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3 hours ago, jimcarr65 said:
Captain Jack,
Very good post, I even shared it with my friend who is 73 and was considering moving there to be closer to his Thai GF. After reading what you wrote he decided against it you know why?....Because it is reality over there now. I lived there from 2014-2017 and taught English at a good school. However, I am only 52 and was not saving for retirement, living check to check, no 401K, the pollution was gagging, the hassle of Immigration and all the paperworl involved(went to Laos once with 50 sheets of paper for an extension, was missing 1 paper, back to Thailand!!!), the constant "mmmaaaaaasssaagggeee" in Pattaya got on my nevers, it was nice for the first 6 weeks but not when you live there. You did the right thing.
Only question I have is if you are a Vietnam Vet what about VA benefits?
Hi,
The VA provides zero coverage outside the USA. Thanks for the comment.
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15 hours ago, Gecko123 said:CaptainJack:
Before you sign off, I was hoping you could answer a question I've been curious about. When you moved to Thailand did you liquidate all your personal property which you didn't ship here, or did you put stuff in storage/leave with friends, hedging against the possibility that you might move back home if things didn't work out the way you planned?
Hi Gecko123,
First, good question. And, wow, first morning I've not woken up feeling like a truck ran me down from the jet lag. Whew!
On to your question. I did liquidate all my possessions, including my car. I kept my trekking and camping year, and my cold weather clothes. My best friend stored all that for me. He is also my legal representative. I trust him with my life. I'm staying with them as I sort out next steps. I have a small trailer about 4 hours away that is home for me at an RV park. It is mostly long term residents who like living just outside a small Texas country town. That is still my home, but better to hang here in Austin for the time being.
I rented a car for a month. Expensive, but, in the 9 months I was gone, not making a car payment, car insurance and storage cost, I cleared all my debts in the USA living in Bangkok. And that included the 200 a month I paid for one of the best travel insurance programs there is, "GeoBlue". It's too bad I cannot afford to pay the rates for expatriate medical insurance with them. This was another factor I did not mention. I could not go beyond a year on my travel policy if I was absolutely committed to retirement in a foreign country. The entire fraud thing, if caught, will really ruin your day.
There really were many factors involved in my decision. I kept the original post brief, maybe too brief, but happy to answer other questions.
In that I was officially still traveling, was all over Asia, SE Asia and Oceania, I kept myself legal. February 22 was my date to either comment, or go home. When I started the process of moving to Thailand, for me, it was a matter of try it, see how it really is to live there, and decide if it was for me? I've been very honest. I missed a bunch of red flags. I give myself a pass on the changes that have occurred recently. Nobody could plan for those.
I'm now looking at Panama and other countries in South America. I can buy another medical insurance travel, go check out some other places, and see what I think.
I will say this. I'm pretty disenchanted with my home country. It took a combination of events and factors for me to backtrack, now regroup and hopefully, a bit wider, put together a better thought out plan. One thing that has really stuck with me is several TV members made a really good point. Don't be on the other side of the planet, just in case you really need to get back for medical reasons.
I checked flights last night and I can fly, with on stop from Panama to Austin in 7 hours.
There is lots to think about, and I know someone will ask, what is my fail safe plan? It is buy a good quality, heavy duty SUV, hook up my camper trailer and travel the USA and Canada. Finally find some spot, maybe a cabin in the mountains, with cool and clean air, get a good dog, and finish this life out with a smile on my face. Cheers!!!
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16 hours ago, ChristianBlessing said:
Thanks CaptainJack for this well-reasoned and clear post. After 11 years working in Malaysia, with some consideration given to retiring in Thailand, my spouse and I too have decided that there are simply too many hurdles to get over. We have a nice home in Arizona where we will retire; Thailand will be a pleasant yearly getaway for us going forward, allowing us the best of two worlds.
Glad you made the correct decision for yourselves. Best to you.
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20 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:
The way I read it was Jack has an eye problem that he can't fund repair if it occurs here. So he can't stay. Maybe I'm wrong.
Yes. I had two, very successful vitrectomy's and my doctor successfully sealed the busted capillaries in my retina. I see fine now, but without really good insurance, if I started having problems again, I'd be blind before I could get back to the USA from Thailand. It all added up to go home. I am looking at Panama. The flight would be a bit expensive on short notice, but I can be back in Austin, with one stop in a little over six hours. Options and planning are essential. I've learned a lot from this experience. Thanks for your comment.
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1 minute ago, CMNightRider said:This guys negative comment didn't surprise me. There are about a half a dozen of these guys sitting in their underwear at their computers gloating over the fact they deposited 800,000 baht in a Thai bank. Evidently, they think any expat unable or unwilling to abide by this latest hurdle immigration set up for expats is grouped as the bad expats, and they are the good expats.
Some of these people will get caught up in the next hurdle or goal post move immigration sets up. Then it will be their turn trying to figure out where they will be going. Immigration has taken it on themselves to purge Thailand of as many western expats as they can, and exploit those remaining.
You are doing right by leaving Thailand. Good luck to you on the move. ????
Thank you and I agree. I will say I don't wish anyone, even those that gloat and enjoy putting others down, to suffer under changes to immigration policies that force them through what will be 10 times worse then what I have experienced. Maybe some will understand, being uncaring and mean has a tendency to come back on one. I'll check in later and update y'all. Oh, thank you again. I think being able to write about this has really helped.
Cheers....
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Hi,
It's 4am here in Austin. The jet lag really has kicked my rear this time. Woke up and decided to write a little. Can I ask for those so inclined to cut me some slack on this post please? If you can't, so be it.
Since I started this topic, I should stay with it. A matter of some self respect here.
Ok, look, I made some mistakes. I know that. Some other background on me. I'm also a retired police officer. I took early retirement after 12 years with a big metropolitan department after one of my partners was murdered and I could not get to his location in time and a rookie of mine was murdered only a few months later. Between Vietnam and law enforcemen, I had all the death I could take. I continued in the reserve flying search and rescue and went to work for DoD. My total pensions are not bad.
I messed up and married a couple of western gold diggers and they cleaned out most my savings. I have a history of picking the wrong women. That's why my savings is blown.
So, I'm a pretty tough guy. I hooked up with 8 other retirees, some police and some Vietnam veterans and in 2016 trekked to the Mt. Everest Base Camp in Nepal. It about killed me, but I did it.
I'm not one to give up easily, but in all honesty I'm just tired. The whole deal with retiring to Thailand just wore me out. I think I had this illusion I'd come to Thailand, get my retirement visa and just relax and chill. It just did not hold that way.
One person asked me about being stopped by immigration police? When that happened, I asked the officer that spoke excellent English what was going on. There were about 8 of them, they had wireless notebook computers and he told me they have teams that will setup around Bangkok at known farrang apartmen and start checking for Visa violations. I doubt he just made that up, but if no one else has experienced that, maybe I just had bad luck that morning. Bottom line, it did not leave me with a warm and fuzzy.
My next experience was when I went for my first 90 day report. The female IO asked me where my TM30 was. I did not even know what a TM30 was. So she starts in on how my visa can be revoked because I have not had my landlord file a TM30 for me when I rented my first apartment in Bangkok. The IO gave be a bunch of forms, told me to get my landlord to fill them out and come back the next day with them all completed and bring a 5,000 baht fine, or I'd be in trouble. This is not what I considered relaxing.
I called my landlord, she said she never heard of a TM30 before, but met me and filled out the paperwork, only gave me half if the fine and I'm back at immigration again. It's not an easy deal to get from from where I lived up to the immigration offices.
I knew no one in Bangkok except a few people, and none of this was sitting very well for me. I did not know about TV yet.
So I get through all that, and then I start to read about the changes. In all honesty, this is not what I signed up for. My bad, I got it. But with all that, I still met my girlfriend. OMG. I have never been treated with so much affection and love by a western woman. If not for her, I think I would have said enough, and gone somewhere else. So as I have admitted. I missed some important items, the big one medical insurance. Regardless of what one thing finally pushed me to say, I'm done, I need a break, reconsider my decisions, learn from them and move forward. One thing I have appreciated from all who have written, is if I want to live as an expatriate somewhere for sometime, I am wiser to be only 8 or 9 hours away by air then 30 or 40 hours away if I needed USA medical care.
The other is perhaps I'll continue my travels, I do have all the logistics now in place, but unless another reason comes up, just plan to finish out in the USA. A small cabin in the mountains sounds pretty good.
One other person asked me to please let everyone know what I decide. I will do that. I've only been back for less then 48 hours so rest and and getting clear on all this is important.
That's it. I'll make some decisions in the next week, and in a month I'll have a new plan. I do know this much. On the risk analysis, I won't be coming back to Thailand, except as a tourist. I don't think it is right for me.
Once again, good luck and best to you all. I'll drop in on the forum in a few weeks and give an update. Cheers everyone..
Captain Jack
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17 minutes ago, natway09 said:
Interesting post. You can be very alone here in Thailand without the right friends, not just the
gold diggers.
I am too old now to make the change but if I am frugal we should be OK.
Some of your topics are valid but I sense an underlying bit of Thai resentment between the lines.
The money required for an extension of stay is to me acceptable. (Have a look at immigration requirements in your country or Oz, NZ or the UK) & 70% of expats here would not even be able to consider.
Best of luck,,,, enjoy
Thanks. No Thai resentment. I am frustrated with the Thai government and immigration issues. Another commenter posted I showed up at exactly the wrong time. Maybe. I'm not sure of much right now, other then I need a reboot, get my head clear, rethink a whole bunch of stuff and going home is the right thing for me.
The bottom line for me was I think I could have managed about everything that was thrown at me, but I researched everywhere and contacted every insurance agent I could, and I never found medical insurance coverage, that included preexisting conditions, for less then 700usd a month. That blows my financial planning.
I know it sounds totally stupid I did not figure this in, but I just flat missed it.
I was not going to go into much detail, but, I will at least explain. I'm not worried about my high cholesterol and Lipitor being a reason for not paying for a stent procedure if needed even if It would still really wipe a big chunk of my savings.
What I'm really concerned about is I had two eye procedures done due to vitreous traction and retinal bleeding in 2013. Because I'm at risk of another, I need access to covered medical care. You know it's just stupid I did not think of all this. My bad. I've got some serious thinking to do about what my future plans are, as soon as I'm over the worst jet lag in my life. Thanks for your comment. Take care.
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2 minutes ago, yobosayo said:
Hi Cpt. Jack. greetings from a crew member 12th Group 11th Bn. Vultures 162nd Assault Helicopter Co. Phouc Vien. do your home work for the places you want to go. yes maybe try for a few months. Have a Texas Day from San Antonio.
If for no other reason I'm really glad I made this post to hear from you. I was at the 50th anniversary of the 1st Aviation Brigade at Ft. Rucker, which was also the 45th anniversary of the 45h anniversary of the 16th Aviation Battalion. We were the Vulture Unit at Can Tho. Were you at the anniversary? If so, we met. Great to connect.
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23 minutes ago, Tony125 said:
Some of your posts do not make sense why not to retire here but hey it's your choice.
1. The 90 day reports can be done online so you don't have to actually report to immigration. I do because they are 5 mins from my house and I know some of the girls/officers who work there.
2. If your pension is enough you don't need to keep 800,000 baht in a Thai bank (400,000 if married) just show the deposits being transferred to a Thai bank monthly. 65,000 retirement extension---40,000 married to Thai extension both good for a year.
3. You say you receive 2 Gov pensions. If 1 is retired Military you can be covered by TRICARE an amendment to Medicare and will cover ex-military here in Thailand. I am ex military but retired from US Postal Service and my Gov health plan covers me forever wherever I am in the world. I don't even have to pay Medicare if not planning to return to US as my Gov policy pays for care here. Why if retired from Gov job did you not keep the health insurance?
4. Been coming to Thailand since 2000 and lived here since 2013 and have never been stopped by a police officer.
Hi,
Just for clarity sake. One pension is social security and the other from a DOD contractor. I spent 15 years including my reserve time in the military and then went to work at a better paying government job. I have a friend in Bangkok that asked about the Tri-Care thing already. It would have been nice.
Take care....
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24 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:
An' the blasted English drizzle wakes the fever in my bones;
Tho' I walks with fifty 'ousemaids outer Chelsea to the Strand,
An' they talks a lot o' lovin', but wot do they understand?
Beefy face an' grubby 'and -
Law! wot do they understand?
I've a neater, sweeter maiden in a cleaner, greener land!Rudyard Kipling.
And to finish the verse which by the way, is well the one to write...
Ship me somewheres east of Suez, where the best is like the worst,
Where there aren't no Ten Commandments an' a man can raise a thirst;
For the temple-bells are callin', an' it's there that I would be --
By the old Moulmein Pagoda, looking lazy at the sea;
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the old Flotilla lay,
With our sick beneath the awnings when we went to Mandalay!
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the flyin'-fishes play,
An' the dawn comes up like thunder outer China 'crost the Bay!-
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38 minutes ago, granuaile said:
First, want to say a great post.
I think we all have our reasons for staying or leaving. When I came here I didn't think I'd ever leave, still not sure leaving will be permanent. Now, more than nine years later, I had already decided to, probably, leave and that was before the U.S. embassy discontinued the income affidavit - the changes due to that just sort of cemented it. I love this country, I love it's people (not just in BKK, but also up in CM and down South). I fell in love with Thailand the first time I was here, and on the balcony where I was staying on the river heard the adhan while gazing over across a Buddhist temple, something just said this is the most wonderful place on earth.
I don't mind the smog and never been stopped by police at all, but I live in a Thai neighborhood and never had a desire to live in the areas that draw a lot of foreigners. That said, other issues were drawing me home. Most of my family passed away in the years I've been here, my father passed away a year after I came here and was buried within the time frame it takes to even get back there. I also have a son back home as well and want to be closer to him as well.
I had already decided to go home for a few reasons. One was because I'll be turning 65 and while in good health will lose my current insurance, which is through my retirement plan and has excellent coverage abroad. I went back and last month signed up for Medicare B and my retirement's health insurance for those of us on Medicare. It too will cover me abroad, but much more limited (no limit on emergency care but one on routine care) and it requires me to reside in the states as a condition, so I've officially changed my residence back to the U.S. already and just back here to take care of things (mainly giving my possessions away, but also saying goodbye to friends). I have a house there, a dog, and family, things I don't have here. They also have to take me, which is a step above the uncertainty here. Also, back home state law requires state-supported universities, colleges, and vocational schools to waive tuition and fees at age 65 (I'd rather not turn 65, but if I have to...). Another reason is that I want to spend several months over the next year or so traveling in Europe, especially in Ireland.
These changes just sealed things. If they would accept my official documents from back home I might have yet changed my mind. However, in addition to all the uncertainties about transferring money here and it showing up here as an international transfer. I love my bank back home, it's locally owned and I get hugs whenever I'm back there or leaving to return here, and for me a few trips to the ATM work fine. But not with the end of the income affidavit. Also I help out back home with the bills and property taxes and insurance. Not something I have to do, but something I choose to do, and something I just won't stop - and importing the 65,000 each month wouldn't let me do that.
I may return one day, or I may opt for Indonesia (due to it's permanent residency option) or the Philippines, where I have in-laws and can enter with my spouse for a year at a time as balikbayan. Or Central/South America. However, I think I'll just stick to lengthy (and short) trips to various places around the world, unless Ireland ever becomes an option. If I do come back it would probably only be if my spouse and son joined me.
I wish you well Captain Jack. Thanks for a thoughtful post, and ignore the naysayers. I think a lot of us are making this same choice for a whole lot of disparate reasons. Life is too short to live it with all the uncertainties.Thank you for your great comments. Good luck.
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40 minutes ago, Bundooman said:Unless I have read your post incorrectly, you didn't actually say anything about your GF, except referring to emotions. You also didn't say if she will be accompanying you back to the US. The post loosely implies that you are no longer together, so are you just breaking up and you go? What about her? You said you were happy. did that change?
I looked at what seemed realistic for her and me at this point. She is 43 a college graduate and still struggles. I know I don't have the resources to care for both of us back in the USA, even if I could get her a Visa. I made the decisions I needed to make for me. I've given her as much money as I can afford, furnished an affordable apartment for her and we chat daily. The reasons we originally got together did not matter. Bottom line we were introduced on a double date by a friend of mine and fell for each other.
I'll try to help her because I care about her. And I don't care what anyone thinks about Thai women and that think I'm stupid. I trust her and believe her. I have decided to leave. I'll do what I can for her from afar.
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I don't care for the way Thai or any women are treated and objectified. I made a point to treat her with love and respect. There is no, "just find another girlfriend " for me. I was not even looking when we met.
I hope that answers your question.
Take care....
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1 hour ago, JimmyTheMook said:
How do you afford Austin then?
Did you own a property you returned to?
It is by far not a cheap area to live in any longer.
Hi,
I'm not living in Austin. I'm staying with my best friend, my only family I have until I decide my next step. Austin is way to expensive for me. Good question. I've got some ideas. We will be talking about them over the next week or two. Right now? Just trying to settle and center and make better decisions. Thanks for your comment.
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Just want to say thanks for those that took the time to write some supportive comments. For those that felt the need and the satisfaction in kicking and criticizing me, I hope your life goes well, you are happy and your days are filled with joy.
I'll say bye, bye now.
Namaste....
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2 hours ago, Ahab said:
Hope everything works out for you. Where did you reside when you lived in Thailand? The reason I ask is that where I live the chance of an immigration office or any other kind of Thai government official coming around is close to zero (and hasn't happened in the two years I have been here).
Thailand is not for everyone, good luck in Austin.
At the Lighthouse.
Thanks for your comment.
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8 299 - 300 Charoen Nakhon Rd, Khwaeng Khlong Ton Sai, Khet Khlong San, Krung Thep Maha Nakhon 10600, Thailand
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Just now, Gecko123 said:I have a background in risk management as well and before moving here I researched Thailand for close to a decade. Strong points: language study, estimating cost of living, trying to understand the culture were strong points. Weak points: reading Thai behavior, detecting the difference between a diamond and cubic zirconia gleam in a girl's eye, and understanding the socio-economic composition of the expat community. I'm just saying, no amount of preparation will prepare you 100% for taking the plunge and I wouldn't beat myself up too much in the 'what-I-know-now-but-didn't-know-then' department.
Thanks. It really was a surprise to me at how much I did not understand about the culture. Just one thing I'll mention. I am a Buddhist. Made the jump 15 years ago. Oh boy! I am Zen (Mahayana), not Theravada. Wow, I've been either visiting or doing volunteer work for years, and I missed just how different that one thing is. And I'll take your advise 'what-I-know-now-but-didn't-know-then' department and not beating myself up[ to bad. It has, been quite the learning experience. Cheers....
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3 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:
You can go around and around on these threads.
My wife is Thai we met and for 12 years lived in Singapore. Wise women, told me I'd tire of the place within 10 years, got it wrong by 11 months
We moved back to the US, nearly 2 years ago now, but we still do the snowbird thing to our house in Khon Kaen.
That dual location thing seems to be an increasing option for many retirees.
I've said this before in many threads, but over the past 10 years the cost advantage of being in Thailand pretty much evaporated for me at least.
Now we have a holiday home which is perfect
Sounds like you got a good plan. Good job!
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4 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:
I can do this a lot shorter, I didn't research the medical cost, now I know I can't afford it, I have to go back.
I understand. Sorry.
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1 minute ago, glegolo said:
I didn´t mean that Thailand suffered when living here, but my meaning was that Thailand misses out and suffer when a retiree leaves...
glegolo
Sorry, I misunderstood. Apologies.
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Just now, Damrongsak said:
I'm still in Virginia in the USA. Wifey has been back in Thailand for about 2.5 years as the advanced party. She's coming back for about 6 months for good pizza and steak and we'll see where that leads. I still have a 90 year old Mother and a brother who need looking after here. Contact me if you need to bellyache. Misery loves company, as they say.
LOL. You made me laugh.
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3 minutes ago, lamyai3 said:
If you'd retired here 9 weeks ago, this comment might be true. But no amount of research you could have done 9 months ago would have suggested the recent changes were on the cards.
Yep, I know. I give myself a break on that. The medical and just my own tolerance for the process to live long term in Thailand, I own that. Thanks....
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4 minutes ago, scorecard said:Police stop people in many countries in the world including make America great again.
Indeed, and that experience has given me a whole new perspective on not being having the privilege of the protection of the law I have in the USA. PS. I did not vote for Trump. I'll leave it at that. Best to you.
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1 minute ago, steven2018 said:
Retiring or living in and out of Mexico for a U.S. citizen might be a better option for a retiree on Medicare -- a few hours flight back to the U.S. beats a 22-hour flight in time and cost.
Mexico, Panama and Costa Rica are on my list to research. Thanks!
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4 minutes ago, glegolo said:I got a strange feeling when reading your initial post, that you are NOT at all looking for an solution, but merely get confirmation from others that YOU make the right choice in life.
For me this talk about blaming the immigration here and there and all the time, is not valid at all but just excuses.. The big thing I myself can relate to in your post is the healthcare-issue that most of us have i.e. with the coverage that is....
Good luck in life, choose the lady more carefully next time, so the contry not will suffer for your mistakes.
glegolo
I will reply with only this. The country benefited from the apartment I rented and the 20,000 USD I spent while living in Bangkok. I don't see Thailand suffered from my living there. Anyway, your comment was not rude or aggressive, so I replied. Best to you.
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Why, after 9 months, Retired in Thailand, I left and am back in the USA?
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Hi Morty T. There were just a lot of factors I did not understand until I got here and decided to try retirement. I made a lot of mistakes, I admit that.
I knew it was time for me to leave, and shared, in hindsight, a poor initial post. I've tried to answer as many detailed questions as I have been asked, hoping that they will be of some help.
Sorry my initial post was not clear enough. My bad.
Cheers...