Before anyone asks, that's a no, she's like 100 years old or something.

Given another story today on someone arguing it was his house ended up shooting the people there, I'd be a bit wary. Been a few stories over these repossessions where people are left with nothing and nothing to lose, mentally they still feel its there house and home and can end in violence, think there was another one last year, old guy would not move out after repossession, new owner came to inspect and got shot. Usually bank would clear house and sell belongings if still a debt, but even their staff likely to avoid if chance of getting shot. Neighbors may also be an issue.

There is an SSO connect app. Just signed up, was a bit of a pain. Looks like the id it asks for is your sso ID, salary slip, HR or if you have the card you should find it there. No idea on the emergency costs. I opted to get extra personal in patient insurance, enough for a couple of days private then transfer it government insurance for these sort of emergencies. Getting seen straight away was part of that decision.

Just renewed mine again, no extra charge this time. Interested to see if anyone else gets a non-usage charge,

The being held hostage by the hospital for fees is an interesting one. Is it legal, what should you do? I wonder what is in the forms they likely made him sign on arrival. There is something about life threatening emergency cover at all hospitals but not sure how many foreigners have been successful on that front, then transfer to government hospital. Curious if anyone has had that cover and what did the transfer go smoothly He may have missed that window of opportunity unfortunately, installment plan may be only option.