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  1. On 12/26/2024 at 9:44 AM, youreavinalaff said:

    Immigrants who are renting homes in UK come to the UK , in the most part, to work. They don't get handouts.

     

     

    I would say, 8 out of 10 migrant families in my properties do work and do get handouts, if you include Housing Benefit and other benefits I'm sure they are entitled to, as most seem to be on pretty much minimum wage, even after 10 years or more of being here.

    One family with a total of 11 grown up kids between them, both in their early 50s don't work anymore and now claim PIP.  They also understand how the system works and seem rather comfortable.

  2. On 11/3/2024 at 5:03 PM, richard_smith237 said:

     

    I agree with this... 

     

    Dry humor is often lost, but I've met Thai people with dry humor, but I think it works in a different way than 'our dry humor' which is usually accompanied with an element of sarcasm... 

     

    My Wife hates it....

    She'll be driving... we'll be on a long road, with no turns in sight and she'll ask "which way?"..  I'll reply, turn left here..... 

    ... and as soon as I've opened my mouth I know I've made a mistake as she's no pi$$ed off with me for being sarcastic !!!

     

     

    The most amusing was when I went for a fertility test (when we were trying for a child)... 

    I had to go to the hosptial w@nking room... but before I did, a nurse gave me a little plastic cup... and asked..

    .. "How many times have you erm... "

    .... "erm, what"

    .. "How many times have you erm... finished"

    .... "I finished breakfast already"

    .. "No, I mean How many times have you erm... "

    .... "erm, what" (at this point I know I'm going to hell).

    .. "How many times have you... er...  finished, er finished for baby"

    .... "oh, you mean, how many times have I ejaculated ?"

    [palpablie relief on the nurses face] ... "Yes"

    .... "This  month or this week?"

    [relief on the nurses face dissapears] .. "in the last 24 hours"

    .... "ah, ok...  6 times yesterday evening and 3 times this morning"  (I'm definately going to hell).

    [Nurse then writes the numbers in a little book]...   the sarcasm completely lost...  but, my evil inner me is chuckling and my wife is embarrased... 

     

     

     

     

    I'm British - I don't seen this as sarcasm - just cringeworthy. Sorry.

  3. On 11/5/2024 at 4:41 AM, Chomper Higgot said:

    Who said people in low incomes are going to buy homes?

     

    I see you are back to blaming immigrants.

     

    Schrödinger's Immigrants, who are one and the same time living on benefits and buying up all the expensive housing.

     

     

    Landlord here with 10 rental properties.  All housing immigrants - not by choice, just what came along.  To be fair, they are mostly nice people, so nothing against them personally, but on a macro level, it does make things harder for British born people without doubt

  4. 4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

    Did he do any blood testing to find any cause, or did he just give you a prescription of tadalafil? 

    I am due a testosterone blood test later in January, the previous one showing slightly on the low side but was done in the afternoon.

    I've been told I must do the next test before 10am to get an accurate picture, hopefully my 10:10 appointment is good enough...

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  5. On 10/29/2024 at 2:51 PM, 123Stodg said:

    Well, let’s just cut to the chase—getting older isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. There’s the inevitable grey hair, the mysterious aches and pains, and, let’s face it, some truly annoying changes on the “personal health” front. I’m talking about a certain lack of enthusiasm below the belt. Once you hit 50, it’s like a switch flips, and suddenly your body decides it’s gonna make things more difficult in the bedroom. For most of my life, I didn’t give a second thought to, let’s call it, “rising to the occasion.” But now? Let’s just say that even when I’m mentally ready, my body’s got other plans.

     

    I’ve tried every “natural” suggestion out there—believe me, I’ve done my research. Eating clean, quitting caffeine, working out regularly. They say “get more sleep,” but try telling that to the never-ending to-do list waiting every morning. I’ve loaded up on leafy greens, upped my water intake, and even swapped out some old habits for new, healthier ones. I’ve even gotten into meditation, trying to manage stress levels. But when it comes down to it, no matter how many vegetables I eat or how many squats I do, the problem persists.

     

    And let’s talk about supplements. I’ve probably spent a small fortune on everything from ginseng to maca root, L-arginine to zinc. If it’s sold as a “natural” performance booster, it’s probably sitting somewhere in my drawer right now. But here’s the reality: it’s just not working. I’ve tried powders, pills, smoothies, and shakes—anything that promised even a glimmer of hope. All I got was stack full of bottles and a lingering sense of defeat.

     

    Now, being in Thailand, let’s just say there’s no shortage of… commercial options. I’ve tried visiting a few of the top spots and, let’s be real, the experience is enough to leave anyone starry-eyed. Even had a go with a few young, eager hands-on assistants who are pretty dedicated to the “art” of service, and, yes, sometimes with more than one helping at a time. But here’s the thing—even with all that charm, dedication, and sheer effort in the mix, the results haven’t exactly changed much. Sure, it’s enjoyable and exciting, but my body just isn’t playing along the way it used to. If anything, it only adds to the frustration, knowing the mind’s all there, but the engine just won’t fire up like it once did.

     

    Of course, there’s always the pharmaceutical route. But the idea of taking potentially risky meds doesn’t sit well with me. We’ve all seen the lists of side effects, and they’re no joke: headaches, dizziness, stomach issues and other health risks in general. Not exactly the kind of excitement I’m looking to add to my day. And, let’s be real—once you start down that path, is there any going back? I don’t want to be dependent on a prescription just to function normally, let alone to feel more confident.

     

    So here I am, wondering if there’s some magic solution I haven’t stumbled across yet or if I just have to accept this as part of the new normal. It’s humbling, no doubt. And it’s frustrating beyond belief. But I’m also hoping there’s someone out there with some real advice—because, at this point, I’ll take any tips that don’t involve side effects or miracle powders. Hoping there are other people out there with wisdom who are on the same page.

     

    Old post I know, but I am going through this myself.

    56 yr old brit, unusually with a hot 24yr old brit girlfriend -  not that it makes much difference in the "desire" category.  Quite happy to just cuddle up and go to sleep, feeling a bit guilty as I know I would be sha&&ing the t1ts  of it years ago.

     

    And that's what's made me realise something has changed over the years.

    I'm not too shy, so Dr got me an appointment as the local clinic and I'm now on Tadadafil 5mg daily.  Got wood much of the time now, but still not too bothered on the sex part, but it has helped.  Maybe I've got a lot more on my mind, business wise than I did years ago, and sex just isn't quite so important to me, but for the past year I've been in an unusual situation where the girl wants it a lot more than me.  Maybe the pressure doesn't help.  I always remember chasing the sex with a partner, rather than the other way round.

  6. Recently took my UK girlfriend to Samui, long stay at the Ritz there, round Bangkok, even a couple of days in Pattaya.  She absolutely loved it, admittedly, I was like a tour guide, knew the places to take her, but she was in awe of riding round on a scooter without a helmet, the beautiful beaches and exotic food, just so many things different to Europe, although to be fair, she not exactly, well travelled.  She loved the nightlife, all the quality live music places we went to, smiling faces, everyone seemed happy.

    She noted on her return to heathrow, she instinctively smiled at a stranger (despite being a young stunner) and didn't get recipricated.  She knew the difference Thailand made her feel.

    Could probably go on, but this is a quick summary.

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  7. On 12/24/2023 at 3:41 PM, MangoKorat said:

    Not quite correct.  If she is questioned on entry and ANY of the reasons for granting her a visa in the first place have changed, she may be denied entry. The reason would have to be a material change - which in this case I believe it is.  The OP says acted as sponsor on the original application - if he sponsored her financially and now does not, that it is a material change. Also, if the stated purpose of the visit was to visit the sponsor and she is no longer in a relationship with him, that is another material change. The visa application is decided based upon the information given at the time, if that changes it can invalidate the visa.

     

    However in practice, the immigration officer at the port of entry is more likely to simply check that she left on time last time but she is taking a chance each time she enters.

    This is the best answer yet, thankyou for replying

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