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  1. Anyone know where I can buy food grade molasses in Ubon Ratchathani?

    I've tried all the obvious places, Tesco, Tops & Big C to no avail.

    Any suggestions

  2. Ok so I did do another post on here "need some advice on my rights as a father"

    At that point me and the wife had verbally agreed on divorce and the custody of our son.

    To cut a long story very short that's gone pear shaped...!!

    So now looks like I have no choice but to get lawyers involved and settle this in the courts

    So if anyone out in Ubon can recommend a decent lawyer with english skills I would be very gratefull

    Thanks In advance

    Harri

  3. Again i thank everyone for their post...today me and the wife had a decent talk first time in a while she was quite amicable so we have agreed verbally on a course of action for the bettement of the boy she fully realizes that i can provide for him in a correct and meaningful manner we are planning on going to the local amphur to proceed with the divorce and part of that will be joint custody of the boy until such time as he needs to start his education where we will again review whats best for him including taking him outwith thailand to secure a decent education for him....

    Thanks again everyone

  4. For the naysayers amongst us.

    Here is a lovely picture of my half Thai daughter who I recently brought to the UK 5 weeks ago now,lived her whole life nearly 3 years in Thailand sitting eating happily in my living room some sticky rice and omelette for breakfast after me and her mother who weren't married went through a similar issue as the OP.

    I got her out of the country after some initial hassles and won't be returning anytime soon,while Thai Laws naturally favour Thais,with a little bit of patience and coolness you can ensure situations such as this have a happy ending.


    I speak from experience believe me and won't offer any advice that I felt it was inappropriate.

    My boy just had his first birthday if it takes me 3-4 years to get him out of the village and in to somewhere I'm comfortable he will receive a decent education and the ability to have a full and meaningful life then so be it.

    I have no doubts that his mum and that side of the family love him dearly but I,m sorry they just cannot provide what I can no way

    Thanks for your post NongMalee Inspirtional

  5. Just to clarify I have no intention of taking the boy out of the country or even out with the province I just want him here where he belongs in the house with me

    if his mother is not present at her mother house then surely he belongs here with me until such time as his mother comes home or we have a court order or agreement as to what is best for him

  6. The OP is the father as recognised by the validity of the marriage to the mother. This means he has the right to his child the same as the mother has.

    How to proceed? Depends if you are planning to divorce your wife. If so, custody will be specified by a court, if you cannot find an agreement with your wife. You need to demonstrate that it's in the best interest for the child to be with you and not with the mother.

    If you have separated, but don't aim for a divorce the matter is more complicated. You are still entitled to have access to your child. If the mother prevents this, you need to document this and approach a court for a solution.

    Moving the child permanently to you really requires an agreement with the mother or a court decision. Likewise, having the child staying with the mother for good requires your consent or a court decision.

    At this stage, it would be best not to break off communication with your wife. You need to let her understand that you have the same right to your child as she has.

    Thanks Morakot

    So basically there is no other way than to take this through a divorce court and obtain the legal custody of my boy

    I'd hate for him to grow up in the village in the guardianship of the inlaws

    Ok well I guess its clear what I need to do

    Any recommendations for a lawyer I do live in deepest darkest esarn but I guess I can approach a lawyer from anywhere

  7. As you are married you have equal parental rights as his mother.

    Yes you can take care of him especially if he is to be left with grandparents,it's better for him to be with his father.

    Absolutely but if I do take him away from the inlaws.. Could they get the police involved..This is all in the case of his mum being not present

    I'm ok if she is there with him and I still have access but if she is not present then surely under any law his place is with me

  8. As a farang father you do have some rights but to try and enforce these rights in court is both expensive and will take time...........a very long time.


    You are much better off trying to keep on the sweet side of his mother AND her family.



    Be prepared at some later stage to walk away from your son sadly, as you are at the mercy of her and the family sad.png



    I cant accept that not an option

  9. Me and the wife got married 25-10-14 our son was was born on the 7-4-15.

    So over the last 6 months things have gone sour.. The wife has left taking our

    boy out to her mothers in the village.

    Now for the last few days I've been given access to him but now looks like

    the wife is gonna head off somewhere to find work!!!! leaving the boy with

    her mother and her sister. I would rather of course he was here with me

    but there is no talking to her. Very emotional at the moment

    My question is what are my rights under Thai law do I need to get a lawyer and courts

    involved to get him outta the village and here with me.

    How do I proceed

    Any advice would be welcome

  10. Symptoms and What To Do If You Think You Have Dengue

    The principal symptoms of dengue are:

    • High fever and at least two of the following:
      • Severe headache
      • Severe eye pain (behind eyes)
      • Joint pain
      • Muscle and/or bone pain
      • Rash
      • Mild bleeding manifestation (e.g., nose or gum bleed, petechiae, or easy bruising)
      • Low white cell count

    Generally, younger children and those with their first dengue infection have a milder illness than older children and adults.

    Watch for warning signs as temperature declines 3 to 7 days after symptoms began.

    Go IMMEDIATELY to an emergency room or the closest health care provider if any of the following warning signs appear:

    • Severe abdominal pain or persistent vomiting
    • Red spots or patches on the skin
    • Bleeding from nose or gums
    • Vomiting blood
    • Black, tarry stools (feces, excrement)
    • Drowsiness or irritability
    • Pale, cold, or clammy skin
    • Dengue hemorrhagic fever (DHF) is characterized by a fever that lasts from 2 to 7 days, with general signs and symptoms consistent with dengue fever. When the fever declines, warning signs may develop. This marks the beginning of a 24 to 48 hour period when the smallest blood vessels (capillaries) become excessively permeable (“leaky”), allowing the fluid component to escape from the blood vessels into the peritoneum (causing ascites) and pleural cavity (leading to pleural effusions). This may lead to failure of the circulatory system and shock, and possibly death without prompt, appropriate treatment. In addition, the patient with DHF has a low platelet count and hemorrhagic manifestations, tendency to bruise easily or have other types of skin hemorrhages, bleeding nose or gums, and possibly internal bleeding.

      Treatment

      There is no specific medication for treatment of a dengue infection. Persons who think they have dengue should use analgesics (pain relievers) with acetaminophen and avoid those containing ibuprofen, Naproxen, aspirin or aspirin containing drugs. They should also rest, drink plenty of fluids to prevent dehydration, avoid mosquito bites while febrile and consult a physician.

      As with dengue, there is no specific medication for DHF. If a clinical diagnosis is made early, a health care provider can effectively treat DHF using fluid replacement therapy. Adequately management of DHF generally requires hospitalization.

      Difficulty breathing

    From CDC Website.

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  11. Hi all....

    Can someone help me out here...I had a small incident where there is a small nik shall we say on the front rim...

    Now I,ve developed a wobble spoke with the Guy there In Kawa Pattaya on the Sukhamvit he says I need new

    Now My question is can it not be balanced in the same way you would for a car...i.e...small lead weights to counter the effect of the nik

    Thanks in Advance..

    If it's just a scrape / gouge / nik then yes, you should be able to have the wheel balanced, but if they are telling you you need a new wheel I'm guessing the wheel has been bent? A bent wheel should be replaced. Ride On! Tony

    Thanks Tony

    I,ll try the wheel balancing first.....and if not...new rim it is... Dam!

  12. Hi all....

    Can someone help me out here...I had a small incident where there is a small nik shall we say on the front rim...

    Now I,ve developed a wobble spoke with the Guy there In Kawa Pattaya on the Sukhamvit he says I need new

    Now My question is can it not be balanced in the same way you would for a car...i.e...small lead weights to counter the effect of the nik

    Thanks in Advance..

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