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The overall saltiness in this thread is pretty much what I expected. I don't blame people for calling bullshit...why do you think I'm here trying to brainstorm reasons why this situation can't be as good as it seems on the surface? I can't even believe it myself, it's too good (in certain ways) to be true.

Thank you to the people who offered sincere or even half-sincere advice. I think for now I'll just enjoy the ride on this one. I'll continue to keep my eyes open and report back here if anything comes up. That is, if anyone cares.

So dad could be a corrupt military man with a motza yet makes his wife work at a food stall while unloading all his spare dosh on his daughter who doesn't work and could maybe be hiso except for the tramp stamps and swearing like a sailor.

Troll, troll, troll your boat gently down the stream. Merrily merrily merrily life is but a dream.

Actually not trolling at all. My main question is based on whether its possible for someone in the Thai military to make 180k+ a month (and if it is, should I be afraid of someone who is pulling in that much?).

I don't expect anyone to believe my story buts its true. Being in your twenties, white, in shape, with decent looks and a well put together profile got me about 20+ new messages a day (more if I was online for long periods of time) on TF. From there I just replied to women that seemed to have similar interests as me, were attractive, spoke decent English (over chat), and tried to get them to meet up with me. She was one of the few that agreed to meet one-on-one. I didn't take part in the nightlife scene, but it's pretty obvious which girls online are bargirls or gold-diggers ("Looking for a good man to take care of me...."I'm not bargirl. I'm good girl. Want nice man not bad man"...desired age limit set to "Any" or upper limit of 45+ when they are only in their 20s).

The financial aspect is nice but I still have to deal with truly psychotic levels of jealousy, blatant and unapologetic materialism, and the equivalent emotional stability and neediness of a 16 year old girl. I don't think an older, more experienced man could tolerate it for more than a few weeks, even taking the sex and financial situation into account.

My girlfriend (28), who I met in Bangkok, enjoys a pretty luxurious lifestyle. ~25k baht two bedroom condo on Sukhumvit. Newest iPhone every year, closet full of expensive clothes, a gallon of various perfumes, LV, Prada, Macbook, etc. etc. She's been all over Europe and Asia, including a year of studying abroad. Took me almost two months to get her to let me pay for anything when we go out to eat, taxis, groceries, etc.

No job (ever). She says that she gets a monthly allowance from her parents - something like 80k a month. Claims Dad is involved in the military (but he's not powerful, she insists), Mom has a small food business.

Is it possible that the money is really coming from them? I was thinking it must be coming from some poor SOB abroad, but I've lived with her for the past two months and not once has she slipped away to answer the phone, hidden her chats from me (I use her phone freely), or really done anything suspicious. She even posts pictures of us to social media, so definitely not trying to hide anything.

Yet, it seems like an awful lot of money sent from a military job plus what I believe is basically a food stand. She spends/has spent way more than a retired bargirl could/would put into savings (although she does have a tramp stamp, shags like a pornstar, and swears like a sailor). On top of all this, I'm only 23, and broke. She's well aware of that situation. Can someone help me figure out whats going on here?