I found Thailand to be a great place to vacation, but not to live as a resident. I was first there in 2018, then moved there at the start of covid in March 2020. For my wife and me it really came down to the pollution and overall poor state of infrastructure among other things. We spent most of our 2 years in Thailand living in Bangkok, Koh Chang and Hua Hin. We moved to Spain a little over a year ago and we love it here. This is where we plan to stay, because it checks all the boxes for us.
I'm happy for you...I'm in Monza ( Italy ) so we are almost "neighbors". ????