AnthonyAlexander

Sorry to say.....But "Naive" is the word that comes to mind.

As you say you have "nothing"....but keep in mind that you're probably not the "only one" she has "connected" with, on the internet. She's playing the "long" game....So far it has cost you nothing and her nothing ....but time.

Just wait....soon her father will be sick, the buffalo died, Uncle in hospital, motor bike broke down etc.....send money to help....$100 (small money but added to the MANY others she has on the hook ....it adds up)

I know you don't want to hear that ...."I'm convinced she's the real thing".....AND how would you know that? You have never met her? How do you know she is NOT a he? Or some ugly pig just playing an internet scam? ....You Don't!....OH yeah, I know ....she sent you photos....but have you ever consider, that's just what it is, a photo ...could be anyone, and probably not her....Could be wrong. Have you Skyped with her....at least talked with her where you can actually see her?

In order to get her to the states ...it's going to cost you a minimum of $2000 (airfare and attempting to get a visa)....Soooo, if you have nothing ....how will you pay? And how do you know she is not playing you and will split once she gets to the US? You don't!

Do yourself a favor and get somebody to take your place at work for at least a week and fly to Thailand and meet her.

Sorry to be so harsh....but what I have indicated above, has a high probability of occuring......Just something to consider

Well I know she's who she says she is and that she IS in FACT a SHE because she sometimes gets a little frisky when we talk on video cam chat, and I've checked the plumbing. She's definitely female. And she's added me to her facebook where she only has close friends and family. And I don't see any flirting going on there except with me. And her family knows about me and comments and likes my comments to her. Highly doubt her family would support this kind of stuff with multiple dudes.

You say....."Highly doubt her family would support this kind of stuff with multiple dudes."

Well that just shows how "naive" you really are....and total lack of understanding of the Thai culture. This is asia....not the USA

lol it can't be that I'm just a stud and she want's me, just cause she's asian? American girls have fallen in love with me plenty...and over the internet as well. Five years ago I flew out a girl I met on a game from Florida to California...left her husband for me and took her daughter here...woulda still worked out but the husband court ordered her to return with the daughter. And I didn't wanna move to Florida...too humid.

lol it can't be that I'm just a stud and she want's me, just cause she's asian? American girls have fallen in love with me plenty...and over the internet as well. Five years ago I flew out a girl I met on a game from Florida to California...left her husband for me and took her daughter here...woulda still worked out but the husband court ordered her to return with the daughter. And I didn't wanna move to Florida...too humid.

Ask her other boyfriends, they'd know the drill.

Heh funny guy. Can't be true that she's monogamous like me? I'm faithful even though I have multiple options and opportunities.

I AM weary of scams and bs artists, but I'm convinced she's the real deal...she KNOWS I don't have much money. And keeps harassing me to come out there...if she had I'll intent...what's she gonna get? I've got nothing significant to steal. She's just into white guys. Said Thai guys don't do it for her.

Sorry to say.....But "Naive" is the word that comes to mind.

As you say you have "nothing"....but keep in mind that you're probably not the "only one" she has "connected" with, on the internet. She's playing the "long" game....So far it has cost you nothing and her nothing ....but time.

Just wait....soon her father will be sick, the buffalo died, Uncle in hospital, motor bike broke down etc.....send money to help....$100 (small money but added to the MANY others she has on the hook ....it adds up)

I know you don't want to hear that ...."I'm convinced she's the real thing".....AND how would you know that? You have never met her? How do you know she is NOT a he? Or some ugly pig just playing an internet scam? ....You Don't!....OH yeah, I know ....she sent you photos....but have you ever consider, that's just what it is, a photo ...could be anyone, and probably not her....Could be wrong. Have you Skyped with her....at least talked with her where you can actually see her?

In order to get her to the states ...it's going to cost you a minimum of $2000 (airfare and attempting to get a visa)....Soooo, if you have nothing ....how will you pay? And how do you know she is not playing you and will split once she gets to the US? You don't!

Do yourself a favor and get somebody to take your place at work for at least a week and fly to Thailand and meet her.

Sorry to be so harsh....but what I have indicated above, has a high probability of occuring......Just something to consider

Well I know she's who she says she is and that she IS in FACT a SHE because she sometimes gets a little frisky when we talk on video cam chat, and I've checked the plumbing. She's definitely female. And she's added me to her facebook where she only has close friends and family. And I don't see any flirting going on there except with me. And her family knows about me and comments and likes my comments to her. Highly doubt her family would support this kind of stuff with multiple dudes.

I AM weary of scams and bs artists, but I'm convinced she's the real deal...she KNOWS I don't have much money. And keeps harassing me to come out there...if she had I'll intent...what's she gonna get? I've got nothing significant to steal. She's just into white guys. Said Thai guys don't do it for her.

OP ....have reread your post.....it is VAGUE.

If I have this right....

You are young, have met a young Thai lady on the internet and have fallen in love with her. You now wish for her to come and live with you in the states. ...Does that sound about right?

First off...be VERY wary of Thai women you meet on the Internet...Not all are what they seem to be.

Second....you have NEVER met her in person yet! and you want to bring her to the States already? best she get a tourist visa and visit you (she will ask you for the airfare and don't be surprised if she doesn't show up... ) ...or even better, you come to Thailand and meet her (but I realize you can't ....job won't allow it.....WHAT? no vacation time )

Third....read Thai Visa posts about marrying a Thai women, scams, ripoffs etc.

Lastly ....if after everthing I said and you've read many of the Thai Visa posts AND you STILL want to bring her to the states ...you should look into a fiance visa

Yeah. I'm the caretaker for this rich old Italian guys mansion in the mountains. If I was to leave for an extended period, nature would take over.

Haha thank you. Ok I'll give it a read.

Sure, ask away.

Well that's unfortunate. I don't anticipate being able to fly there to marry first for a looooong time. Just got a new job. So they don't advocate people meeting online? Yes she has a job and a daughter...but I don't think she's planning on going back. More like sending for her daughter to join us. So the U.S. can help us? How do I contact them. Thank you very much for your insight.

I met a lovely Thai girl on Thaifriendly.com about six months ago, we've grown quite close and want to be together...however she's saying she can't get a Visa to come here. She seems to be able to go to England with her Aunt with no problem...but says the U.S. won't allow her to have a travel visa. I know she's not using me, she knows I'm not wealthy, and she doesn't know anyone else here in the states. She want's to come stay with my in my mountain home, far from the city. She keeps insisting that I go there, but I hear it's hard for white guys to find work there. Plus my job wont allow me to leave for more than a couple days. What's the best way to get her here? Any help would be GREATLY appreciated.

I met a lovely Thai girl on Thaifriendly.com about six months ago, we've grown quite close and want to be together...however she's saying she can't get a Visa to come here. She seems to be able to go to England with her Aunt with no problem...but says the U.S. won't allow her to have a travel visa. I know she's not using me, she knows I'm not wealthy, and she doesn't know anyone else here in the states. She want's to come stay with my in my mountain home, far from the city. She keeps insisting that I go there, but I hear it's hard for white guys to find work there. Plus my job wont allow me to leave for more than a couple days. What's the best way to get her here? Any help would be GREATLY appreciated.