Hi everyone, as akward as this question is, dont know where else to ask.
I'm visiting Bangkok/Asia for the first time this year. Ive been reading alotte about Bangkok's famous Gay bars/massages/sauna's.
I'm very exited about it, however when i read about the sauna's, i see or read the same thing as in Western Europe :
"Muscles are hot, anorexia skinny is hot, Normal is not."
i live in Europe and despite going from 96 KG to 70 KG, i am still invisible in the Gay scene here, despite being in my 20's.
Dont get me wrong, i still would visit the famous sauna's like Babylon or Chakran, even if i would get some odd looks without clothes, just so i can say ive seen it.
So my question is, are Thai men the same ?
Do you need to be this perfect skinny or muscle model to get attention ? (Because i might as well order a "massage" instead of waisting money in the sauna's trying right ?")
(Just trying to get a realistic view of Bangkok Gay Scene and Thai men.)
(Also is it a myth they prefer hairy men ? personally i prefer smooth, i suppose i could stop shaiving if it helps my chances)
First Time Bangkok, What to expect?
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Posted · Edited by Max6969
Hi everyone, as akward as this question is, dont know where else to ask.
I'm visiting Bangkok/Asia for the first time this year. Ive been reading alotte about Bangkok's famous Gay bars/massages/sauna's.
I'm very exited about it, however when i read about the sauna's, i see or read the same thing as in Western Europe :
"Muscles are hot, anorexia skinny is hot, Normal is not."
i live in Europe and despite going from 96 KG to 70 KG, i am still invisible in the Gay scene here, despite being in my 20's.
Dont get me wrong, i still would visit the famous sauna's like Babylon or Chakran, even if i would get some odd looks without clothes, just so i can say ive seen it.
So my question is, are Thai men the same ?
Do you need to be this perfect skinny or muscle model to get attention ? (Because i might as well order a "massage" instead of waisting money in the sauna's trying right ?")
(Just trying to get a realistic view of Bangkok Gay Scene and Thai men.)
(Also is it a myth they prefer hairy men ? personally i prefer smooth, i suppose i could stop shaiving if it helps my chances)
Thanks you guys for taking the time. ????