Spiff

Spiff I do read this daily but had no reason to respond. Tell me (and the others) your story. I am interested. Maybe you will be right (although I have no reason to change my view as of yet).

Ok. You are right. I should tell my complete story but the main problem is that it is so long, and english is not my original language so it's going to take me many hours just to write it. I know it sounds stupid but it is the truth. I have told my story to lots of people so it's not that it's a secret or anything it's just so much easier to tell it and answer any questions directly. My experience with message boards is that way to often people misunderstand what you write or read it different than what you meant so you end up getting tons of questions regarding everything from misspelling to questions regarding my dicksize, if you know what I mean..Therfore I whish I could sit down and have a talk and hopefully you would understand that most people here write their answer to you based on their experiences in Thailand. It is to help you and not just to say that we know something you don't. I think you would understand that the way you feel about this girl and the fact that you know that you love her and you probably feel that other don't understand because they have not meet this girl and don't know her like you, is just the same experience as too many of us have allready had.

I have not deceided to not write my story..I will think about it but as I said, it's going to be very long and in a way there is nothing special about it. The fact is that it is too common and maybe that's the mainpoint. These things happen all the time..in most relationships involving thais/farangs I would think. I really don't think there are many relationship between a Thaigirl / westernmen that are based on love from both sides. Just after I found out about what my gf was doing I spent one month holloday in Thailand and I told my story to many of my friends living in Thailand and their friends again. What I learned was that I was lucky. I found out before I got married and before I lost to much money. It was scaring talking to these people because they have been here so long and seen so much. They knew the reality. One of the guys have run a resturand/hotel for many years. He meet thai/farang couples everyday and had hundreds of "friends" who had been married or where supposed to get married over the years. When I asked how many he knew that lived happily he and he's friends just laughed..after a lot of arguing they agreed that they knew about 5 couples that they knew about where the man (hopefully wife too)was happy and in the rest of the cases, most eneded in disaster..someone lived together and the man was happy not knowing the girl was ######ing around or had not yet realised how much money the girl was milking of him. The story was allways the same. They tried to tell the man what whas going on but he allways knew best. "This girl is special", "She loves me", "You don't know here like I do". I know beccause I said just that about my girlfriend. She was the best! Perfect! For two years we had no fighting and I never once caught her lying. Now when I know the truht and have been able to get in touch with ceveral of the other guys she stayed with (Some of them are my friends now) I have found out what really happened and it is just unbelivable. Anyway..that's the story I have not written yet.. What I'm trying to say is..ehh..I forgot but I hope you get the point..People here are saying this to help you! You asked and you got true answers. Try doing something about it before it is to late. Check as much as possible and see the reality now mater how hard it is. If not you will soon be joining the club saying "I should have seen it!"..

SPIFF

Interesting reading..I whis I had joined this forum before.

Now Hastings!! It seems like you don't post here anymore but I really hope that you do read what everyone is saying. I really wish I could sit down with you and tell you my story. Reading your posting and answer allmost made me cry. YOU ARE BEEING SCAMMED!! Take it from a man who knows!!

Now if you don't want to listen to what people write then do yourself a big favour. Spend some money on a privateeye. Let him/them check her story..It's smal money compared to what you will loose the next years. (No I am not in the business and do not make any money on this). If you are really really lucky they will say everything is ok and all of us where wrong but really man! We are not!! If we are I will suck you dry! I give you my word!

Before I did not care about all these stupid farangs throwing money after a girl but now I have just been there myself. Perfect girl..University..Known her for two years..perfect family..allmost no questions for money..oh..there is so much moore.. but I loved her and trusted her 100%. The reality hit me like a hammer. And when I started checking..man! it just got worse and worse and worse..it's like it's never ending. They are "just" poor Issan girls but man are they clever!

Hastings PLEASE! I can't watch this anymore!!

SPIFF