- Popular Post

cyberfarang
-
Posts
5,030 -
Joined
-
Last visited
Content Type
Events
Forums
Downloads
Quizzes
Gallery
Blogs
Posts posted by cyberfarang
-
-
The penalty for Muslims, disobeying the rules or wanting out of that religion is death in the most brutal fashions possible or what they consider are honour killings. These people are fanatics and believe this is allah`s will, especially strict towards females.
If or once this girl obtains asylum somewhere, the floodgates will be open and can expect thousands or even millions more to follow.
-
Sorry, but this is total mind-boggling confusion.
If this was not confusing then there wouldn`t be so many posters asking questions.
I have always and still do use the 800000 baht in a Thai bank yearly retirement extension method from my savings in a Thai bank here in Thailand. As for my living expenses I bring over money from aboard paid into my Thai bank joint account with my wife, if and when I need it. I`ve never been asked by immigration to show anything other than the 800000 baht in my Thai savings account that I don`t touch.
So now do these amendments mean this is no longer possible and have to show 65000 baht going into my Thai account from abroad each month to total 800000 baht at time of application?
Sometime this week I will visit my agent and ask if they could give me some clarification.
-
1
-
1
-
-
1 hour ago, TunnelRat69 said:
Next Post from the ????mikehongpark:
- Help!! my Fiancee tell me she is PREGNANT after I cancelled her Green Card. What shall I do??.
Follow up Post from him will be:
- Help!! Ex-Fiancee told me she will kill herself because I cancelled her Green card. She says she has lost face.
- this could turn into a Thai Visa Forum epic Trolly poster.
Sorry Mike, I don't buy it over 40 years in SE Asia, and no one is that dumb, especially us that have been around the block a time or two - First you not married, then you are married - irst she is working, now she is not, got fired visiting you in EUR, but hey - Have fun while it lasts.
Just remember, in case there is an inkling of truth to all this ?? sponsoring someone applying for a green card under false pretenses is a Federal offense. Don't even consider making any deals with her over the divorce. If in fact you actually got "married".
I personally know a wealthy restaurant owner Frenchman that cancelled his wedding under same auspices, he was sued by the family for 'character defamation' by accusing his 'bride to be' of cheating on him..........cost him 10 Million Baht.
So maybe that will be your next post?? "I am being sued by my ex-fiancee's family for cancelling the wedding."
Ah come on, if not for stories this, even though it`s probably a load of BS, there would be sad old has-beens like me sitting here in front of our computers reminiscing about our lives and remembering the last time we were french kissed by a girl back in 1974 and thinking how dull and boring life has turned out for us, drinking coffee, smoking and nothing else to do but go to bed at 9.00pm.
I mean, at least these sob stories regarding others relationships and sex lives do give us some entertainment.
-
1
-
-
I`ve been reading many such stories about cheating women and there some good shows on YouTube where cheating girlfriends and wives get caught in the act and slut-shamed on national TV and in court. Guys that have been in a relationship or married to women for several years take DNA tests and discover their child or children are not theirs, or that their wives have had a secret lover for many years and the husband has been totally oblivious to what`s been going on. On 1 show one guy`s wife had a secret occupation as an escort, telling her husband she was working in an office at a call centre at night. He discovered her real activities after 2 years and still decided to stay with her.
But what I fail to understand is what attracts and why guys fall in love with these types of women? Guys that have discovered their girlfriends or wives have been unfaithful and deceiving them, yet still desperate to continue on their relationships with these women.
Why is it that there are many guys that allow themselves to be treated like crap? It is because these men are insecure, weak of character and a wife or girlfriend becomes some sort of substitute mother?
As I said in a previous post, if a wife or girlfriend cheated on me, as far as I`m concerned she`s spent, no matter how long we`ve been together. Sorry to say; but when guys discover their female partners don`t really love and respect them, then try to cling on to those relationships at all costs, I have no respect for whatsoever. I`ve always made it crystal clear to my wife since the time we were first married that if I ever caught her cheating, she`d be out the door within minutes and I`d be straight in to see my lawyer the following day, including stopping all my financial support for her and even changing the locks on my door with all her belonging being thrown outside the gate.
My point being guys that are not able to demand respect but instead cry like pussies and ask; my wife is cheating on me, what should I do? Are absolute wimps and their female partners will continue to disrespect them, a sort of, up yours jerk, what are you going to do about it I simply don`t care, because you`re a pussy not a man.
People only get treated the ways they let themselves get treated, the law of the jungle.
-
1
-
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
As far as I`m concerned if a girlfriend or wife cheats, then she`s spent. The opposite of Star Trek, I don`t want to go where several other guys have boldly been before.
If these cheating women are having unprotected sex with guys, and I`ve no doubts that if what they consider is an affair with a lover or lovers are not using protection, they are placing their husbands or boyfriends at great risk of passing on STDs, HIV and aids.
If I was in that situation, I`d definitely get myself tested.
If guys are willing to continue on with cheating wives or girlfriends, then they may just as well go with prostitutes because the risks of catching sexual diseases are almost the same. This is why cheaters are so bad, besides the infidelity and emotional trauma they create.
-
3
-
Women who have cheated before are 3.5 times more likely to do it again, in comparison to those people who haven’t cheated.
https://www.thetalko.com/16-statistics-that-prove-why-women-cheat-more-than-men/
-
Watch, listen and learn from others bad judgments and mistakes.
-
I think this thread should be renamed; Confessions of the Cheated Husbands Scandals, and made a permanent fixture on TV.
Much more entertaining than watching those Thai TV soap operas with the wife.
As for the OP, I somehow doubt he will kick his cheating wife to the kerb, but it`s not going to end well for him no matter how hard he tries to keep her loyal. He will just be putting off the inevitable divorce, not if but when.
-
1
-
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
5 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:Okay. I let her go. Thanks all. I followed my head and not my heart or dreams in my head.
Need to call my friends and family tomorrow morning.
I am sincerely sorry for you, mainly because I can relate to your experience. After 7 years of marriage, a house and a child together, discovered my English wife, we were both in our 20s at the time, was cheating on me. F/ing guys in our home, in our bed, while I was at work. I did not discover this until after the divorce and of course those were the days before the internet. She eventually left me for one of her lovers.
Having a child together, the courts placed everything in her favour and I ended up in lodgings while she moved her lover into what used to be our home. Luckily we were living in a local authority house and at least I didn`t have a property to lose into the bargain. Women lie and cheat, it`s not just a Thai female thing.
When this happens it feels like being stabbed in the heart with a knife and in some cases divorce can be emotionally more traumatic than grief after someone close dies. So I`m not going to try and give you easy solutions and words of wisdom, because the reality is, it`s a shit deal.
But later I met a wonderful Thai lady, had children with her and we`ve been happily married for 35 years.
You`re still relatively young and have time to start again, only next time, like me, you have experience and won`t make the same mistakes again.
But I do advise that you aim for someone a bit older, mid 30s to early 40s. Still desirable but much more mentally mature.
-
1
-
2
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
How many more threads do you intend posting on this subject? Only last time you did not mention you`re married to her already.
You were told by several of us who got our Thai wives to help with the translation after posting a copy of the chat text that your Thai wife was cheating. I told you that on reading the chats with my wife, that your wife was having sex talk with that guy, they declared their love for each other and she hinted that after she gets your money, she`ll leave you. Some people have accused her of being a slut for doing this, it`s all in the chat text.
She`s a cheat and is still cheating on you now. She has a boyfriend or more guys on the go, who knows? So you either want to accept this or not.
Be careful, if you are officially married to her and have assets in your own country, she may try and lay some claim to them as your spouse. Get a lawyer and be shot of this woman a.s.a.p.
-
4
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
12 minutes ago, colinneil said:Why would i have a problem?
I have 800.000 baht in the bank for my annual extension.
I have never used the income method for my annual extension.
When some embassies stopped issuing income confirmation letters, there were posters on some of these threads that said; they will use an agency to borrow the money or borrow from somewhere else to obtain their annual extensions. Then I said; this could have a knock-on effect of immigration demanding to see proof of where the money is coming from.
So in fact this could mean immigration will cease the lump sum in a Thai bank option and insist on monies being brought over monthly from credible sources.
Hope this is not the case, because I doubt many retirees receive the amount of 65000 baht per month, especially now with the strong baht and weak foreign currencies.
I do hate these rotten vague reports that become a guessing game of what`s going to happen next.
-
4
-
Sorry to say, but this is definitely criminal theft using fraudulent methods and it appears the police are showing lack of interest in your case although it is their duty to investigate and bring this man to book. No way is this a civil matter.
If you are no longer in Thailand it is going to be difficult bringing charges against this guy. Hiring a Thai lawyer would certainly help make the police get off their asses and arrest the guy, but this really should have been done while you were in Thailand.
You could still go ahead and hire a lawyer to file criminal charges, but this does not guarantee you will receive your money back or be able to claim back your legal fees.
I would never, ever do business dealings with anyone from facebook, especially sending money up front.
It`s a lesson learned and appears at this stage all you can do is put it down to experience.
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
The majority of British people voted to leave the EU. But this goes against the grain of big business interests, British businesses that have high stakes in Europe and European businesses that have big investments in the UK.
They will try to postpone or stop Britain leaving the EU at all costs.
It is well known that government policies are subjected to the interests of big business and this is why Brexit has turned into a farce and a complete mess because there are spanners being deliberately thrown into the works.
Theresa May is something like a piggy caught in the middle. On one hand she has to appease the voters and on the other hand she has to try to work with the big businesses considering that many MPs are a major part of these businesses and their shareholders.
This proves that government leaders are not there to run a country in the best interests of a nation, but are strictly in it for themselves and why when I lived in Britain, I did not vote.
What will happen next is anyone`s guess. Who will win out? Those who voted for Brexit or big business and as for the foreseeable future of sterling, it`s looking grim.
-
3
-
44 minutes ago, BritManToo said:
My 20 year old (step) daughter does 'man keow' to me all the time, so I can't agree that's 'sex talk'
More like rough play and includes pinch/punch/bite/hair pulls.
As I said previous, my wife and I have no intentions of sitting in front of my computer for hours and translating all this crap. What I have posted is only a very small part of the chat log.
Done some checking, a lot of this is very vague, the guy looks very young, no more words from the OP and I am now having serious doubts about this story. I thank the OP for some good evening`s entertainment, anyway.
-
On the photo of the guy on the chat log, I downloaded it onto my computer, enlarged the photo and that guy is very young, late 20s, early 30s the most. This means the OPs girlfriend must also be very young if she`s having it off with him.
The OP has mentioned he`s on a pension so his GF must be decades younger than him. There lies the problem. Definity no future for that relationship, end of story.
-
2
-
-
Don`t know why but for some reason I believe the song thaew driver`s version of events.
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
Girl:
รักนะ OK Love?
Guy:
Love you, yes.
รักครับ
Girl:
กัดบี้ไง I want to bite you
หมันเขี้ยว
Guy:
กัดๆ Bite, bite bite.
มาๆ Come, come, come.
A part of the chat: Translated by my wife. Lots of sex talk but my wife and I don`t have time to sit here all day translating this.
To the OP, your girl is screwing you over.
-
3
-
1
-
3 hours ago, cyril sneer said:
this is handy if you want some revenge op
post screenshots of the conversation on her timeline
change her marital status to single
change her profile photo to a buffalo
The worst advice anyone can give.
Thailand has strict defamation laws, and publicly shaming someone that can cause damage to reputations, whether true or not can lead to long prison time, also taking into consideration the GF has not broken any laws.
Every which way the OP is backing a loser and if the crap hits the fan all he can do is write off his losses and put it down to experience.
-
1
-
1
-
-
11 minutes ago, BritManToo said:
I'd agree, conversation seemed to suggest the guy knows mom.
Right. Have the parents had any major house renovations done lately? Has papa suddenly acquired a new pickup?
Bet they have and that would be by courtesy of the OP. Happened to an Australian friend of mine.
-
2
-
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
15 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:Thanks for the advice. That is what I am planning. But I think that her parents need to know the reason why as well as I have developed quite a good relationship with her parents.
I would wager that her parents are in with this as well, don`t trust any of them.
-
11
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
2 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:Thank you. I'm gonna have a hard time trusting women for awhile. It never pays to be a good person in life, I guess.
Considering you have invested so much time and money into this relationship already, and may be planning to invest a lot more resources into this relationship, if this were me I would not say anything about this to your GF at the moment and pay to have that text chat professionally translated because it does contain many Thai slang words that my wife knows what they mean but will not translate in Google because it`s slang. Only a native Thai speaker would know the meanings. But I can tell you none of it`s good.
Whatever it costs for a translation could save you a lot more expense, both emotionally and financially in the future. Then once you have the undisputed evidence you can confront your GF with it demanding an explanation, after that it`s your decision how you deal with it.
-
3
-
Slut
เป็นเหี้ยไร
ไม่รับอะ
รับดิ
มึงต้องการเเบบนี้ใช่มั้ยShe says; some people have been accusing her of acting like a slut, probably meaning going with a Farang and asking; does she really need to be doing this?
We assume it`s about money.
-
- Popular Post
- Popular Post
25 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:Thanks for all the replies. It's just hard to just let go without being sure as I have vested around $100K into this relationship in the last 4 years. Also, I have put down payments for the banquet hall, dress rentals, photographer, backdrop, hotel, and etc.... Yeah, I know that I'm a dumbass for not checking up on her sooner. Waste of 4 years and a broken heart and things like this make a person numb to emotions and will be hard to trust another person, at least for awhile. Need to learn that trust is earned, not given.
Are you ready for the truth? If so sit down and brace yourself.
Just been over the Thai script briefly with my wife.
Basically, the guy says he loves her, your girl is saying sex talk with him and towards the end she says; once she`s got the money she`ll run away and leave, assuming the money part is from you.
Good luck.
-
11
-
6
Shampoo rip off
in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
Posted
I agree with you. Regardless of the price, a rip off is a rip off and it`s the principle, not just the price.
We get screwed over by these cheating companies every day and it`s good that people bring these types of cons to our and the publics attention.