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3 hours ago, whereyougo said:

Are you splitting assets? my guess is no

My only advice is do not get a Thai lawyer . Block her on all media and get on with your life and 3 years will fly by and besides you could be dead before then in which case your divorce was free.

That is what I planned to do now, I have tried to reason with her and it just have zero effect. And purposely giving me hard time to divorce.

3 hours ago, Excel said:

Firstly where were you married ?

Thai only, luck on my side that I didn't register for marriage in my home country.

3 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

If she is so mercenary then offer her money to accompany you to the Amphur office to get your ‘uncontested divorce'. 

Only offer to pay ‘after’ the divorce. 

Once settled (divorced) tell her to take a hike, you are free. 

 

She is asking for unreasonable amount for all the work she has to do, prepaid, purposely giving me a hard time. I give up.

3 hours ago, Bluespunk said:

Did you agree to pay off her debts before getting married?

We been together for 5 years and married for 2 years, I wasn't aware of any debt until 6 months ago. I helped her to pay some but it just never end, she would lie that is the final amount need to be paid. But I can confirm the debt is valid.

2 hours ago, Farmerslife said:

She will still be able to do this whether you are divorced or not. You need to break the hold she has on you.

Good luck. 

Yes, I start now, I would not entertain any stuff she come up with.

And then, does anyone know is there any proof needed to file for abandonment after 3 years? I don't want to mess it up.

Anyone know the average cost for divorce lawyer in Thailand?

That psycho would not divorce with me even though she cheated on me and scammed many of my money. She completely camouflage her real personality until the day I stopped paying off her debt (debt are now paid off with money from her cheating partner)

We already separated 2 months ago since I had enough that day and moved out of our rented condo. She will still message me from time to time to prevent me from moving on, keep me depressed and harass me mentally.

I have deleted the photo of them hugging and kissing and also half naked on bed together, I was stupid I know but I was mad at the time.

I have read a bit on this forum that I know I do not have enough evidence for adultery, and that the only option I have is to wait 3 years then file for divorce base on abandonment unless she needed the divorce sooner than that.

It is killing me mentally and life is too short for that.

Is there anywhere that I can divorce sooner because I wanted to completely move on from that beach and start fresh.