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12 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

350,000 / 17 is 20,588 per month. tell her the wedding is off and if you really think she is a good girl send her two more months worth of money so she can look for a job. 

 

did you buy her out of the bar?

She left the bar of her own accord to move back to Phetchabun. 

Evening All,

First time poster but a regular in Thailand over the years.

So the short version of it, September 2017 and a regular visit to a bar in Pattaya on one of my 3 week holidays where I get chatting to a 'bar-girl.' A number of Chang's, numerous lady drinks and copious amounts of games of Connect 4 later it's back to the hotel to be 'serviced' by the lady. This continued with the same lady for the duration of my stay.

Fast-forward 17 months, 350,000 baht lighter and engaged to this lady, I have finally snapped-out of this daze I have been in thanks to some honest words from close friends.

I now need to end this debacle of a relationship ideally without hurting the lady's feelings which I know is probably impossible.

I am currently in the UK and the lady is in her home town of Phetchabun and has been for the last 12 months thanks to my monthly outgoings to her.

Any ideas on how I can break this off without causing WW3?

Thanks in advance and yes I know I am an idiot!