barberman
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Shared custody? Extremely good.
Sole custody? Probably difficult.
What exactly are you aiming for? The information you provide does not allow for any type of analysis.
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We did marry in the amphur office, and my intentions where to see if i could get custody to take the children with me to the uk which i know now will be very difficult if my partner doesnt agree to this. She assures me she would prefer them to come to the uk so as to give them a better future, they are now 3 and nearly 5 years old. One of the reasons for the separation where down to my wife spending too much money so i could not visit as much as i had hoped so i have not had too much time with my children although my wife would not say that the children havnt bonded with me and i would not say she is a bad mother. We have agreed not to divorce as if they are to come and live in the uk my wife will be able to visit them here aswell as myself taking them there. You may ask why i asked in the first place about custody but communication is not brilliant and i needed to know what i could do if communication and relations were to break down. Thanks for you replys any more info just ask/
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i am a father of two boys to a thai woman, we are about to separate, the boys have dual nationality and are british passport holders. I have fully supported my wife and sons and continue to do so. If i try to gain custody what are my chances knowing that the thai governmen could not enforce maintenance payments from myself and the boys would therefore suffer financial hardship if i was to refuse maintenance payments. In short have i any chance of gaining custody of my british citizen children?
Child Custody
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As we speak we have agreed that if we divorce and i bring the children to the uk on a mutual agreement she would not be able to obtain a visa easily so as to come and visit the children whilst they are staying with myself and attending school. I dont feel the need to divorce at present and she is in no hurry either but i have sufficient grounds to obtain this should i need. I dont want to fight for sole custody either as i feel this will only damage the childrens wellbeing. I had intended to live in thailand with my wife and kids but due to many factors this didnt come about and it was also very difficult for me to obtain a settlement visa for my wife in the uk. All this is very recent and although i feel very bitter towards my wife i cant let my emotions cloud my judgement. Thanks for a very detailed answer it has helped a lot many thanks to you all.