So, those are appropriate existential concerns for an Ex-Pat male age 74 in SEA. Security-Money, Health, Marital Situation/ Daughter.- Let's be frank; End of Life. Sometimes , there are incurable problems. Please be smart- Consult a Mental Health Professional with an EX-PAT Clientele. You probably need an Anti-Depressant which targets Anxiety. Your problems may not go away but your fixation on them may subside.