Brian Nose

5 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Another thing I have noticed through the years... though some lady boys can be beautiful, the future is mostly sad. You don't often/ever? see a beautiful lady man.

I think you're absolutely right. Sometimes I think that ladyboys are aware that they only have a short time being beautiful, a bell curve, and that's why they have a thirst for hedonism, partying etc that you mentioned your friend likes so much. 

To quote Bladerunner: "The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long, and you have burned so very very brightly"

6 minutes ago, The Hammer2021 said:

You need some friends  mate OR You're using this thread as a mastubatory fantasy

BTW What is LTR

Mate, ur avin a larf mate. By da way, wots BTW? I never lernt ow to google, innit?

2 hours ago, JBChiangRai said:

Perhaps I am biased, I sat on the bench as a magistrate for a few years.

 

I ask people with depression if they are marijuana users, a high percentage say they are.

I take it you are educated. You should know the difference between cause snd correlation  - and if neither can be determined,  you have a moot point.

50 minutes ago, Kenny202 said:

Often pondered that question myself....re LTR

 

LB are some of the nicest, most balanced, polite, well mannered and intelligent people I have met here. On the surface how you would expect a "good" Thai girl to conduct herself. I live up North so I am talking "girls" from normal walks of life with normal jobs. On the surface that is. Like many Thai girls the real person you have met may not show herself for some weeks / months in the form of the psycho, moody, irrational joy / cash vacuum that I have come across in the past. I would expect their would be potential there for a possibly good relationship. Life is about being happy for me, and met few Thai women I felt completely happy with for more than brief moments. Mostly a lot of pouting, selfishness, crazy outbursts, violent jealousy, inane conversation, Facebook / Tik tok addictions etc and a need to sleep most of the day. Would be very interested in what peoples experiences have been. There was a great doco on LB and mostly English blokes living together here and most seemed happy, though I did do a follow up a few years after and looks like most of the relationships had gone awry. To be fair to they were bargirl types. Seemed to have all the needy greedy family / support issues you would get with a Thai girl too. I think for many here with family, kids, friends etc here and back home a proper live in relationship like that would be difficult / awkward if not ballsy (no pun ????)

 

I remember someone sent me one of those email joke things a year ago. Titled the perfect Thai woman or something, from the back...dark shapely body to die for...vacuuming the floor and doing the housework while the boyfriend was sinking beers watching TV. Looked like heaven until it showed a frontal photo and a schlong as big as your arm hahaha. Reality check

 

Interestingly there are heaps of ladyboys where I live.....and know of at least 10-15 who work in pharmacies etc. And know they all have "husbands". After living here 7 years I don't remember once going out and seeing a man with a LB partner. Seen a few in Pattaya but never where I live. Must just hide out at home

 

This was a very interesting read. I wonder if in a ladyboy's pursuit to be feminine, many adopt the traditional, demure, submissive persona - an object of femininity that is fading among todays uhh.. 'vagina ladies'.

The thing is, LBs are biological males and I feel they are more prone to cheating. All those quiet pharmacists,  for all their poised femininity, if they were presented with a fat, 9-inch shlong in the mouthwash aisle, they'd revert to a beast state.  

3 minutes ago, Iamfalang said:

first of all, it's a dude, it's a guy it's a man, it's a dude etc

 

This is not a debate in this post. I don't care. 

It's a woman, it's a man, it's a rocketship. Categorize how you like if that's interesting to you.

Question is though, has anyone had an LTR with an LB?

(I'm thinking plenty have but don't want to say on here due to semi-anonimity)

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

Not my thing but interesting topic, will be popular.

 

We didn't get very far with the last topic on this, we concluded that those guys who like LBs still want to be heterosexual, you know have it both ways

I don't know about others, but if I'm honest, I'm absolutely repulsed by the male body. I get freaked out when I'm in a situation where a man is hitting on me. I still shudder from a situation when I was in the navy as a young man. I have a very visceral disgust - although I am happy for them snd wish them all the best.

Having said that, lafyboys seem to exist in a distinct space - at least the passable ones. Can't explain it. 

But if anyone wants to say it's gay or whatever,  they certainly have a robust argument and I don't mind at all.

6 minutes ago, bert bloggs said:

Sorry but no matter what a ladyboy looks like,if your playing with his penis and getting one inserted into you etc , your bi.

I'm really unconcerned with the category. I've given it little thought. Pick any label you want. 

5 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Start by defining what you think is a good wife.

Monogomous, traditional, obedient, 5'0 or less and under 100lb.

You know, the usual. 

10 minutes ago, Kinnock said:

If cooking good, tasty food is a Wife requirement, then Thailand over Philippines any day.

Flip food is an absolute horror show.

1 minute ago, 1FinickyOne said:

I swear there must be a haiku in there somewhere

Haikus are not supposed to be trite.

7 minutes ago, Iamfalang said:

Are falangs smart?

Are falangs happy?

Are falangs religious?

Are falangs generous?

Are they good people?

Are they bad people?

 

Yes, I'm talking about like 1 billion people, but would like a "yes" or "no" answer.

 

makes sense.

Generalizations are necessary and we use them all the time. But there's always someone like you who writes that.

Is it hard to make friends in Denmark? Generally, yes.

Do Brazilians like nightlife? Generally, yes.

Are North Koreans well-educated? Generally, no.

Why don't you take a walk through Compton, LA. at 2am telling yourself how you should never generalize.