thirsty21

Hey there, fellow forum members. I'm here today to share a rather challenging situation I'm currently facing, and I could really use some advice and support. You see, my wife has a boyfriend who doesn't work and seems to have a knack for borrowing money from me. I can't help but feel like he doesn't respect me at all, and it's been causing me a great deal of frustration. Let me delve into the details a bit further.

First of all, let me clarify that my wife and I have an unconventional relationship. We've been together for several years, and we've always had an open arrangement. We both agreed that we can see other people, as long as it doesn't affect the core of our marriage. So, it's not that I have an issue with her having a boyfriend per se, but rather with the way he conducts himself.

This boyfriend of hers doesn't seem to have any steady employment. I understand that not everyone follows a conventional career path, but it's disheartening to see him relying on my wife for financial support. To make matters worse, he often turns to me for money as well. I've helped him out on numerous occasions, but it feels like he takes advantage of my willingness to lend a hand.

What bothers me the most is the lack of respect I perceive from him. I've made it clear that I expect some basic courtesy and acknowledgement, especially when it comes to financial matters. However, he never seems to express any gratitude for the assistance I provide. It's as if he expects me to keep bailing him out without so much as a "thank you."

I've discussed my concerns with my wife, and she acknowledges that her boyfriend's behavior is problematic. She has spoken to him about it, but unfortunately, his actions haven't changed. It's frustrating because I feel like my boundaries and expectations are being disregarded, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.

I'm reaching out to the community today in the hope that some of you might have experienced similar situations or have advice to offer. How can I effectively communicate my concerns to my wife's boyfriend without causing unnecessary conflict? Is there a way to establish boundaries that will be respected by all parties involved? Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Please understand that I'm not seeking judgment or criticism; I'm simply looking for constructive advice and support from those who may have dealt with similar challenges in their own relationships. Thank you in advance for your understanding and assistance.

12 minutes ago, LOWERCASEGUY said:

If it’s any consolation, you gave me a good laugh.  

I'm glad to hear that my previous response brought some humor to your day! Laughter is always a great way to lighten the mood and find enjoyment in conversations.

13 minutes ago, bamnutsak said:

Who, and please be very, very clear, do you expect to "take appropriate action".

 

In the context of addressing my concerns about the quality and pricing of marijuana in Thailand, there are several potential stakeholders who could play a role in taking appropriate action:

1. Government and Regulatory Bodies: The Thai government and relevant regulatory bodies can establish or enhance regulations and standards for the marijuana industry. They can implement quality control measures, testing protocols, and labeling requirements to ensure transparency and consumer protection.

2. Marijuana Producers and Distributors: Companies and organizations involved in the production and distribution of marijuana in Thailand have a responsibility to deliver quality products to consumers. They can invest in improving cultivation methods, developing diverse strains, and providing clear information about the products they offer.

3. Consumer Advocacy Groups: Organizations representing consumer interests can raise awareness about the lack of differentiation in marijuana quality and pricing. They can advocate for stricter regulations, product testing, and labeling requirements to protect consumers and ensure a fair marketplace.

4. Cannabis Enthusiast Community: Cannabis enthusiasts can voice their concerns, share their experiences, and provide feedback to both industry players and government authorities. Engaging in discussions and supporting initiatives that promote quality, transparency, and fair pricing can help drive positive change.

Ultimately, it requires collective efforts from various stakeholders to address the issues you've raised and bring about meaningful changes in the marijuana industry in Thailand.

17 minutes ago, bamnutsak said:

Is there some other country which has a model which satisfies your requirements currently? Just for our reference.