Jap Si

Good post, I would also add

(If your working in Thailand, like me with my Thai gf).

11) Does she get up in the morning like clockwork and make you a coffee? Willing without question to cook breakfast / provide something to take to work...and go food shopping, cook amazing food at night and clean up afterwards?

12) Prepared to keep house clean, do washing & ironing without question?

These have to be on the list, because any non serious Thai girl wouldn't do any of this.

And yes mine does this, might be sexist questions but roles are roles in Thailand,  mine's a keeper....

You advanced members are spamming this thread, how boring!

Hang on, I'm just recovering from all the stabbing and the flames are still hot.  But still some interesting comments!

Yes we are over, yes i stopped giving her money, no I didnt give any money to parents. Maybe I shouldn't have checked her phone, but then again I wouldn't be posting here would I, it would be years down the line then I reckon when I'd be paying for it.

I guess it's a cultural lesson for me, even after treating her like gold a lot and I even purposely tried to be a b'strd sometimes just to get a reaction but she still kept calm. Maybe that also back fired on me...

So there you go lesson learnt, maybe it was about the sex, and god was she f'in good at it....and yes it's boring to you seasoned experts reading all this again, but maybe it's because of you seasoned experts the Thai girls lie so much and need backup ATM just in case huh.

So I met this girl in a bar who was working as a cashier in Bangkok, I struck up a relationship with her and to cut a long story short I found out she was a bar girl for a few years in BKK, she also tried to move in with me, telling she loved me.....yup I got suckered in. Now that really doesnt bother me, as I was really into her. We got on like a house on fire, she was really really nice to me. We spent a lot of time together, but my head is really messed up, what do you guys make of this:

1) Seemed distant with me sometimes in public, almost as if she was scared to bump into an old customer maybe???

2) Some strange phone calls at 3am on her phone, and phone was always in bed at night.

3) Somebody I think was demanding money from her home town (I've got the facebook messages in Thai but they dont translate well).

4) I went to her home town at Christmas and met her parents and her family, it all seemed very genuine.

5) She has been sending facebook messages to a couple of old customers, saying happy new year....but also asking when they are coming back to Thailand with a kiss x on the end of the message. And this was when she was seeing me.

6) I've seen old facebook messages going back 3 / 4 years with old customers who she was in touch with but lost contact a couple of years ago.

7) When I asked her why she loved me, I got the "because I do....I dont know why"

I know the score, she is / was a bargirl, but why take me to her parents if she was just about the money???? Or is that all part of the scam, I've since dumped her but she is really playing with my head. I never did confront her about the messages, and would really like to but think she will turn all crazy on me. Is this one just a really greedy scam artist who doesnt care who she upsets as long as she gets money?