kango59

its so strange , the justice in the courts here is fair, to both sides, which does go against the grain, with thai people ime sure, i have been in the same position.

you feel that once your up and commence has started, there wont be justice.

but like mr day, if you keep your faith in the system that deal with the lives of young children, not the hate that suddenly happens between adults, when you split. then its an even contest.

the beauty of those girls , with there father shows ,--- people who deal with these most difficult decisions, do it every day, they have seen and heard most of the wobbly stuff that goes, . and are ready, to determine where the children are better placed.

well done children, you have ended up where you wanted to be. not easy being so young.

i went through the same process peter, its not easy to get pass the first stage, and that is you need the registrar at the amphur to give you permission, to put in the application. to the court.

if the mother agrees like mine did. its such an easy process, but highly respected after. from the court system. child protection unit first. ,as you would expect. answer --question. very respectful people but do there job well.

back to the registrar. -- i tried three times, to get him to give me the written authorisation to enter the court system, as a unmarried father, he would not, i had to get lawyers from bangkok, to come down twice. south 450km, eventually case law , showed him the way forward, and he got it done.

you will need help i feel, its possibly like me , the one you cannot afford to lose, my thoughts get help, and achieve your goal, you cant put a price on that. best wishes.

just look at how nice , clean and well looked after these girls are in there picture posted. dads showed himself to be a good man, bringing them back to see there mum, and willing to keep the girls , thoughts right .

there young impressive, and beautiful, they dont need to be talked about as though either parent has done wrong. really.

ime on the same side of justice , there awarded to him on merit, so she has done wrong, but come on, the way to get these girls back is not to frighten the three of them, into thinking there on the run.

its emotive, its hurting everyone one of them, be sure. mrs day, if your reading these posts, please contact someone and just let them know your all safe. 1st step. ok.

i have the custody of my daughter as well, even though that should be safe, its always a threat. and a concern.

my initial thoughts here are , like any good mother, !! who has agreed to give away there children. like mine did. that they will do this to prove to the kids its not giving them back voluntarily.

for certain the children will be confused, hurt, and feel separation all over again. once returned.

my feelings for the dad are have patience, stay calm, and it will hopefully work out ok. just hope and pray it never happens to me. best wishes.