I am an American woman, old and wise, with a 50 year old son. He spent twenty years being married to a Philippine lady, and now is making plans to marry a Thailand woman. My son never wants to go back to America and even talked me into coming here to live. He absolutely despises white women, even though he's white himself. Now I am in Thailand, too, his white mother, and stuck in all this weird divorce stuff going on with #1. Sometimes I feel like hiding! And Hey! Why is it always about the women? I mean, I think Thailand guys are over-the-top wonderful!