Bucknaway

On my last trip to Thailand... I think it was my 4th or 5th visit.... Many Thai shared with me their feelings on "Farang" More than one guy told me that becasue most Farang think that their money make them better and the boss, he makes him pay the most.

I think they all complained that when it came time to service, they were treated 2nd to visitors and their money. When it came to dating, the best looking guys, they could not have because they want "Farang Money".

True I am an American Black Man.... A very proud American I might add.... But none considered me to be a part or party to those farang who are my brothers in blood, land and country.

On this trip, not once did I have to pay, tip or give "Cab Fare" to anyone I had sex with or spent time with. Even the guys I met at DJ station and Babylon invited me to dinner or drinks and paid for it while refusing my willingness to pay.

I also met a guy from Bali that told me about the problems and raceism a non-thai asian faces when working and living in Thailand, but that should be in a different post.

Anway................

I am interested in the thoughts of others.......

Have you ever tried to see things thru the eyes of a Thai?

Thanks for the information.

I am only a visitor to Thailand, so I have only a little time to enjoy the minutes, hours and days there. And yes it is true that many straight guys allow you to think they are gay in the hope of receiving money for their service. This does not bother me because my stay is short and I don't need their body and soul, just the body is ok for me

hi gay TV membs...

tonight i went out@ laung saun with my gay mate ..he took me the pub called "the room"

i met plenty Thai gay guys(90%) they look really cute make me drooling but its not my place 4 sure ..and bloody sure ,they're not a ho man ..

so if u guys wanna see decent gay men ..just go there

ps...its not a good place 4 me.. but for u guys .. its the best place

ciao

The only books I have read were "The Men of Thailand" and that was to get an idea of what I would be getting into when I came for holiday and it was very helpful.

One night I went to a sauna in Chinatown. I forgot the name of the place. It is in Supa Plaza and you must take a lift to the 7th floor to get to the desk.

There were many of the older, not so slim guys you describe in your post and they were doing very well. One older big guy was layed back in the TV room and I seen a young and attractive guy come to him, lay on him in a cuddling fashion for a few minutes then the guy got up and after a few minutes another cute guy came to him and they played and kissed and the younger guy tried to pull him from his seat but he would not go.

I think the older guys simply have a difficult time with visitors simply because visitors want youth but they have little problem with other Thai who are not in search of holiday travelers.

Everyone seems to go after young,cuttie,slim Thai boys.YOUNG is the key-word.What's going on with Thai gay males who are no longer in the standart?I mean in his 40's,gotten fat,fading smile,tired of life...

Do they find real love?Or Do they have to work their butt off to pay for a young cutie BF(vicous circle here it comes again).

I'm just curious about this question.It's easy for fading beauties from West moving out to find DESIRE.But what about Thai fading beauties?

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He was serious. Later he tried to scam me on a taxi to the airport. Wanted me to pay the driver 400 baht.

I think he was simply trying to get every cent he could. But I do not think he is at that hotel any longer. I did not see him there when I was there last.

Maybe he was just kidding???Did he say it while smiling to me?

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I remember that on my 2nd trip to Thailand, I followed the bellboy to my room and once there I was looking in my wallet for a tip. He then told me. "500 bht good tip for me Sir" and I only chuckled and smiled to myself. I continued to search for a 50 baht note or 2 20 notes and he then said. 100 bht ok for me. He smiled at me when I gave him 50. HE then asked me how many times I come to Thailand and I told him it was my 2nd time hahahaha

How much do you tip the hotel staff in Thailand and how do you do it?

On my last visit, I have been placing a 20 baht note on my used folded towels left on the floor.

When I am taken to the room by hotel staff, I have tipped them 40 to 50 baht. If they must carry my heavy bags then I go as high as 100 baht.

I don't tip the guys at the door when they open and close a taxi door for me.

Am I in the ballpark for tips?

That 2 months will go by very fast.... I just finished my month in Thailand and I did not get done a lot of the things I wanted to do.

There are many places I did not get to see that were high on my list of things to see.

I wanted to visit Chakran Sauna.... I didn't get to do it.

I wanted to go to Lumpini Park..... I didin't get to do it.

I wanted to visit the Palace..... I didn't see it.

All I did was meet people and have sex

Au contraire; fun is allowed.  "LOS" supposedly stands for "Land of Smiles," but "Land of Sanuk" is true, too.

Now, go stand on your head in the corner, and say fifty times, "Thailand is fun."

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Oh i have the biggest smile (with 2 months holidays who wouldn't) I was not a where that i had to follow strict posting procedures.

However only 5 days to go and i will be drinking Singha beer

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Thanks Ijustwannateach

I just got back from Thailand so the countdown starts all over for me. 10 months and counting

The count down is on 12 more days and i'm on my way to thailand. Really looking forward to having a good time. Getting around and seeing lots of things, eating and party a lot.

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