Rik325i
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It was the girlfriends car and it was only class 3 insured but there was no other vehicle involved, yeh it finally stopped rolling on its roof !
krisb, that was me asking about tools on another thread over a year ago to build the girlfriends cafe bar, glad to say shes making a nice little profit with it as well as her small restaurant now
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To give you guys a little background info, im 45 and ive been through the marraige grinder in the west, done the scottish lass relationship and that lasted 8 years before going wrong.
Wan is 38, never married, owns and runs her own small restaurant and cafe bar from home where she lives with her parents, who also own land that they farm.
We met originally online 2 years ago as I was trying to find products and sources to help my daughter start her ebay shop, I went over to visit her a few months later where I spent a lot of time photographing leather handbags etc for my daughter and eating at wans restaurant
After watching wan and her helper work round each other for a few days, being a kitchen fitter, I re designed part of her very basic kitchen to make it easier for them to work at the same time and rebuilt her preparation area slightly larger and with shelves to accommodate the amount of ingredients they use, her father being an old carpenter had all the tools I needed to do this and wan bought the materials at a local builders merchants
My second visit was to build her a small cafe bar beside her kitchen in the front of her house to expand her business, again we sat down together and discussed and drew plans up, worked out materials which she then bought and over a period of 3 weeks I built her a cafe bar, as well as having free food and free accomodation the family took me for a long weekends stay at a resort in the mountains where I enjoyed good food, some stunning views of the surrounding countryside and more than a few whiskys with the father and brother in law
All in all apart from the car accident ive enjoyed myself over there, wan and I get on very well together, her parents are very nice people not terribly unbendingly old fashioned or religeous
all of the neighbors are losing their original apprehension and are becoming very open and genuinely friendly towards me now and everyone is eager to help me learn their language and give me small tasters of different foods, fruits etc
But, and I feel I must stress this, right from the start ive made it clear to everyone that im just a normal working class scotsman, im not some rich farang who has money to throw about everywhere
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Thanks for the advice somtamnication, Ive been warned before that that could happen, the things I build for the family are done in the familys garage, well away from prying eyes and the sisters husband is a fairly high ranking policeman while the sister is assistant manageress of a government bank, theyre helping to keep me right in these matters as well as helping me lay the groundwork towards starting my own business there
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The prayer room is in my girlfriends sisters house, she lives with, her husband, daughter and husbands mother and father, the husbands father has collected many buddha statues over the years and has some really old ones, the small shrine they had was just too small to accommodate all of them so we designed one using various ideas from google images which I then built for them, dont have any pics of the prayer room yet though as my camera was destroyed in the crash
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Well thats me just back in not so sunny Scotland after my 3rd visit to my girlfriend and her family in lopburi,
good and bad on this visit, had a lovely time apart from being involved in a car accident, luckily nobody was seriously injured, the car we were in was a complete write off in fact it was a hell of a mess considering the accident occurred at about 70kmh and weve no idea what the hell happened, we assume there must have been oil or hydraulic fluid on the road from diggers digging the ditch we ended up in !
built the sister and brother in law a nice solid wood prayer room while I was there with materials they supplied, had to buy myself a few tools to do the job but got a good discount on them at a local tool shop, had a great laugh with the staff while trying to explain what I was looking for using small drawings and miming actions lol
The family took me to the monastry for the song kran festival which was a wonderfull experience for me, I was honoured to be asked to participate in a ceremony to put the last piece on top of a new monastery roof( the horn shaped piece) and also to be part of the rituals giving monks food and water and watch the rituals concerning the giving of donations from the local community etc
every morning when I walk across the road to help the girlfriend carry her ingredients for the restaurant, there are always a couple of friendly older thais who give me something new to try for breakfast, usually something theyve cooked themselves or I recieve a fruit I havnt tried yet or some such
slowly but surely as I get used to their way of living and they get to know me im starting to fall in love with the place, hopefully im off back out again in 3 or 4 months depending on how work goes between now and then
Rik
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Maybe we could all agree to use the 'Like This' button as a 'Don't Like' button.
We also need an 'Irony' button. It might save us from all these content-free emoticon replies.
Sorry, this is my first content free emoticon reply, just found the comment slightly amusing but had nothing of consequence to add
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Maybe we could all agree to use the 'Like This' button as a 'Don't Like' button.
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A quick easy way to check if honey is pure is to dip a small piece of cloth in it and light it on fire. Genuine honey will burn while that which is mixed with cane syrup will sputter and pop.
That would be an interesting trick to try in tescos !
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When i visit thailand, i consider myself to be a guest of the family i stay with and as such respect their culture.
But i dont consider myself to be a guest of thailand in general
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Started watching this but unfortunately i dont yet speak thai, id love to hear the story from both sides
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Ive read quite a few old posts on tv about opening a business and the pitfalls associated with such an enterprise in thailand, one piece of advice that stuck in my mind was, make one of your business partners a lawyer, paid by you, that way you control 2/3 of the business and not just 1/3
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I remember some 20 odd years ago in Germany, driving back to the firm after delivering furniture all day, drove through massive congestion and past an accident, someone had come off their motorbike on the autobahn slid right under the crash barrier and was laid in the middle of the fast lane on the opposite side, his helmet however didnt fit under the barrier and was still stuck there, with his head in it, still makes me shudder when i remember that !!
Personally i always wear a seatbelt when i drive, its the law here in scotland and nowadays its second nature
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Just be careful Rik325i. The Thais, from what I've read, are like the Balinese, more twists than a snake with a broken back. I have some experience with the Balinese in business, and was more than lucky to escape with my shirt, no financial loss, but didn't get the huge profits that were mine.
I hear you sir, one of the reasons ive decided to give it a shot, producing one off pieces of furniture in scotland and in thailand is so i can keep seperate accounts, i may do limited runs of a number of pieces if the interest is high enough but the ultimate goal is not to open a factory but keep the business with just me and my own ideas, i have no intention of trying to become a millionair, just earn a comfortable living
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As above, is there money to be made in Thailand in the design and manufacture of fibreglass bodykits for cars/pickups etc ?
Come to think of it, is there even a " car scene " such as we know it in the western world ?
The car modifying scene here is huge and big money to be made!!
Interesting, are any members on tv heavily involved in this in any way ? id be interested in talking to them
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Im pretty sure i saw a black and decker version of this in thai wassado while i was looking at routers
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As above, is there money to be made in Thailand in the design and manufacture of fibreglass bodykits for cars/pickups etc ?
Come to think of it, is there even a " car scene " such as we know it in the western world ?
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fibreglass or Siam rosewood?
Something tells me I shouldn't be asking this question.
I will be using solid woods and fibreglass(part upholstered,part spraypainted) together in many of my designs, im not going to go into great detail because i often find it hard to explain the ideas i have in my head in an understandable fashion, also, i tend to have a vague concept in my mind of how i want the finished article to look then sort of modify the design to my liking as im constructing it, similar fashion as i built the bodykit of my car which you can see here if you are interested http://www.cardomain.com/ride/3002876/1990-bmw-3-series/
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I am going to be using Teak and Rosewood for high end stuff, also fibreglass and upholstery techniques normally reserved for custom carsWell, I'll tell you something Rik325i. You've got people talking.
BTW. Richard Branson is quoted as saying he worked on gut feel. If the idea felt good he could turn it into a success.
His business plan was execution. Not the idea.
And without wishing to sound bossy, use some teak and rosewood for the top end stuff.
tgf's papa will thank you for it I think.
good luck.
more coming soon............
Maybe your target market could be outside of Thailand?
Fibreglass and upholstery techniques normally reserved for custom cars are right up the Chinese street.
hmm, another idea, thanks, how to access that market poses even more questions
Im going to build my first piece here in scotland anyway and see how that goes, start with babysteps so to speak
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I envy you. I wish I was that good with my hands, but I am all fingers and thumbs.
Dont envy me mate, i may be good with my hands but im useless at many other things !!
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Well, I'll tell you something Rik325i. You've got people talking.
BTW. Richard Branson is quoted as saying he worked on gut feel. If the idea felt good he could turn it into a success.
His business plan was execution. Not the idea.
And without wishing to sound bossy, use some teak and rosewood for the top end stuff.
tgf's papa will thank you for it I think.
good luck.
I am going to be using Teak and Rosewood for high end stuff, also fibreglass and upholstery techniques normally reserved for custom cars
more coming soon............
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Excellent idea.But i think for now im going to keep the majority of my plans under my hood until ive gathered the relevant information from many other sources rather than blurt out everything on tv and be ripped to pieces by the in crowd for being so naive
I would suggest keeping your overall life situation to yourself, and simply posting specific questions, request for information in the appropriate forum for that topic.
You can basically get all the warnings and advice you need about the risks you're taking by reading the back-threads, without having to defend and justify every aspect of your life to the "community" here.
But its so enjoyable reading the diversity of comments to this thread and whilst i take much of the advice offered, think about it, apply it to my situation and discard what i deem not relevant at the time, i know im going to make mistakes but im going to give this a shot anyway and see where it leads, you only live once after all
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But i think for now im going to keep the majority of my plans under my hood until ive gathered the relevant information from many other sources rather than blurt out everything on tv and be ripped to pieces by the in crowd for being so naive
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planning on starting a business there building western style furniture with the help of my gf and her family, also starting the same thing here in scotland, the plan so far is to split my year between the 2 countries,hopefully spending most of the year in thailand depending on how the business and relationship progress, see how it goes from thereExcellent job!! Are you planning a permanent move to the LOS to be with your thai girlfriend???
I'm sure you won't have to worry in the early stages flying under the radar, but as soon as you've proved the concept will work, make sure to have the capital handy to pay a trusted lawyer to set up a proper company, get you a proper work permit all that.
It's quite possible foreigners aren't even allowed to work in cabinet-making/woodworking/carpentry, in which case you'll need to be "management only" supervising the staff doing all the work wink wink nudge nudge, I've heard bar owners talk about being forbidden from serving, wiping down tables etc.
And of course if you are actually visibly successful, the farther you get from the letter of the law the more likely you are to have problems down the road where you'll need to give a percentage of profits over to the government/police mafia, or on lawyers if you want to try to keep everything on the up and up.
If you threaten a competitor that actually has real clout, then even doing everything right isn't any guarantee of freedom from interference, hiring off-duty cops to commit arson is well within the scope of Thailand's business realities.
So don't invest TOO much of your retirement nest egg into such a scheme, at least then you only have your time and energy to lose if you get wiped out.
And best if your legal/financial structures are set up to protect you from local family and partners, try to find advice and advisors completely independently from the others involved in the operation.
Sorry to be so cynical and pessimistic, perhaps the odds are long that any of these problems could actually arise, but forewarned is forearmed, never imagine things work here the way they're supposed to according to our back-home standards.
Some very good Advice,
Thank you very much for imparting this in such a civilized manner
Just back from my 3rd visit to thailand
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Yoga in ivory towers, class, you just couldnt make this sh...t up lol
While I love it very much out there and the girlfriend and I get along really well, the family is really good to me etc, im still keeping my home in scotland for now im just about to embark on my own furniture building enterprise here and while I dont earn a fortune fitting kitchens at the moment, I enjoy my job and I have steady work which allows me to save for the future.
I did my tally ho, all guns blazing entry into relationships, marraige etc many many years ago, divorce..... been there, read the book and got the t shirt, messy breakup with kids, property, and the family dog, done that too, not in a hurry to repeat it lol
with my girlfriend and thailand im taking my time, im not in a hormone fuelled rush at my age and she understands what ive been through in the past and how I feel and doesnt pressure me in the slightest to get married or anything like that although she did ask me if this is part of my plan for the future
So for now im still looking at the possibility of moving there and settling down from all angles and ill need an up and running business there before I will even consider moving there full time, I just couldnt sit and do nothing all day, it would drive me insane
thanks for all the tips and advice guys and gals, and all the banter too lol
Rik