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23 hours ago, maoro2013 said:

My wife is 27 years younger. We have been happily married for over 9 years. No problems.

 

Everyone to their own.

 

A previous poster has it right, their are many things more important than age, for example, the family you marry into.

my ex was just a couple of months short, of 20-years-younger than me.

we lasted 14 years, mostly pretty happy too. we negotiated our relationship when she was 19, and I was 38... and yes 'negotiated' is the perfect word...  unlike nearly everyone else, we each declared desires and expectations clearly and we promised what would be given and received, in regards to finances, decision authority, and especially sexuality ( constant negotiating for sex is a dating game, not a marriage game )... 

 

 the previous relationship was 11 years younger, prior to that 6 years younger, first relationship was 2 years younger.

 

"I keep getting older and

they stay the same age,

yes they do." lol ...

 

my first relationship was the only one entered into without clear and detailed negotiating. it was also the most disastrous.

- my direct, and first hand knowledge over the 40ish years as an adult, has taught me this, a 19 and a 40 year old female are both gonna do female things... it's just that the older ones are more clever and harder to catch at it.

so, in that regard, go for younger. so far I'm 57, and the oldest woman I've been in bed with was 32. so far. and my experience was older ones are better at sneaking, harder to catch.

On Saturday, January 14, 2017 at 9:46 AM, Kasset Tak said:

I wear a necklace with Thai amulets every day but I usually use stainless steel chains or paracord and plastic casings for my amulets as this is basically SAFE!

I know that many foreigners just want to showoff with gold and don't believe/think about the amulets and that's when you put yourself at risk, because if you have an original Somdet Warakan (same type of amulet as the man show) then we are talking about an amulet that's valued to the ball park of 2-15 million Baht.

I don't have any very expensive amulets and still my everyday paracord necklace with 5 amulets is valued to over 60,000 Baht just for the amulets!  

wait, guy with $ 2,000 necklace is  chastising a guy with a far cheaper necklace ?   lol....

his major mistake was going somewhere with her where he had to display his ID and be listed in an occupancy log book.

   if he would have done her in the bar bathroom, an elevator, or a building roof, his identity would have never been known.

14 hours ago, khunpa said:

Do you really truly believe that if money was not the only issue,  then young girls would be interested in these older men at all???

 

 

   you got it all figured out... these young

women only want older men's money,

and they 'don't' want younger men's  $.

 

and when a young man's money runs

low they still loyally stay with him. but,

when an older man's money runs low,

they leave... ok... got it now... 

 

maybe if younger men could figure out

how to have more money,  there would

be way less only-interested-in-money

young women for you younger guys... lol.

 

oh wait, when they are with you young

guys, it's 'not for money' ... but when

they shun you for us older guys $$$ .

then they are only with us for money ?

 

are we talking about the same females ?

they both, don't want, / and do want, money at the same time ? based on the

 age of their male companion ?

 is that what you're saying ?

 

 if it is,  you might want to check the

 deluded content of yourself a little...

 they are with younger guys for exactly

the same reason they are with older

guys... RESOURCES ...  us older guys

just have more of it.  too bad so sad.

plain and simple...

 

 that's what motivates women. $$$ ...

 reproduce, gather resources for

 shelter and recreation... all paid for

with money. and I'm not so certain us

more experienced 50+ guys are as naive

as you need to believe we are, about

why women put out... we know. so what.

 

 try reducing your young financial $$

 flow to the Thai females in your life,

and see how forgiving your girl is

 because of your lower age...

if she gives me a call, I'll let you know.

 

wasn't this story already followed up on describing the girl as a lier ?

 

 

rgraham wrote "good riddance, move on"

Is that good riddance to the cops or the shooter?

For the gun worshipping Americans, an opportunity to drool over the hardware.

Hopefully it was the shooter.

Let's make it good riddance to military grade weapons in a civilian community.

When will enough be enough.

Time to wake up USA!

as I recall, it's not legal to buy military style rifles in Paris...

unless you are a criminal buying

then from other criminals... but

we all know that never happens.

It's sad when people can't hold a permitted rally to express their political views without being set upon by a violent mob.

Not sad when it's Neo-Nazi's and Klu klux Klan. Their political views deserve an ass-whoopin.

so, freedom of speech is awesome, as long as the speech is agreeable to you ? ...

that's the way you sound,,, and if the way you sound, is the way you think,,, I'm pretty certain you don't understand the definition of "freedom of speech" ...

you see the founding fathers didn't create the "freedom of speech" provisions to make you comfortable,,, but to actually create freedom of speech, which unfortunately for the likes of you, includes speech you may not agree with.

if they are both getting what they want from each other... what's the problem ?

https://youtu.be/tSmaDPw6U5A

If I have any regret, it is that I did not meet her years ago.

I regret my wife being so much younger than me. Over the seven years of being married we have grown very close and we have developed a genuine love for each other, now I have to content with the fact that I will die before her ,leaving her along.

It is a thought that when it occurs gives me a fair amount of stress. I know it is an unhealthy, morbid thought, and that I need to put it in proper perspective, but as of yet I have not learn to deal with it.

have you ever checked the life span differences between men and women ?

females will typically outlive men

by 10 -to- 20 years sometimes... that

means if you want to be with a woman

that will have a similar amount of

remaining years as you... she should

be a minimum of 10 years older. and

about up to about 16 years older...

that means us mid 50's guys need to

have a woman about 68... hmmm...

my last long term relationship was

19 years younger than me. she lied and

cheated... previous one was nearly my

same age, lied and cheated... I'd rather

have a long term business relationship

with a younger woman with no intention

of marrying or living together...

wait a minute... the people 'breaking the law' by buying and possessing illegal drugs are complaining about how they get punished ? I'd like to suggest...

SIMPLY STOP breaking the law ,,, duh ?

wait a minute...

you would physically assault a stranger

in a restaurant whom you suspected was

watching and judging you unfavorably

and 'he' is the bad guy ????

When I go to a restaurant I worry about what I am going to eat and drink. I couldn't give a damn what the person on the next table is eating or whether they eat it all or not.

I would be much more likely to slap someone who is watching what and how much I eat.

Is it your culture to be such a nosey person ? or are you just some busy body who cant help himself ?