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Nice thread.  Thaivisa should produce more stuff like this.

7 minutes ago, baansgr said:

So Thai girls are lazy because foreign men will spend money on them...

Thai girls seeking out men who will spend money on them are lazy, yes.

Well yeah, unless they were robbed at gunpoint.  Who else's fault is it?  It's your money, you choose how you spend it.

On 9/24/2018 at 4:58 AM, NCC1701A said:

And under stand this, a young Thai man has to pony up something on the first date. It is just not Farang. That is how Thai woman define themselves. The conversation with her friends about your first date is "What did he give you?"   

Not all Thai women are like this.  The easy answer to avoid these women is to insist on them paying half.  If they refuse, walk away and onto the next one.  I've had many girls get angry with me for doing this, the last one I can recall parted with "have fun with your shit life", which was nice.  But I've also had 2 girlfriends and lots of other casual partners who I did not have to pay for everytime we went anywhere.  And I knew they were only with me because they wanted to be with me, not because they wanted money or free meals.  If we all refused to pay for lazy, demanding Thai girls, they would not be so lazy and demanding.

OP I'll be blunt.  You married a gold-digger.  

2 hours ago, hotchilli said:

So blacklisting works a treat !!!!

6 hours ago, jspill said:

Nice to get confirmation that changing one's passport / name works to avoid the blacklist. 

It'd be easier in my opinion to keep the same passport and walk/swim across the border from a neighbouring country.

He could have been doing 80 or 200 or anything in between.  This shouldn't be reported as a 170 crash because the 'evidence' is very sketchy.

5 minutes ago, kannot said:

Death is the only answer for these  type of people.

 

Was liking your post before you advocated mass murder.

Buy a cow.

OP, you are crazy.  You do not know it but everybody else does.  Just try to live out your days without thinking too much, it will be easier for you and for everybody around you.

7 hours ago, billd766 said:

I went to the local 7/11 this morning and bought 2 packs of milk for my son and nothing else. It came to 136 baht. I told the girl behind the counter that I gave her 2,000 baht ass a joke. She loudly said only 1,000 and gave me 804 baht in change.

 

I put the change and the bill on the counter and the bill was correct, looked at the till and explained that she was 60 baht short. She gave me the 60 baht with bad grace but no stamps. That didn't bother me but I explained in English (and she does speak some) that if she wanted to rip off the fat old farang she would have to get up earlier.

 

I would have complained to the shift manager but she IS the shift manager.

 

Also the CCTV is pointing at the coffee machine and not at the tills. Next time I see the real managers I will tell them to get the camera shifted towards the tills. Also I will refuse to be served by that woman.

Christ man.  What the hell.  No wonder they think we're all mad.

3 hours ago, mauGR1 said:

Fyi, most people's memory start at age 3, it should be needless to say that early memories have a huge weight in shaping one's whole life.

Normally i don't like to make personal remarks, so i will abstain from saying what i think about your posts.

I'm not sure why they have drawn such ire from the Thaivisa crew, but nevertheless I am a free-thinking open-minded adult and I encourage any kind of debate, so I can handle personal remarks.

Memory starting at 3* is very close to 4.  So worst case scenario - the child in the coming months has a vague recollection of the incident, this should be covered up and explained as some sort of game, until such a point as it is no longer in the back of the child's mind.

*You got a source for that?  I Googled and got this from the first result.  By 7 they're still not going to understand the concept of sex or rape:

"Kids can remember events before the age of 3 when they're small, but by the time they're a bit older, those early autobiographical memories are lost. New research has put the starting point for amnesia at age 7."

2 hours ago, saminoz said:

It's clear that you have no idea what you are talking about or what Thailand is about so why not just STHU?

How is it clear, can you elaborate?

1 hour ago, Henrik Andersen said:

sorry you really don't have any empathy for others do you?? 

 

What has that got to do with anything?  Maybe it's because English is not your first language but I get the feeling I'm wasting my time here.

1 hour ago, Henrik Andersen said:

they will absolutely not rape a 4 year old girl 

This is nonsense.  There are dozens if not hundreds of cases which you can find on a Google search of people who have come from loving families with good parents, who are also paedophiles and that have molested children.

Good parents = perfect children is not and has never been how the world works.

34 minutes ago, Scouse123 said:

I would go to the office first, ( however, it appears they are just giving you the runaround anyway! ), so maybe I would take a low-level policeman with me, just to point out if it doesn't get resolved you are taking police action. It may spur them to refund. The policeman will cost you a thousand baht for the trouble.

 

Do this.

On 9/24/2018 at 7:20 AM, peibol77 said:

By the way, I have been in Thailand more than 20 times. And spend a lot of time here. I was just 2 months back in Spain and thought why not get me a treat for when I come back.

 

So why not just wait?  Who does that?  It's so so stupid that it's barely believable.

Go to the police, obviously, sitting writing about it on a forum won't get you anywhere.

The article reads like the car was stolen before the couple went missing.

Do the red songtaews not work as replacements for buses?

18 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

There you have it, this bail crap gives everyone the opportunity to left foot it

So next time you're arrested for something you have nothing to do with, we'll keep you on remand in prison for a year before your trial, shall we?

33 minutes ago, MaxLee said:

As long as these standards procedures are going on, no wonder innocent people gotta die.....

Theft of a car in any country is unlikely to result in ongoing detention.  Most people would get bail.

On 9/19/2018 at 10:18 AM, mauGR1 said:

I have to agree, charge them as adults.

 

Charge children as adults?  But they are children, not adults?  Let's charge adults as children whilst we're at it, farang as aliens, buffalos as kangaroos and back into the rabbit hole for all of this americanised nonsense.

3 hours ago, neeray said:

I had an older brother who was molested when he was 3-1/2. He took that day to the grave with him.

 

Somebody must have explained to him what happened, because a 3 year old cannot comprehend that.  I am assuming that the little girl will be given a made up story about what happened to placate her, and that any further medical appointments will be dressed up as a fun day out to see a doctor or whatever.  I don't think there is any benefit to tell the truth about what happened now or in the future, it will only confuse her if they tell her now and god knows what it will do to her state of mind if they tell her later.

4 hours ago, Dexlowe said:

That's a very sick thing to say. Rape involves violence and trauma. It has a deep psychological impact on the victim, especially children who without exception are scarred for life. You seem determined to play the superior member by attacking other members' posts. Well, you've just proved that you're very ignorant.

Can you explain to me how it is 'sick'?  Or are you just writing words without thinking?  She is 4.  1, 2, 3, 4.  4 years old don't do psychology.