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After many years its seem I'm about to become reluctantly single.

and being left holding the baby(s) so to speak. long sad story that may be worth a long story post at some time

end result is I'm going to be a single middle aged farang with 2 young children (5&8) living without a partner over on the darkside.

I'd like occasionally to get out at least potentially to give myself a break or find a new friend maybe. not fun being the only single guy with kids in pattaya lol

does anyone know of any good babysitters ? need to be reliable and very trustworthy of course. and not to expensive as i lost my business with the break

my g/f is from a small village just outside wang nam yen. sister works at wangnamyen hospital

i've been looking at buying some land near there to build a house.

my favorite was 4rai for 100k bhat , right on the road, but alas sor bor kor on a 10 rai paper so i felt it to risky a proposition to jump on this. also have another 20 rai a family member is more than happy to sell us to grow euculiptus trees on if we want . but still nothing i'm confident would be safe to build a nice house on.

all i've seen so far is sor por kor, so not much use to a farang

is there much around the area with "real" paperwork ?

have traveled up there around 10 times now in the last year and i've only ever seen 1 other farang LOL and he was doing i 7/11 run on his motorbike .

would love to know any of the english speaking farangs in this area so i can get local advise on the land i'm looking for etc ..

and finaly is there any nightlife for a farang in the area of any description ?

am over here this time till 4th april so anyone around ?