Jan0

My girlfriend she told me she would be starting a new job starting yesterday night and asked me to send her 50 peso to her paymaya so she can buy load It is currently flooding at her place, so she needed to call her employer and let them know its flooding and that she can't make it The problem is I can't send cash under I think $13 and she knows this.... When I told her I can buy her load online she refused it and wanted 50 peso instead(she was probably expecting the $13) The reason why I got suspicious was because she refused me buying her load online and she expected me to send her 50peso(she probably was expecting around probably $13) It all didn't seem right, I'm not trying to be a cheap skate but it all didn't add up She lives with her parents and her brother lives like 250 meters away with 2 children Her brother frequently(mostly always) drop of his kids over parents home to avoid expenses and a lot of the time barging in and going mad and asking money from parents and sister(she told me this) I'm no longer in ph, and I'm not even have much money so it gets really annoying when this happens If I give then I know where this would lead, she would probably always ask for money Should I just block her???

I have stayed im Philippines for about 4 months and noticed how awful the food is over there I have tried Jolibee, Pizza, and local food, but I really did not like the food, I remember going to dominos pizza and remembering how yucky the meat on the pizza was, I also remember going to the supermarket and seeing rotten expired meat I also have noticed that hotels are much much more expensive then in Philippines compared to Thailand??? Does Thailand have better quality food and is it more enjoyable??? I have noticed that usually a lot of the time Philippino are friendlier then Thai, but im interested in trying some delicious food Does thailand have better food and is it more enjoyable???

I have stayed in Pinas for quite a few months now and have come to a conculusion in beleiving that Western prison food is in higher quality then ordinary pinoy food I have tried various dishes and also have tried mang inasal but I did not enjoy the cuisine Im sure there should be people who have no issue with Pinas food but for me im just off that stuff..... I want to ship or stock my own yoghurt, meat, delicacies, and other food products/items but I assume it could get stopped by border force Is there a way that I can get a special pass to bring all those in???

I was told that a lot of people living in the Philippines dont even have the right to live like a very basic westerner If I have my own unit and don't have problems paying for unit fees and make a budget of 10000 peso a month for food Then what sort of food should I need to be buying or making??? Would I be struggling??? I am not a good cook and wont spend soo much money Should I use 10000 peso a month for the maid to get the ingredients and make food and for her to keep the left over money which is a couple of k???

I feel bad, but she was restricting me from having free time Where ever I go she holds my hand or grabs my arm and locks it with her and allways go when ever I walk out I have seen pinays hijack pinoys life and foreigners as well(I have seen Americans move baby prams of pinays), so I decided not to let that happen to me because I really dont want to have a baby as I would have no life and no money and no proper job(I have a new job aroud 4 times a year or more) I just left the aircon on and packed my important stuff and left the apartment while she was sleeping She is sending me messages asking me where I am, but if I go back to her then it would be harder for me to escape as she would just refuse to sleep and just keep her eyes on me all the time I feel happy I escaped but also feel bad, because she is sending messages asking where I am, but Idk what to tell her??? And I dont think I want to go back to her either and get restuck with super glue this time and end up like the other westerners moving a baby pram What should I tell her???

I have tried multiple Filipino dishes and have enjoyed a few(very tasty) but Filipino food is known to having a repuation of complaints for being not too great/having bad taste and etc Ofcourse, I had one of the tastiest foods served from a restaurant in Pinas such as mexican staek(very delicious) and thats why I beleive that they can have good cooks But generally it really is agreeable when someone makes a complaint about the cuisine for many reasons So from 0 to 10 what would your rating be???

Thank you

I have had the talk with her several time outlining that she is too old for me and me wanting her to leave. I had told her that im going to go out shopping and then I want her gone when I get back to my house but she still refused to leave A few day later the maid came up knocking on the door and giving food to me and when I told my girlfriend about the maid she got soo furious and it now feels like that she is sticking much more to me She now refuses to travel far distance convenience stores, when she gets something from a near by convenience store she tells me that the maid starts checking her out(but I think my girlfriend death stares at her because I know she can get violent) I have been tough and told her to leave previously but it did not work She allways tells me that she wants a baby and because she is 31yo and dosent want to get old alone not having a baby I have outlined to her numerous times that I am not that wealthy and change jobs around every 3 months per year and that it would make it incredibly difficult for me to fund the child When I get my visa extended she allways brings her own passport with her as well as if she is asking for me to get her a visa to my home country if i leave philippines Im planning to run because im having trouble getting her out??? I want to run, because I will have no life if I have a child with her Last post everyone told me to be tought, i did that but it did not work My girlfriend allways grabs my arms or hand while we are walking anywhere everywhere and she even has a cloth to wipe my back if it gets sweaty I just need alone time for my self so I can do what I like enjoying, I want to try joining classes or motorbike riding or talking to other girls and stuff like that It just feels like a woman is controlling my entire life and preventing me from talking to other girls Is the best choice to randomly leave??? And give her a note outlining why I left??? My last post/// Im living with my girlfriend right now for allmost 2 months, I have been talking to her for more then 6 months online from facebook she is 31 and I am 23 and its hard to get free time for my self because she just stays with me all the time and never leaves me thus making it really hard to get free time for my self I have tried to indirectly tell her that I want alone and free time for myself, but I think she did not understand it.... She has asked me to make a child with her, I know that if I made a baby with her I would have NO LIFE what so ever so I respectfully advised her of my financial situation by giving proof that I am not that wealthy and that I change jobs allmost somewhat every 3 months, but that did not stop her from continous asking There is no way I am willing to have a baby because I would have difficulty funding and no time formyself Maybe she wants to have a child with me to only get my visa, but i dont know or neither care.. I just want free time and want to enjoy myself and doing anything I can being a free person I just want some free time but I dont know how to tell her that???

Im thinking of that.... if I stetched out all of what I can do including being tough and doing what everyone advised me. If I got no choice at all then.....

She told me she is afraid of expiring, you are right... everyone told me to be tough and let it out and I dont want to be responsible for burning out her window... im having a talk to her and will try to get it sorted out all

Its like hard work for me

I can show proof im 23

Im 23 with and have id

I told her it would be a better option if she looked for a westerner her age and more wealthier in a respectful way, but she starts crying and asks for another chance

How? What do I do??