Where i come from it's a big no no for the woman to offer to pay anything on the first date. Second date you can offer to buy them a drink but paying on a first date especially if they ask you is seen as offensive and can possibly turn guys off.
I earn 2 or 3 times more, I'd rather go grateful and humble than trying to show off or take over. So now I don't know whether I should offer to pay or just let him take care of it.
I'm white, he's Thai.
Worth mentioning is i want to take things slow, I am only interested in building on a friendship first and see where things go. I've been single for 3 years by choice and this is the first guy that I can honestly see myself with, but tip toeing, one toe in at a time. When I mean slow, I mean really slow.
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Who pays on the first date?
Where i come from it's a big no no for the woman to offer to pay anything on the first date. Second date you can offer to buy them a drink but paying on a first date especially if they ask you is seen as offensive and can possibly turn guys off.
I earn 2 or 3 times more, I'd rather go grateful and humble than trying to show off or take over. So now I don't know whether I should offer to pay or just let him take care of it.
I'm white, he's Thai.
Worth mentioning is i want to take things slow, I am only interested in building on a friendship first and see where things go. I've been single for 3 years by choice and this is the first guy that I can honestly see myself with, but tip toeing, one toe in at a time. When I mean slow, I mean really slow.