Same story happened to me some years ago : first time, the woman totally disappeared, left her job (good job),.., I discovered some years later that she married an american and left thailand, now living there. Second time (another thai woman), I thought my gf had accident too (no news during 5 days).. Finally she was doing a basketball sport tour with her daughter (not even sure.. maybe another kind of sport with someone else).. Story finished bad also one year later, and I lost quite some money on top of it..;
Unfortunately, no news means in this case bad news.. Thai (women) have no courage to face difficult situations.. always prefering to avoid problems than face them.. So, you can be sure at 99% that she does not want to see you anymore... Anything that you will do against this will push you deeper in the hole.. and yes you can lose more : your personal balance, your money, your heart, ,.. many things..
In case you want to be sure, and get the final answer (even if not a good one), you can make the trip to her place : that will make you discover the country.. and people, another way. That will push you to go out from the tourists tracks, to try to speak thai, to try to understand culture and people, and you will discover how thai people can be friendly, helpful and nice too.
But remember that thai women are very smart and gifted for lying, cheating, and using men at their advantage : they have to survive by themselves (no social security, no unemployment subsidies, no pension schèmes, no health coverage,... and often no husband to really take care).. so they will do ANYTHING to survive..
As per yr question about fun in BKK, you will find easily many places.. but be even more careful in those places : women there are more dangerous than sharks to steal you heart.; and yr money. I would recommend the Sukhumwit area : nice hôtels, restaurants, clubs, bars, etc.. and also red light districts like Nana and Soi cowboy if you wish
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Unsure what to do...
in Central Thailand
Posted
@electronicweld
Same story happened to me some years ago : first time, the woman totally disappeared, left her job (good job),.., I discovered some years later that she married an american and left thailand, now living there. Second time (another thai woman), I thought my gf had accident too (no news during 5 days).. Finally she was doing a basketball sport tour with her daughter (not even sure.. maybe another kind of sport with someone else).. Story finished bad also one year later, and I lost quite some money on top of it..;
Unfortunately, no news means in this case bad news.. Thai (women) have no courage to face difficult situations.. always prefering to avoid problems than face them.. So, you can be sure at 99% that she does not want to see you anymore... Anything that you will do against this will push you deeper in the hole.. and yes you can lose more : your personal balance, your money, your heart, ,.. many things..
In case you want to be sure, and get the final answer (even if not a good one), you can make the trip to her place : that will make you discover the country.. and people, another way. That will push you to go out from the tourists tracks, to try to speak thai, to try to understand culture and people, and you will discover how thai people can be friendly, helpful and nice too.
But remember that thai women are very smart and gifted for lying, cheating, and using men at their advantage : they have to survive by themselves (no social security, no unemployment subsidies, no pension schèmes, no health coverage,... and often no husband to really take care).. so they will do ANYTHING to survive..
As per yr question about fun in BKK, you will find easily many places.. but be even more careful in those places : women there are more dangerous than sharks to steal you heart.; and yr money. I would recommend the Sukhumwit area : nice hôtels, restaurants, clubs, bars, etc.. and also red light districts like Nana and Soi cowboy if you wish
Be careful and take care