charlieboy1

1 hour ago, ronaldo0 said:

Wonder if that Liverpool shirt is an original ? ????

he was doing well £2500 a day so it maybe its original. I got a friend with a small warehouse selling that stuff and he would be lucky to take £500 a day

Don,t bother with apple get a G box look it up on the net does twice as much as a apple and half the price. or stream from your laptop desk top from KODI again look it up on the net and its all free once you get the box

I know what your saying in our case but the ukvi still give you a rough set turn around time of I think 12 weeks and yes ours is a bit more involved but way over a year for the first one and then almost 18 months for the second one nothing had change with us from the first visa granted. well I will be interested to know how long karen90 takes she as been waiting 4 months already and yet I have local friends that have done the normal partner route and had a visa back in two months. I know how karen90 feels when you have to put your life on hold for people that you don't know or can not even speak to them. I called ukvi help number twice last week and both times it rang for an hour at my cost and never got to talk to anyone.

6 minutes ago, charlieboy1 said:

hi me and my partner have done the FLR twice and both time,s you won,t believe me it took way over a year the second one took 18 months to get the visa. and try and give them a call see if you can get through to them its a fxxxxxg joke. my partner works in a local school and ask to see her visa now and again although she is still legally in the uk while the visa process is going on trying to explain to her employers why we still have not got a visa to show them after a year of waiting gets hard even with showing them the letter from the ukba stating that she is still ok to work and live in the uk while the visa is processed. we are putting in for ILR in October as the 5 years are up I will see how long that takes. good luck with yours. And don't laugh my daughter in law who lives next door to me works for the ukba but mums the word with her she signed the secrets act

I think the ukba are overloaded with all the people coming over in boats

hi me and my partner have done the FLR twice and both time,s you won,t believe me it took way over a year the second one took 18 months to get the visa. and try and give them a call see if you can get through to them its a fxxxxxg joke. my partner works in a local school and ask to see her visa now and again although she is still legally in the uk while the visa process is going on trying to explain to her employers why we still have not got a visa to show them after a year of waiting gets hard even with showing them the letter from the ukba stating that she is still ok to work and live in the uk while the visa is processed. we are putting in for ILR in October as the 5 years are up I will see how long that takes. good luck with yours

we were told to use SET 0 by the ukba

we have to use set 0 for other reasons not covered by any of the other forms my partner as DLR visa as we have a 8 year old daughter born in the uk. I think the only reason they have let her stay in the country is because we have a daughter. I met her in the uk while she was on a work permit here about 10 years ago

sorry in my other replies I said two 3 year visa's it was two 30 month visa's making it 5 years the set O ILR form is a big form 100 pages but most of it will not apply so your only need to fill in about 20 pages of it. I done the last two visa's my self and as you can tell by my posts that I am not very educated so easy to fill out.

any visa applied for in the uk is within the 28 days of visa ending

1 minute ago, charlieboy1 said:

you can not apply before the 28 days of visa ending and you must apply in between the 28 days I am in the middle of filling out the 100 page ILR form at this moment. if you apply before it will be rejected and your have a job getting your £1875 pounds back. because I am not married to my partner we have had to wait 6 years to apply for the ILR the 2 visa,s we got before were 3 years each on discretionary leave to remain.

where are you uk or the land of smiles

you can not apply before the 28 days of visa ending and you must apply in between the 28 days I am in the middle of filling out the 100 page ILR form at this moment. if you apply before it will be rejected and your have a job getting your £1875 pounds back. because I am not married to my partner we have had to wait 6 years to apply for the ILR the 2 visa,s we got before were 3 years each on discretionary leave to remain.

i think in his case the heading should be is it prevelent amoungst young uk dads that visit Thailand don,t stand by and protect there kids when they have them

Yes, i too would be worried to get Social Services involved. And what that will entail.

But, if the child is in danger. Who would he turn to? There is no where else but Social Services. They have had a lot of bad press recently, but they are the only place a concerned adult or parent can go to. And for all the bad press, they do a good job.

I don't want to read another sad story in the Daily Mail or the Times or any newspaper.

OP, if you feel deep down in your bones that your daughter is in danger. Grab her and run. And then face the consequences.

We have a new little girl in my family. She is only three months old. But she is surrounded by love. A big bubble of pink fluffiness!! And if anyone tried to harm her now or in six years or in twenty. She is protected. I would kill to protect her.

Sorry Chels, your post got in before mine.

Mai Pen Rai, Patsy, I agree with you about Social Services. They do, do a good job under enormous pressure, and current spending cuts. They also only remove a child from the family home as a last resort, and much prefer to work with the family to try and resolve any 'issue' and keep the family unit intact, dependant on the circumstances.

It should be a no brainer for any decent parent to get help if they thought their daughter was being sexually abused, having read Dirty Cash's posts, how long he has had this worry, what has being going on in front of his eyes, his daughter's change ect. My God Dirty Cash, that you still regularly seems to care much more about swanning off to cavort with prostitutes in Pattaya than protect his daughter from potential abuse, whether sexual, physical or mental, is absolutely shamefull, I don't know how you sleep at night, whether with a bar girl or not.

And on this 'mai pen rai' attitude Dirty Cash critises his wife for, then he fails to be the adult and displays it himself. Yes, mai phen rai can be a necessity to survive in a feudal system such as Thailand, but it is not acceptable in the situations like this, and certainly not acceptable by a supposed adult raised in the UK.

I'm sorry if I seem to get a tad emotional about this, but it is something I deal with in my job, and have seen the horrific damage done to innocent children by neglect of people not fit to be a parent, people like Dirty Cash who has had thes concerns for quite a while, yet swans off to Pattaya frequently, and hasn't done anything to protect his innocent daughter except make a thread on an internet forum inbetween going off seeming without a care in leaving his daughter in potential abuse when it suits him.

The protection of the child in paramount, <deleted> But I think Dirty Cash knows that already, he just chooses to do what suits him.

his profile says he is 25 year old so he had his daughter at the age of 19 if he as told the truth about his age sounds to me he has got himself into a right mess divorced 3 kids condos ect, and now he is trying all ways to get out of it. I take it he is paying for your daughters up keep as well.

I don,t think were getting the whole story from this guy I would love to hear his wifes side of it

this man was worrying about putting a condo in his daughter name on here yesterday and getting a hard drive for his films and now its his daughter maybe being abused today. don,t make sense. sort it out will you

Why is it that people blaming the sons its not their fault they are kids as well they should not be left with a child in there care

No offence, I am sure you mean well, however you are applying Western logic to an Eastern problem.

I posted on here before about neighbours having to rescue a 2 and 4 year old walking in the streets at night, husband on the back shift, mother off whoring and gambling, mai pen rai attitude.

no offence taken but that happens in the uk as well being a foster carer for the last 14 years I have seen and heard it all and I have looked after some very badly abused kids

what he said heppened was 2 years ago if you read the post so why is he worrying about it now was the girl 4years old at the time or is she 8years old now???

don,t make sense to me

sorry I miss read post but she must have been 4years old when he see the boy playing with his self.

what he said heppened was 2 years ago if you read the post so why is he worrying about it now was the girl 4years old at the time or is she 8years old now???

don,t make sense to me

Why is it that people blaming the sons its not their fault they are kids as well they should not be left with a child in there care

DO NOT under any circumstances...leave your daughter alone with these two boys...she may have been molested already and does not want to be left alone with them...she is vulnerable and defenseless...you are her only protector,..DO YOUR JOB...

sorry for any mix up, all kids are now living in uk with their mum who is thai , with who i am seperated and living apart soon to be divorced.

i have allways sat down and told my daughter the rules :

1. not to sit with her skirt up,

2. not to go into toilet when a boy or man is in the toilet,

3. not to talk to strangers,

4. never ever to keep a secret ( she can allways trust her daddy or a teacher ) without us blaming her in anyway.

5. if she goes away with mum she has never to be left alone in bed ( her mum goes away regularly to stay with friends )

so she does know and understand the rules. as i say ive bought her a phone to keep with her at all times. her aunt is a police woman and has also told her the rules. i will get her aunt to keep drumming these rules into her . as i also said before when this ladyboy friend of my wifes told me never to let my daughter stay with " thai boy / brothers " that made me really concerned. i told her surely thai boy is the same as any farang boy and her answer was " thai man not good , thai boy is known to do this type of thing with sister because he dont care " also the reason she does never want to be left alone with them, she has grown up with them both in isaan and here in uk since born so why now she doesnt want to stay with them alone, surely this is not normal behaviour ? ive often asked her many times but do not want to push it.

im just asking on here to see if any one else had the same worries , issues.

have you told the aunt the police woman your concerns if so if she is doing her duty I know what she would do without dout

you should ask the school to have a word with her it could turn out to be nothing. but if you say she clams up or looks with drawn then its worth asking the school she may just have other worries young kids are educated about abuse in primary schools. if i ask my seven year old daughter if anything as happened to her she would sure let me know but as well as the school making her aware of rights and wrongs I also talk to her and let her know no one should see or touch her private parts. I am very aware about the abuse going on in the uk they say 3 out of 10 children at school are going through some sort of abuse which is scary. you need to put your mind at rest a mobile phone will not help

I have been a foster carer in the uk for the past 14years and look after teenager kids what you are saying about the 15year old playing with himself sitting next to your 6year old daughter would be very worrying to me I had a similar situation almost word to word of what you said you see on the sofa apart from it was a teenage boy with a 7year old boy. and it turned out that the teenage boy had been abusing the younger lad. you need to sort this setup with your kids or kid out. it may start of harmless experimenting but things will get more serious. its not just a thai thing it happens every where. for gods sake nip it in the bud or your never forgive yourself

the two lads I am talking about were brothers

deport him the &lt;deleted&gt;