Alpha84

Think I'd prefer two tongues rather than two thumbs. Have you tried that?

You've lost me now. So where does the big handed LB fit into all this?

It can actually happen at any age.

Only the finest pleasures in life, aye?

Why not just have the big handed LB rub the gel on your shoulders for you? Or did you try that and it didn't work?

So that's how you roll? Any two particular fingers that you favor?

Put a cork in it.

Just consider it a free lube job. You are blessed!

How delightful. Thank you for sharing. It's wonderful to hear about someone taking romance to the highest of levels. I'll bet that also helps to put you both deeply in the mood for bumping uglies. Your post flatulence copulation must be unhinged!

Back to jail? He never spent a single full day in jail, did he? It won't happen. This is just more political theater.

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Your Well-being Might be Compromised When you’re seen as a target, you’re more likely to encounter manipulative tactics designed to take advantage of your perceived wealth or inexperience. This could range from simple overcharging or upselling to more serious scams that may involve emotional manipulation, lies about financial or family emergencies, or attempts to extract ongoing support. In extreme cases, you might even be targeted for theft or worse. When you’re viewed as an easy mark, you’re less likely to be treated with genuine respect, and this can lead to negative, even dangerous, experiences. You mentioned that having a girl try her hardest to make you fall in love sounds like it would lead to a better performance in bed. While it’s true that emotional engagement can improve chemistry, you shouldn’t confuse a girl playing the “long game” with someone actually giving you the best possible experience. In reality, when someone views you as a target, their focus is on what they can extract from you, not necessarily on creating a meaningful or mutually satisfying interaction. A professional who respects you and views you as a savvy client might actually be more motivated to give you a great experience because she understands that you have boundaries and expectations. Emotional Manipulation Takes a Toll Getting involved in the “long game” can mess with your emotions, especially if you’re new to this scene. Even if you go in knowing it’s all transactional, it’s easy to become emotionally attached to someone who’s actively trying to make you feel special. You might start developing feelings or hopes for something real, and this can lead to disappointment, frustration, or even heartbreak when the reality becomes clear. Emotional manipulation is exhausting, and once you’re tangled in it, it can be hard to extricate yourself without feeling used or betrayed. Keeping Boundaries Is Important In this scene, clear boundaries are your best defense. If you’re seen as knowledgeable and aware of the dynamics, you’ll be treated differently. Girls are less likely to try long-term schemes if they know you’re not easily fooled, and this can lead to more straightforward, honest interactions. Many professionals respect clients who know the game because they understand the value of a clean transaction without emotional manipulation. This way, you get what you pay for without any added drama or risk. Potential for Financial Loss If a girl is playing the long game, her goal is to secure as much financial benefit from you as possible. This could lead to you spending far more than you initially intended, either through repeated transactions or through emotional manipulation that convinces you to send money for things like medical bills, family emergencies, or “business investments” that never materialize. Even if you’re comfortable spending money, these long-term schemes can drain your resources quickly. True Power is in Control, Not Vulnerability It’s tempting to think that being seen as vulnerable or naïve will make a girl more interested in pleasing you, but the opposite is often true. When you’re in control of the situation—knowing the rules, setting clear boundaries, and making informed decisions—you’re more likely to have a positive experience. Vulnerability can lead to exploitation, whereas confidence and awareness can lead to better treatment and more satisfying encounters. A girl who knows you’re not easily fooled may actually work harder to provide a good service, knowing that you’ll leave if you’re not satisfied. Avoiding Reputational Damage Word spreads quickly in certain P2P circles. If you’re seen as an easy mark, other girls may also try to take advantage of you. You could quickly become known as someone who’s vulnerable to scams or manipulation, making it harder to have straightforward, hassle-free encounters in the future. Establishing yourself as a client who knows the game can help ensure that your future experiences are more respectful and drama-free. While it might seem appealing to have someone go the extra mile to make you feel loved and special, the long game comes with a lot of risks. Emotional manipulation, financial loss, and even potential harm to your well-being can all result from being seen as an easy target. Instead, focus on being a savvy client who knows the scene, sets clear boundaries, and prioritizes straightforward, respectful interactions. In the long run, this will lead to better experiences, both emotionally and physically, and will help you avoid the pitfalls that come from being seen as a mark.

Kind of like one who flew over the cuckoo's nest.

Maybe his wife only charges him 100 Baht, which, in this case, is a much better value for money.

Get a new boyfriend. Then problem solved.

Let's say that you fit in with some of the physical stereotypes about the types of unappealing looking foreigners that come to Thailand. Then let's say you want to come to Thailand on your own to have a nice holiday and just relax in hotels, travel around, have some good meals, etc. How will you be treated by the locals? Will they treat you nicely, even if you look far from being Tom Cruise?