Hmmm, my comment "That's a rather binary choice: if your child doesn't study online, someone you love will die?" was based exactly on what you said:
"You're entitled to your opinion, but most people were OK with kids having a year of studying online if it meant their mother, father, husband, wife, etc., didn't die."
That seems pretty binary to me. Nothing about reducing chances.
But I do find it pleasantly refreshing that you argue your position in a reasoned and reasonable manner.