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  1. 3 hours ago, Tropposurfer said:

    Sheryl as a first stop, and BNH call to check out availability for an initial consult.

     

    I'm in Phuket but not practicing now otherwise I could perhaps help. I would advise not to procrastinate at all and seek a consult as soon as can be arranged ...

    ... Even if your wife changes to another therapist after only 1 consult at least she'll be sitting with a therapist and getting initial care and some relief.

    If you are at all concerned for her safety then take her to BNH as soon as possible.  I also recommend BNH they are a great institution.

    The fee is irrelevant where your wife's wellbeing is concerned, what is imperative is that you take caring and nurturing action without delay.

     

    I would advise watching carefully, monitor her state of mind, take her to places she likes and are calming, happy, and safe, maybe don't let her drive AND NOT ride a bike, if there are dangerous medications about put them in a safe place.

     

    If you have friends of family that aggravate or upset her ask them to stay away for a time.

     

    If you have any weapons in the home remove them, if your wife drinks then talk to her and explain that booze makes sadness much worse, and contract with her that the two of you will make sure she doesn't drink much.

    Let her know you don't judge her or think she is wrong in any way, and that she can talk to you at any time and doesn't need to lock her feelings away to herself.

    Its really important to let her know you see her as ok, that she is ok, and that her feelings matter and are all valid. 

    Tell her 'directly' that you care, that you love her, and together we will move through this sadness.

     

    All the best mate.

    Very helpful advice thanks. What's BNH ?

  2. Hi all. My friends Thai wife is struggling with depression and we are trying to find out if therapists/someone professional to talk to are something that's available here. Not sure where to start looking. Any advice /suggestions would be greatly appreciated...and while I am here RIP Ubon Joe, helped me with so many things for the last 17 years, sleep tight mate, legend.

  3. Hi all.....

     

    I have an appointment for our 3 daughter's UK passports this Friday........

     

    They are asking for copies of their Thai passports, I don't remember doing this before. Shall I declare them or will it affect them?

     

    Only 1 is valid, 1 has expired (if yes, should I still produce this one) and 1 is a baby and doesn't have one yet anyway 

     

    Thanks in advance....

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

  4. Hi

     

    I am on a multiple entry Non-O marriage visa and am now 3 days overstay...my visa is due to expire on 27th June

     

    Usually i'd renew in Laos, but borders are closed and to re-enter I'd need $50k insurance etc anyway and quarantine I assume

     

    Not sure how to play this, any suggestions please. I am married with a child.

     

    Is my only option to pay an agent although I can't show funds in my bank.

     

    Thanks 

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  5. Ok thanks, will avoid it then. Just nosey/curious as to what the town is like but i can imagine its nothing I haven`t seen before. 

     

    I am in Bang Saray nr Pattaya so Baan Pakard it is then, very easy there but odd now. Last time I tried not to use any agent as I never have before but couldn`t even find the office to do it myself. So handed passport over and within 20 mins I was gone and didn`t enter Cambodia myself. Cost about 1000 bht if I remember correctly.

     

    The Myanmar option sounds great.

     

    Thanks Joe

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