JK-Trilly

Wow, good to know. Since my DNA shows that I have some black ethnicity, I can now walk around publicly shouting the N-word freely and at will at anybody and nobody should judge or shame me for it. Should I do it to other black people as well? Surely, they will appreciate it. In fact, given your rationale, anyone at all who has any black ethnicity should be permitted to use the N-word. You should now be able to start a global movement empowering at least 1/4 of the human population shouting the N-word whenever it suits them. You're such an inspiration to humanity. Meanwhile, I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth. 🤮

Ok, So you idolize criminals. Many guys have been doing that since high school, but they stopped bragging about it for just as long. Guess you still have a lot of growing up to do. Over the last two years, anyone could've made a lot of money investing in anything. The stock market, gold, even just putting your money in the bank at 6% interest. Everything went up. There was no rocket science involved. The usual sort of superficial materialism that fits the mold. Why even go at all? Health is obviously not important to you. And since you are bedding 2-3 women a week, your wallet does the talking, so they obviously aren't fussed about your out of shape appearance.

You want the nitty-gritty truth about why you don't want to be seen as an easy mark by these girls in Thailand? Here's the raw deal: the moment they clock you as fresh meat, you're not setting yourself up for some steamy, porn-fantasy, mind-blowing experience. Nope, you're setting yourself up for a ride, but not the one you're hoping for. It's more like getting fleeced with a smile while they give you just enough to keep you on the hook. See, the P2P game in Thailand isn't some romantic soap opera where the girl's gonna put on her best performance because you're giving off this rich-and-naive vibe. It's more like a hustle. You think you're buying passion, but all you're really getting is someone milking you for every last drop of cash without giving a single toss if you're satisfied. These girls have seen a hundred guys just like you walk in, thinking they're about to live out their dirty little fantasy of a "girlfriend experience." And sure, at first, she'll act sweet as pie, call you "baby" and maybe give you that innocent look like she's never been with anyone quite like you. But the second she knows you're soft, she's not aiming to give you her best in bed-she's aiming to drain your wallet dry while giving you the least amount of effort possible. You're thinking that being an easy mark, or playing the role of the clueless guy, is going to turn her on, make her work harder for you. Wrong. When she sees you as easy pickings, her first thought isn't how to rock your world in the sack— it's how fast she can get you to cough up more cash, and how little she can do in return. The sex? It'll be a cheap, by-the-numbers job. She'll fake a few moans, maybe throw in some clumsy, over-the-top grinding, but her mind's already moved on to what excuse she'll feed you tomorrow to get more money. You're not her priority-your wallet is. And trust me, this "long game" isn't some epic seduction where you end up with the best sex of your life. It's more like she's laying out breadcrumbs, leading you down a path where the goal is to stretch out the hustle. She'll give you just enough to keep you coming back, making you think there's more to come, but really, she's giving you the same runaround she gives every guy who doesn't know better. Maybe she'll play the innocent, "I'm falling for you" card, but behind all that? She's thinking about how much she can squeeze out of you without breaking a sweat. You think the sweet talk and the fake love are the keys to getting her to throw herself into it, but the truth is, once she's got you hooked, she's putting in less and less effort. First time might be halfway decent, but after that? She's tired, bored, and looking for a way out the door with your cash. She knows you're not going anywhere, so why bother putting in any more effort than she absolutely has to? You're left with nothing more than the stale routine she's been using on every guy who's fallen for her con. Meanwhile, she's already thinking about what story she's going to spin next to keep you paying up. Maybe she's got a sick grandma, maybe her rent's due-whatever it takes to keep your sorry self on the hook. You're thinking with your little head, imagining that she's going to be all over you because you're vulnerable, but really? That's just setting yourself up for disappointment. You want the dirty, raunchy fun? You're not gonna get that by being the sap she plays. You get that by being the guy who knows what's up, who doesn't buy into her lies. When she knows you're not a fool, she'll actually try to give you what you came for, because she knows you won't put up with any nonsense. That's when she'll work for it, give you the ride you're looking for—not because she loves you, but because she knows she has to if she wants you to stick around. When you're seen as an easy mark, you're not getting the wild, filthy experience you're fantasizing about. You're getting the bare minimum, and maybe not even that. She's going to fake it, go through the motions, and then hit you with some sob story that leaves you feeling like you need to give her more just to keep things going. And before you know it, you're paying for her family's bills, her brother's hospital fees, and whatever else she can dream up while she gives you less and less in return. So, if you're looking for something filthy, something real, you don't want to be the fool. You want to be the guy who knows the score, sets the terms, and doesn't get caught up in her games. That's when she's going to work for it, when she knows you're not a pushover. That's when you'll get the dirty, raunchy fun you're after-not when you're playing the fool in her long con.

So glad this topic was unlocked. Cant wait to learn from all the profound advice from others on the best way to hook up with hookers in Thailand, how to get the best bang for the buck, and how to ensure the best GFE possible. Please; teach me, enlighten me, tell me exactly where to go and how to do it. Since it is no longer against forum rules to share insight and advice on navigating prostitution in Thailand, I am all ears and I am ready to take notes. Please also post lots of links and photos to the top venues and mongering tips too!

You have called (no less than four other members) sex tourists throughout this thread, yet the whole point of the topic was that people shouldn't use labels like that to judge anyone. But here you are, a nasty geezer doing exactly that. How tasteless. Thank goodness the mods have now stopped you from posting any further. And in case you missed it, this is exactly what was said in the OP on this subject: A sack of armchair critics who get a kick out of trolling others to see if they can trigger someone by calling them a sex tourist whenever anyone admits to enjoying the night life in Thailand. Give it all up already FFS. Don't be one of those minging geezers who can's stop himself from judging others for what they choose to do with their own bodies in the hub of nightlife.

All your abusiveness has now caught up with you. Thank goodness. Good riddance. You won't be missed.

After reading many of your nauseating posts that dominate and attempt to highjack this topic, I can only come to the single conclusion that you are an angry and frustrated sexpat and part time sex tourist. What a shame.

Stage 4 - You find yourself supporting her whole dead-beat family because you were told that doing this is part of Thai culture and that you're also making lots of Buddhist merit by doing that, so that there is your reward. Meanwhile, you're questioning your sanity and wondering how you got yourself into this insane predicament in the first place. At the same time, you are starting to wonder why her own "brother", who is only a couple of years older than her, and looks nothing like her, spends so much time with her at your place when you are out at work or off somewhere meeting up with friends.

Ah, the crescendo of any romantic relationship. Who could possibly ask for anything more.

Stage 1 - She's crazy AF, but your ignoring the obvious signs because your too busy thinking about when she goes up and down on your little bobbin and thimble for 15 minute a day. After all, she's also special and different. And she recognizes all your good qualities like no other woman ever has. Plus she's 20 years younger than you, so you are the luckiest man on earth. Stage 2 - You realize that not only that she really is crazy, but unintelligent too and her life is ruled by a combination of childish TikTok influencers and ridiculous superstitious beliefs. And she's got a bunch of unhealthy bad habits. Plus she's put on 20 pounds. Also, you finally start to realize this really isn't a healthy thing at all for your own bank account. Stage 3 - Your in too deep. The arguments start getting physical, that 15 minute a day thing that you loved so much at the beginning has long come and gone. Special and different has turned into psycho and calculating. You're now thinking about cutting your losses, and hopefully, if you're smart, you are only moments away from running like hell while you still can.

Mate, you must be solidly out to lunch. You want somebody to jump through all the hoops to get a yellow book, just to be able to eventually get a pink card, which doesn't even serve the purpose of being a visa status ID card (as per the original post). What's the point of that? Are you a Trump supporter too?

I heard this works really well.

NFG FFS

The bike has no insurance yet I was told, don't know why. Her car has insurance, but since I'm not a licensed driver in Thailand they won't cover it.

So I went to a birthday party at my Thai girlfriend’s upcountry family home over the weekend. After we were there for a while, my GF asked me to move her car so that someone else could exit the compound with their car from the parking area at the front of the house. I already had a few drinks at that point and I accidentally plowed the back of her car right into her brother’s brand new Ducati sport motorcycle that was parked behind her car. There is only a bit of damage to the back of her car, luckily only the bumper cover is a bit scuffed, but when I crashed into his motorcycle it got smashed up pretty badly against the wall on the other side. Thus, there is damage to two sides of his bike. From the car hitting it and then from when the motorcycle hit the wall. And then the bike fell over when I pulled the car forward a bit after the accident. The damage from the car to the bike wasn't so bad but the wall really smashed up the bike on the other side and the fall presumably added to the damage of the petrol tank on the side of the bike that I crashed into as there were a couple of large stones on the ground that the bike landed on top of when it fell over. It was so dark that I couldn't really see all the damage I caused until we got some flashlights after the accident. Everyone in her family was really good about it, but I could see from the look in their eyes that they weren’t impressed at all with my little stunt. Now I’ve gotta get my GF’s car fixed, which isn't so bad, but the worst part is how to deal with the bike. It’s a lot of monetary damage and I don’t have the money right now to pay for all the imported Italian parts needed for the repair, however her brother obviously wants his expensive and new 998cc sport bike repaired ASAP, and I don't blame him fir how he feels. This isn’t looking good for me. Probably a big loss of face in the eyes of her family that I won’t be able to recover from. My girlfriend says she isn’t angry, but she hasn’t acted her same warm way towards me since the accident. So I don’t know how things are going to go with her in the future. We haven't had any intimacy together since the tragic event. At the moment though the biggest problem is how to pay for the damage to the car and motorcycle and make good on everything I did. I can now pay for the car repairs as I said, but I told them I would need a bit of time to transfer the money in for the bike repairs, although the truth is I don't have the cash readily available. I have a property overseas I could possibly sell, but my parents are living in the place right now and selling a property takes time anyway. Don't think I can qualify for a bank loan either at the moment. I’m not really sure what to do next.