Thank you... its more like your second quote “On the other hand, if you haven't been sending financial support, then maybe it's not a bad arrangement”
everything you said in the paragraph is more or less true. She knows Im not a typical rich Farang man and the plan was to see if could afford more visits each year eventually I would set up my t shirt business at her house and provide for us both. But since covid things have got worse.
She went with another man just before covid I have video proof. My business is not doing very well.
Just yesterday I had a discussion with her on skype and she now told me because she is over 50 years and she dry downstairs even-though I said we should what to do to make more fun for us both she now shock her head and said no sex. I said ok so what about me. She then held her hand up and jolted them up and down stating she would give me relief.
I also told her I dont see me being able to set up my business in Thailand is there any way we can combine our money together as she has many lands and wants to start hotel. She replied not possible to much money. So ther I am even more in a dilemma. p.s. She has already been married and divorced with 2 children from previous Thailand man.