nothailady

Hi saliSa

returned only today and saw your posting...

I guessed I have to agreed with Bendix, men are fools and should never be left unaccompanied to Thailand, Thailand is indeed an Unsupervised, unguarded Sweetshop...

We, women on the other hand thought we can faithfully trust these men whom we are married to but foolish of us.. Trust is always taken for granted but never appreciated..

As I put up I am still observing...In the recent emails i read, I found out that they were talking on the phone too and a big fool I am. COs it was going on for almost 1yr now before I discovered. He is using another phone line behind my back to communicate with her. Whether did he visit her again, probably not in Phuket as far as I know based on his travel records .But any other parts of thailand, seriously I have no ideas cos he does travel often to different part of thailand for biz. From the emails, I can tell the girl is agressive, every line is I love u and i miss you, I want to see u and stay with u blah blah blah... Someone suggested probably was written by some email writer in Patong beach, I think maybe it's true.

In fact, i started to check on him because I noticed his sudden liking in thai stuffs, listening to thai songs, visitin thai discos even back in our own country. Till now he isn't aware of my findings but lately I have dropped obvious hints regarding Spyware on computers, Infidelity and my personal prejudice on Thai girls (sorry is a personal thoughts, hope is no offence to anyone ). If he is smart enough, he should know which direction to head.

Come to think back, I was foolish to try to stop thing from happening. If this man thinks he enjoys and wants this kind of attention rather then cherish the loved ones at Home. Let him be and let him GO.. He will regret in a matter of time..

It is so unfair we get all the pains, drop tonnes of tears for their playful adventures. so saliSa, we should stay strong for ourselves and our babies. We must protect ourselves, our babies and be Good Mummies and we will get our fair treatment. Stay strong, be a happy mama, have a smooth delivery. cheers

I really appreciate all your advises whether helpful or just chipping in for fun. I know I should approach my man to get the truth I wanted.. Yes you can say I am jealous or I am fearful of the truth...I didn't want confrontation cos I have 2 kids to consider for even though if the truth is undesired... I am really grateful for all the kind souls who give considerate advises. I do hope that this episode will end like most drama where the man returns back to his family at last. I know it a hope, mayb unrealistic.

For now, I should stay calm and observe and finally decided the destiny for me and dear babies..

Thanks all

I've just recently found out that my husband got to know this thai lady a yr ago from his last trip to Phuket.. since then they have been communicating via email. Althought they have not met since then but this girl had been very initiative expressive in her mails till now, expressing her love for him, Anyone can advise me how can I stop this without having confrontation?

Or if someone happen to know girl by the name of jeab <edit>, please advise her to wake up from her unrealistic dream...