nakmuay

I know a few people when im out there but just wondered if there was anyone who uses this forum who manages a place on any of the soi's on sukhumvit?

everythings crossed here! thanks

yes that what i tried to do mark with this thread as the other one was purely to show mine is a genuine case not a windup. the main single question which i cannot answer after trawling various websites is weather or not a thai lady married to farang can travel from thailand to visit her new farang boyfriend... BUT not new as in just met as they have had a near 2 year relationship. I will keep searching . . .

theres 2 topics but the cover different questions one is with regard to settlement and longterm options and one is just any available quick way into the uk. sorry if it seems like spamming but when you have to you do al that you can, know what i mean. thanks

PM me if more specific info. required

Is it possible that my thai girlfriend who i lived with for 2 months in thailand and who lived with me for 17 months in england after she split up with her husband in the uk can visit me in the uk now that her marriage visa has expired and she did not settle with her husband? What visa can be applied for and where and how much do i have to pay and to which company? Thanks

Sorry, to clarify...

(and i will try to use a little puctuation!)

She entered into a "marriage of convenience". Was that in Thailand or UK? I presume it's in the UK.

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The UK guy wants cash for the divorce. On what basis is he demanding money? He was unfaithful, but what happened in the UK.

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just wants some of the oney back he spent travelling back and forth to sort her visa

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She got visitor's visas for a number of trips to the UK, then fiancee's, then marriage (presumably, as you define it as a "proper" visa). After all this you say she is "still unhappy". Does this mean she was unhappy with the man and still got married or was she unhappy with the UK.

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unhappy with the man after the marriage when promises that it would get better if they were married fell through

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Also you indicate that she hasn't been to the UK with you but then say "plus any time she was in the uk she was living with nakmuay and didnt spend a single night without him". Please clarify.

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I must have written that bit wrong she lived with me for 17 months in the uk and i have lived with her for one month then 3 weeks in thailand

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I'm no way an expert on visas but from what you've written and your naivette regarding the visa process would predict your going to have a tough time.

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I realise my naivette regarding visa's etc, but it is not something i had ever came across before, when i have had to fight in other countries all paperwork has been done by my manager and the promoters so i am here to read and learn, im trying my best.

Anyone?

Firstly can i start by saying i cannot be too specific on some points as it will be blatently obvious who mr farang and mrs thai are so pm me or email i think that can be done, im new to forums but i was told by a friend this is the 1 and only place ive got a chance of finding out the info so here goes.

thai girl meets uk man who is 10 years older in 2002 the man visits thailand a few times she gets visitors visas comes to uk and isnt happy so goes back and forth from thai to uk quite a lot and they have a few visitors visas then a fiancee one. eventually convenience marriage takes place end of 2004 so she gets a proper visa but girl is still unhappy and returns to thailand and they break up a few months later, uk man says he will go see her end of that month but is spotted in thailand beforehand with another girl who is identified and admits to sleeping with uk guy. the couple meet to discuss the problem and decide to breakup uk guy goes home.

thai girl goes out to disco meets nakmuay who is 6 months older than thai girl they get on well and spend 6 weeks together, the final 2 on an island where they finally 'got it on' shall we say, nakmuay met the girl in a pay entry disco not a bar can i point that out please nakmuay is not a sex tourist not that there is anything wrong with that but he was in thailand for other reasons at the time nakmuay knew nothing not even what a bar fine was as he hadnt been to those places due to not really being allowed out in thailand lol, no money was ever exchanged between the two at any point, obviously nakmuay paid for everything bar the girl getting taxis to meet him but that happens over here to a certain extent.

nakmuay offers to pay for thai girl flight to uk to come see him for a holiday and books an open ticket so if things dont work out she could return in a matter of days or if they did she could stay for 6 months (duration of ticket) nakmuay is aware thai girl had been to england before but until thai girl had been living with him for a month didnt realise she was married to uk guy, there were no dramatic sob stories, nakmuay was young and knew nothing not even that she needed a visa to come to the uk (i know stupid, hence a nakmuay!) anyhow they get on well and she has no other secrets to reveal thank god and they live together until Jan 2007 when her 2 year visa she got from being married to uk guy ran out. while she was with uk guy she returned to thailand a lot and did relatively little bar find another thai woman to go eat and gossip with. when she was living with nakmuay she started to learn to drive, got a bank account and worked full time for a department store and any money she sent home was her own but was relatively little, she paid for all the food in the house and did the household duties and couple had a pretty much western relationship she chipped in on bills only thing she didnt pay was rent.

nakmuay tries and fails to research visa laws on home office websites, and eventually gets back out to thailnd to stay with her for the whole of march. the couple have now been together and have evidence of being a couple for 20months, uk guy and thai girl have not seen eachother at all in those 20 months. nakmuay and thai girl have contacted uk guy to try and sort out a divorce as they have not seen eachother in over 22 months and could surely divorce easily soon under 2 year desertion as they havent been in the same country for any relationship to have taken place plus any time she was in the uk she was living with nakmuay and didnt spend a single night without him. uk guy wants cash or will drag heels on divorce. From being very stupid and knowing nothing nakmuay began to read books about thai western relationships etc and became wary and started to check up on things make sure the relationship was as good as it seems, several operations recording conversations and having them translated etc and thorough checkups on thai girl proove it to be surprisingly genuine considering all the sob stories nakmuay has recently read about and tales from people who had previously got stung shall we say.

these are the points that need addressing that nakmuay needs help with...

a) if seperated 2 years which is this May can uk guy stop or hold the divorce?

can thai girl get back in to uk to see nakmuay ever and what sort of visa would it be? visitor? they have known eachother and had a relationship for 2 years this july, is it a different visa?

c) is the only way of them being together for nakmuay to move to thailand?

d) what does nakmuay need to provide paperwork wise and who to? meaning does he need to go to thailand to sort it out or can it be filed from england, will thai girl have to have decree absolute?

if you can help or make positive comment please pm or email this isnt on here to get a million posts and views off of micky takers, sorry if its hard to follow or the grammer is poor, not the sharpest tool in the box but getting there.

Thanks in advance

Hey nakmuay,

being a punter since 16, have you ever tried "real" girls?Having endless girls in Thailand means you´re the biggest pimp on pocket-money ?

But surely your "life-experience" enables you for a future with that lovely 22 y´old with irrelevant past.

The good thing is that you can´t loose your own money at that age, only Mom & Dad´s.

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I earn more money in a 15 minute fight than you do in a month. I am no pimp i was just saying out of the 1000000's of gilrs there are, there's penty of good ones

any further details anyone? please

Interested in learning more, i know a little as i have been boxing in thailand many years but i want to learn a lot more.

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There are classes at the Buddhist Temple in Aston Birmingham. I have had 7 lessons so far and find them most helpful. You can have beginners, intermediate or advanced either private, or in a class. There is no charge although they do ask for a donation for the upkeep of the building

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thank you mate, im a fair drive from aston but i think it might be worth the drive

anyone know of any? i want to contact one or someone who knows of them, im told there is a little group in cumbria need to find out about an incident

Interested in learning more, i know a little as i have been boxing in thailand many years but i want to learn a lot more.

if someone could post their email addy i can send these few short 20-30second audio conversations i taped on my mobile phone of someone speaking to their friend, i want to know if im being turned over or not

ive been with endless girls since i 1st went to thailand at 16 years old but this year i met a girl in a nightclub 22years old same as me and she is lovely, her past to me is irrelavent