Chiang Rai,s Crazy Chris

Bo's Place; Isn't that the old Bierstube, founded about 18 years ago by German Karl-Heinz?

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Yes @Limbo, that is right.

For now that is the best place in town to meet normal people.

Thank god there are no girls.

Yes I will be there every day, The people are so down to earth ..... but the lady boys there are so rude!

I was just looking for opinions on the situation from women, not guys.

I really don't trust anything a guy would say regarding the situation (nothing personal), but was hoping some of the women here would have insight.

Thanks again

Thats because you just fell off the took took last night ....**edited for offensive content*** edited by sbk

You've been warned by two mods to leave this to the ladies. More comments like this and you will find it difficult to post again for a while. Understood yet?

Iam just trying to help this poor guy isnt that what this fourm is for? or is it a open fourm?

Slated, what area are you talking about. Where exactly did you meet her?

Does she drink or smoke or have ANY body art?

How good is her English?

I know where you're going, dude. I'm thinking along the same lines.

She doesnt have buba u.s.m.c. tattooed on left buttock ...naw it couldnt be, could it?

ok heres my opinion...as a thai girl (but with somewhat western influence and exposure...I am ofcourse already more open minded in some ways)

a lot of what Sheryl said are very true of general idea about what could be going on in a woman's mind, especially a thai woman who is trying to please her farang guy...

that leaves open the question of either she has been told similar things by friends who have had farang boyfriends that its the kind of thing the guys expect. However, having said that, I have to say that as a Thai girl (non-bar type, conservative, with old-fashioned thai values. infact using the word old-fashioned isnt even correct, cos it IS still the normal thai values) a thai girl would NOT go back to a guy's place, let alone suggest it. in the case that you made the move, and she really really likes you a lot, then ok I can see how that might be possible......the desire to respond to someone you like taking over childhood upbringing and societal values. but in your case this was the other way around.

so my guess is....you have been dating, she is thinking.....she wants it to move to next step (a bit bold for a thai girl, esp if you say she is as young as she is, and comes quite fresh from upcountry) ....so what this could be is shes wanting some kind of commitment from you? dont forget that for a lot of thai girls sleeping with a guy would mean they expect a sort of steady commitment.....boyfriend material...or more....considering you have slept with her.

I know Im starting to sound confusing, but it is hard to pass opinion on someone I dont know, and do not want to sound too offensive

advice? try date her again. but take it slow. definitely not everyday! THAT is also a show of boyfriend material. for all you know everyone else in the restaurant are already teasing her everyday. I say to ease it off cos just in case you are only exploring wanting to find out more etc, but at the end of it you MIGHT feel you are not wanting a relationship with her....then for her it will be very hard to accept. on the other hand if you saw her like once a week, take her out every now and then....maybe do something more casual with a group of her/your friends on some occasion. but take care when you do that...again the idea is to make others realise you are at the 'good friends' stage, rather than 'dating'.

I know for farang this concept is quite bizarre....but then I guess thats why they invented words and concepts such as cultural differences and the like

good luck

Every thai woman wheather she works at a bar school or any place else will spend the nigt with any man they meet for the right price, Its just there culture, i know that to be a fact many times ive seen it first hand and iam sure iam not the only farang to know this . Who are you trying to fool...Yourself

Slated

Nothing wrong with what you did, but if you want a old fashioned type of girl, i dont think she is

that type. Look upcountry for that.

regards

-nam

The strange thing is, I know most everyone at her work. I've been a regular there for over a month, going almost every other day. She's Isaan, and just moved here a couple months ago. Everyone always said, she isn't a butterfly and that she's a good girl.

I guess maybe I should just scratch it off as experience and be glad I didn't get my heart broken again.

After having lived here over 2 months, I wish I hadn't signed a lease in Bangkok, so I could move up north....

I wish i had five baht for everytime ive heard she just started to work here, She used to be a [EDOK THONG] Funny it sounds like she still is.

Hi, what if we are single? can we still apply for a NonImmO?

what are the requirements?

If you are not married, But you have a child from a thai national you can obtain one no problem.

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why do they want high quality tourists who stay in the sheraton , royal cliff? in the long term it's the low quality types who fall in love and marry prostitutes and come back year after year , buying houses in nong khai etc that they should be trying to attract . people with real money dont need to come back to thailand year after year ,they can go anywhere they like and have a good time .

Well, thats kind of missing the forest for the trees... they DO NOT WANT the people who fall in love with prostitutes at all. Those are dirty, dirty people that Thailand is better off without, regardless of how much money they have.

How many Asians do you see partaking in the sex industry? I don't mean how many do - how many do you actually see? It is a loss of face for Thailand for people to see it.

A good reply if judgemental. What has to be kept in mind is the fact that "whore-marriers" (for want of a better term) don't marry the first whore they meet, as a rule. Part of the Thai desire to control or expel a certain type of foreigner is rooted in the wish to eliminate a certain set of social ills that those foreigners create or exacerbate. We could take Pattaya as the prime example, but it's probably too early to risk pulling this thread so far off topic by opening that can of worms (again).

If the falangs did not marry or take edok thong or bar girls, and drugs thai people would starve to death and thaskin would be pennieless