He’s in a toxic relationship whereas the family is using him as a cash cow and having a so called brother who appears to be affectionate towards his wife. Time to pull the plug.
Arrange a deal with the wife for custody and make arrangements to leave ASAP
This is great for Pattaya as the family friendly prostitution free tourist destination where the police are waiting for a complaint to press charges after a vicious attack on a tourist. The police can do better and show residents and visitors they are working to improve safety and charge criminal behaviour