Kodan
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Iand the wife came down from Buriram and stayed in the Me Mee Bungalows in January and would stay again. No 'FREE' wifi though. It right across from Mcdonalds ... close to two 7's and has street food at night across the road. 5 min walk to beach.... about $40 a night ... whats not to like?
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Many good posts here.
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Good advice Songh. Hope he reads this.
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Not exactly Oil Pantings need love too. 555. Love in the heart last longer than love in the eye. I bet she will be a good wife. Plus I bet she will not be as bitchy and impatient as some of our Oil Paintings.
Oil Painting........ Love that term.555
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Platinum is $1,680 per oz, while gold is $1,668 per oz. (Source: infomine.com)
Seems like a ring made from either material should have a similar price unless they're counting on people believing platinum is still trading higher than gold (or they're selling you a low carat weight gold alloy). It does trade higher historically, but not so much today.
You may want to relook at platinum if that's what you want.
I am a jeweler and own a shop America. Here is my advice. Buy the rings in BKK. It will be cheaper than buying in US. Even buying online you risk being sold an inferior product by a company trying to advertise a low price.
As to the Platinum vs White gold.... Platinum is close to the same price today but will cost MUCH more than white gold. Why????
1) Platinum is 60% heavier than gold
2) 14kt gold is 58% gold 42% allo. A quality Platinum product is alloyed with 95% Platinum and 5% cobalt.
So to recap you have a higher priced metal which is 60% heavier and a higher % of precious metal per item. This all leads to an exponentially higher price for platinum jewelery.
My advice is to get your white gold in BKK have it Rhodium plated and be happy! Congrats on your marriage!
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Yes TRA flies to Buriram Airport. Keep in mind if you are NOT comfortable in SMALL planes you probably shouldnt do it. If I remember right its a 6 seater Navajo TRA flies. I dont have a prob with it but some do. NOK Air also flies but only twice a week.
If you have never been to Buriram keep in mind that the flights go to the Buriram Airport... not to Buriram City. Its about 30klm to the city and you should arrange for travel to City before you get to airport. buiramexpats.com offer a shuttle if schedule ahead.
Also if you take a taxi from BKK it will be about 5000bt unless you talk him down. Takes about 3 hrs to go by taxi.
Good luck ... Have fun in Buriram. Check out Patty's , Coffee Connection and Bamboo Bar if you want farangs to chat with.
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So what if the land is owned by the wife well before the marriage and the farang builds the house? This looks like a real can of worms that isnt going to work out well for anyone IF the pursue it....this time.
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Thanks for posting your adventure. The first time you are in a new land is always interesting and Im sure we all remember our first time in BKK when we read your story.
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Good story. I always found just going to the 4th floor taxi drop off point saves a lot of time and you can get a metered cab. Basically they can say 800 and drive back to Bkk empty of get a metered fare. The trick is just being firm and walking away as soon as they pull the bullsh*t card. There is also a rail link right into the BTS Phaya Thai<maybe an Asoke stop too> station on the Sukumvit line <Sky train closes at 12am> but you can use it for further reference. Nana is actually located in a decent part of town you just have to travel 3 blocks to see it. Nana is nothing compared to Phuket and Pattaya. If you are still in Bkk there is a nice little canal water taxi that runs most of the length of Patchan Buri road for 14baht it goes up to Bang Kapi and down to the Golden mount. The Jim Thompson Silk house is also located on this waterway. Also understand the entrance to the Grand Palace is on the side and do not engage anyone in that area unless you want to end up with 4 new suits and a bunch of cut glass. The "Canal" tour is BS don't waste the baht when public boat transportation is really cheap. That area has some remarkable things all within a short walk. Wat Po, Golden Mount, Grand Palace, Wat Arun, Wat crazy brass spires that was built for a princess <Name escapes me same area as the Golden mount> Koh San The flower market etc etc.
Yep you can during the day but at 1 .am. there are NO meters. Its 500bt take it or leave it. I argued for the driver to turn on the meter....when he would not I got out and found another taxi.....same story. Even my thai wife couldnt change their minds. But during the day ... yeh just run up to 'departures' and snag a taxi.
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So What happened to Ajay? Start a thread and disappear. Oh well .... who's got the beer?
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Im glad to see you guys liked my post. Actually Im just relieved Im not alone in my experience 555. Bait and switch I tell you ...bait and switch!!
You guys also know that even though we give this info based on experience for the benifit of the neophyte farang.......It generally goes unheaded when some poor fellow is in the arms of an 'angel' .........Then.............. .......then............... .......and back to A vicious cirlce.
Gotta Love Thailand
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You poor bastard what have you done to yourself ? You got all backwards! 5555
Im pretty sure thai women realize how much power they have over us Farangs but we dont like to admit it. We are too comfortable letting them allow us to believe we are really in control.
5555
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You sound like you are relatively new to Thailand so its good that you are seeking the advice of others. I like everyone else here has heard sin sod go for 20k to 300k and in some cases much much more. My wife before we were married was offered 1,000,000 bt for marriage and Ive heard other women now asking for 1m bt which is obsurd. I was lucky she loved me and wasnt just chasing money.
The woman you met sounds nice and I wish you the best what ever you do so I will give you my thoughts for you do with as you please.
A) She doesnt speak english and though you seem like a nice guy to her she really doesnt know you or you her. You understand this but her parents are pushing for a commitment. This clearly demonstrates that this girl is under pressure from the parents to marry you so there will be a farang in the family to take care of everyone. Never believe that YOU are MORE important that her family. She will marry you just to take care of her family. Doesnt mean she wont grow to love you or take care of you but dont under estimate the pressure she is under. On the other hand ... in the past and currently there are many aranged marriages so if a girl gets to choose her husband ... it may not be a bad thing.
If you do become engaged you will want to discuss the sin sod before hand so you will know what you are in for ahead of time. I agree with most here. If you do pay a sin sod it should be around 100k. If there is more to the story such as ex husband, kids, less than stellar past or what ever reason she isnt married you would have negotiating room. Im all for not paying more than you should but keep in mind the more you are willing to give the more proud you wife will be of YOU.
C) Many farang new to Thailand want to marry the quiet, soft spoken, demure, subserviant asian woman they have come to know. Dont fall for this!!! If you think Thai women are quiet, shy, soft spoken etc.....You have never pissed one off!! If you have never seen or felt the turmoil caused by a beautiful 5ft 100lb pissed of wife hell bent on chaos and distruction with YOU in mind........ummmm yehhh ...welcome to Thailand. You will date a kitten and marry a tiger.
D) Dont forget the cultrual differences. She will do things that make no sense to you but make perfect sense to her. There will be times when you have to bite your tongue when staying at her house. Its better to ASK her why she did something and learn about the lifestyle.
1) She will see and REMEMBER EVERYTHING
2) She will judge you based on this
3) Study the language. It will earn you some respect with her family and in her village.
4) If she is truely poor .. she may see you trying to take care of her like nice hotels, restaurants etc as wasting money or not being good with money. However you buying nice things for the family ...completely different
5) Expect a double standard. You can both do the same thing but when she does it ... its different.
6) Always give her your opinion if she ask a question. "Do/Wear whatever you like" will be taken as indifference or lack of caring for her. Always tell her what you think she should do.
All this being said.... Thai women are wonderful creatures that will make you life a joy. My wife is the most wonderful woman I have EVER known. I am a very lucky man. Good luck to you ... take is slow....pay attention and dont let you heart over run your head.
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hope that they have discussed this also with their Cambodian counterparts.
As they have the rule one province=one bordercrossing.
I am sure the discussions on ownership of the obligatory casino there were sorted out months ago.
Dont you know it! This could really change Buriram, especially Prak Khonchai. Would also make more traffic coming thru Meuang Buriram. That all it needs ...more traffic. Maybe passport runs will be easier.
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Any particular food stall or restaurant that you guys know that is outstanding there ? Thanks.
Just across the tracks past the bank is a great little place if you like 'guay dtiaao', they have a cart by the street. Just past that is a restaurant that sells a good 'khao gai'....keep in mind little or no english at the restaurant. Also if you cross the sky walk I think there is some more street food on your first left as you walk away from NV.
The restaurant at NVH is not bad but definately has farang pricing. Also if you want to know about the local nitelife just get to know one of the guys working the lobby. Its amazing what you can find out for 20bt. ;-)
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Ive stayed at Nasa Vegas many times over the last few years. Its a decent hotel but I recomend getting the 1200bt rooms as they are well worth the money. The 800bt rms are a bit dated worn. There is a 7-11 with easy access and a pharmacy a couple blocks away.
1) As to crossing the road .. yes you can do it. There is a stop light right near by that holds up traffic or about 100 meters down the walk is a sky walk over the road.
2)Shopping ... go to Ramkhanhaeng Mall. Cross the sky walk to the same side at the City Line station hail a taxi... about 50bt each way. If you grab a taxi infront of the hotel they will take the long way around and it will be 130bt.
3)Not a lot of local morning fare on the street. If you cross over there are a few places but selection is a little limited. Nasa Vegas does have a restaurant and a breakfast buffet but the buffet is not free.
4) Night life... I think I recall seeing a couple of places on Ramkhanhaeng. Take Ramkhanhaeng under the BTS go about 3-4 blocks.... on your left.
5)Though I have never taken a taxi from Silom or China Town I would expect it to be about 150bt ... how long ....depends on traffic.
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White Gold Wedding Band - Us Or Bkk?
in Bangkok
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Im sure you can find 18K white gold in BKK ... You could start at MBK....Yeh yeh I know MBK but it will give you a starting point. Stay OUT of the Malls to buy from even here in America. Malls have the highest mark up of ANY jewelery store. They are generally in Corner locations in malls hence they are paying for two store fronts....twice the rent for the same location.
Buying in BKK WILL BE CHEAPER. In America there is a lot of markup on the labor to create the product. In BKK you will pay mostly for the gold less for the labor.
Rhodium plating does two things.
A) makes gold look shiny. Gold is shiny anyway and will NOT tarnish like silver. 18k gold is 75% gold and will scratch easier than 14k gold (58.5%). What makes gold look dull are the fine scratches on the surface that dispurse the light reflected.
Rhodium is hard kinda like Chrome. It protects the gold from these scratches so the ring shines like new longer. Downside to Rhodium is that it wears out and has to be re-plated after a couple 3-5 years. Also if the ring is sixzed after its plated the plating must be redone or you will see where it was sized. Rhodium can occasionally bubble from the heat during sizing also.
My advice is to buy 18k Rhodium plated rings in BKK. (Unless of course you plan on buying from ME !! 5555) Make sure you are getting 18k white gold rings plated NOT yellow gold plated with Rhodium.
Also Impulse had some valid points as well. Hope this helps.
Chok Dee!!